188: Andy Arnold – Exhortation: Friendship

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Welcome to Good Burger selfie
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Welcome to the good.
Chris it up and talks podcast.

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This is brother Brian.
This week’s talk is an

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excitation by Brother Andy
Arnold, which was given last

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August at the Burnside Ecclesia
and South Australia and it was

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titled friendship.
This one hits home for being a

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straightforward reminder, to put
the time in and to work on our

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friendships, to go out of our
way to think about those, that

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could use an extra boost or
those that maybe we’ve lost

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touch with over the past couple
of years.

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Brother Andy points out how
loaded scripture is with a

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diverse array of friendship
examples and how the backbone of

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them.
All is a self-sacrificing love

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One that’s best exemplified by
our Lord and Master Jesus.

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The Christ.
But even more, I found it to be

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just such a good motivator to
make the effort to be a better

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friend especially in light of
how damaging the pandemic has

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been on our ability to truly be
closed with one another and to

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be able to keep tabs on how our
faith is holding up.

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I loved all of his call to
action suggestions.

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For all the age groups that were
represented in the audience,

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you’ll know it when you hear it
and I think those same

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suggestions, they’re going to
apply to any of you that are

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listening to this.
So, from Lads Two, Dads, two,

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weary mom’s young people, and
even small children.

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I think I appreciate that even
more, that he gave it a shout

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out to the little kids in the
audience.

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The point being I think we can
all benefit from a reminder and

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what it means to be a Godly
friend and how critical these

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friendships can be in preventing
heartache and the epidemic of

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loneliness.
As always, we hope this

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strengthens your faith, hope
that it strengthens your

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friendships work on your
friendships and we hope this

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brightens your day.
Brother, Andy, Arnold

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friendship.
Oh, good morning everyone here.

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And good morning everybody
joining in on Zoom.

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I know some of you are in
quarantine, after escaping wet,

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Adelaide to head over to
Queensland so bad luck.

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But that’s what you get, but I
hope you can all be back amongst

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us soon to some of the others
may be tuning in.

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Maybe you aren’t well or you’re
staying home to be safe or maybe

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you woke up today and you’re
going through a tough time and

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you just couldn’t step out.
That front door today, and

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that’s okay.
I pray, we are all able to catch

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up again soon in one way or
another.

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And everyone else here as well.
It’s good to see you.

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It’s good to see that you could
make it here.

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And the best thing about Sunday
mornings especially every week

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is it’s an hour where we can
just come here and we can really

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out that door just and if you
haven’t done it yet do it now

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just unburden yourselves and lay
everything aside because we’re

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here this morning with our King,
So the subject I had to just

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discuss with you this morning as
we prepare to break bread and

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drink wine has been on my mind
for a few years and I actually

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settled on it.
Last time we visited Burnside

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this year and heard brother,
Dave speak to us, the subject is

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friendship.
You say Dave spoke so

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beautifully about God and Jesus
is attitude towards anxiety and

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depression and near the end of
his eggs or he touched on

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friendship and to steal some of
his words.

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He said, friendships mean a huge
amount.

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Friendships are massive.
In your life never ever

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underestimate.
Friendship friendship often is

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what it will take to get you
through life.

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In the situation of anxiety and
depression and also loneliness,

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a friend, that just sits with
you or lessons, can be a

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physical reminder that somebody
loves you and that someone

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actually cares.
Never abandon a friend.

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Sometimes you’re all they’ve
got.

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And Proverbs 17 verse 17.
A friend is always loyal or a

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friend loves at all times.
So this helped me to work on the

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words to try and deliver this
message today as we meet around

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this table.
So, why friendship?

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Well, it starts for me with this
verse one of my favorite verses,

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which I actually spoke on last
time I was here at Burnside when

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we spoke about Hope, and then I
recently touched on it with Josh

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mr.
Marshall today, when we did a

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podcast for young people with
faith and so, I thought it’d be

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fitting to finish with the third
word from this verse First

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Corinthians 13 verse 13.
And now these three remain Five,

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hope and love.
But the greatest of these is

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love.
I honestly believe that these

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three words summarize everything
about our God and about his

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plan.
From the beginning of the Bible

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to the end.
But the greatest of these is

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love.
Now, loving itself is a whole

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other subject that we could
speak on for hours, but it’s

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these verses from our reading
today that draw us into our

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subject this morning from John
15 as the father has loved me.

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So have I Loved You Now remain
in my love.

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If you keep my Commandments, you
will remain in my love.

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Just as I have kept, my father’s
commands and remain in his love.

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I’ve told you this so that my
joy may be in you and that your

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joy may be complete.
And my command is this love each

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other.
As I have loved you.

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Greater love has no one than
this to lay down, one’s life for

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one’s friends.
And you are my friends.

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If you do what I command, I no
longer call you servants because

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a servant doesn’t know what his
master’s business is.

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Instead, I have called you
friends for everything that I

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have learned from my father, I
have made known to you.

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You see here, we’re commanded to
love each other the same way

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that Jesus loves us.
And here, we read that there’s

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no greater love than to lay down
your life for your friends.

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There is no greater love.
And we’re going to come back to

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that again in a bit.
So here we are directly called

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friends of our King and our
savior.

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If we follow his commands, So,
the importance of friendship in

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the Bible.
Let’s start there.

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It starts back in the Garden of
Eden.

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God, mentions how good
everything is as he creates

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them.
But then there’s something that

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I hadn’t noticed before I’d read
it but glossed over it in

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Genesis 2 Verse 18, God says
it’s not good.

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He’s just created the whole
world as we know it and he said

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every day, this is good.
And he said, something’s not

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good.
That man should be alone.

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This was before sin had entered
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Adam was not yet complete, he
needed Community, he needed

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company, he needed friendship.
The first problem in the world

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wasn’t actually sin, it was
solitude.

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And friendship is then whole
Bible theme, it obviously starts

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with Adam and Eve from a human
sense, but then it’s touched on

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with relationships with our God
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We read Enoch and Noah, who
walked with God.

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It’s a Hebrew expression of
friendship.

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Abraham was called a friend of
God in Isaiah Moses spoke with

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God face to face as a man speaks
with his friend.

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You see, God invented friendship
and he’s been building it and

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restoring it with us since the
very beginning.

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And then he sent the world, his
son, to be the Friend of Sinners

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befriending, all who trust and
follow him.

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So who are some other great
examples of friendship in the

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Bible?
Well, you probably already

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thinking of some of them, but
what about David and Jonathan of

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all the friendships in the Bible
that of David and Jonathan

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stands out, probably the most
first Samuel 18 describes their

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friendship as soon as he had
finished speaking to Saul.

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The soul of Jonathan was neat to
the soul of David and Jonathan

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loved him as his own soul.
You see, imagine in life

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battling Against All Odds,
facing the anger and the

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politics of important people in
your life, but having your best

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mate on the other side to
confide in, and Trust to have

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your back.
And what about Moses and Aaron?

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The partnership of Moses and
Aaron is one of the greatest

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examples of two friends working
together to do something great.

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Imagine those times you’ve been
really in a really nervous

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situation, may be presenting at
work or presenting something at

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school, maybe at the meeting
doing doing an egg’s order or

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your first talk, maybe when
you’re in front of a group of

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new mums or ladies or you’re
about to try a new hobby and you

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know, you get a bit wobbly, you
get a bit shaky, Moses had his

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friend, his brother, his best
mate there to strengthen him in,

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to do the talking for him.
What about Elijah and Elisha?

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Elijah was the well-known
prophet of Israel.

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He was the man who called down
the fires of Heaven, defeating

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the prophets of Baal and the man
who caused a drought in Israel

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for three years through prayer.
And to help him carry out his

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work.
God saw it fit to send the

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younger.
Elijah, a friend and an eventual

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successor.
You see, I age also doesn’t

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matter in friendship and
experience, doesn’t always

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matter.
It’s all about the relationship.

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What about this one Naomi and
Ruth?

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The story of Naomi and her
daughter-in-law Ruth is one of

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the fringes of one of friendship
found in a very unlikely place.

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I mean, how often have we heard
the jokes and opinions about

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parents-in-law and
mothers-in-law.

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But here is an example of a true
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Ruth didn’t hesitate to give
when Naomi was in need.

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This is the kind of action that
creates the strongest of

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friendships and gives us a sense
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We know that when we’re in
trouble, someone will be there

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for us.
And we have Daniel and Shadrach

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Meshach and Abednego.
The relationship between Daniel

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and his three.
Best friends help us think about

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the real meaning of friendship.
These three young Lads grew in

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their faith together.
They stood by each other during

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some trials and they never
allowed their friendship to take

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God’s place in their lives.
Not even in the face of death

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and for teenagers.
And young people here.

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This is such a good example
about friendship.

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Something to read about lean on
each other through whatever life

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throws at you.
I’m not really going to go into

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how to make friends and the
advice and warnings Etc of

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friendships, but that is a
fantastic study to do especially

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with kids and with our young
people, as they learn to

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navigate relationships in life.
What is good though?

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Is realizing the Bible and in
particular, The Book of Proverbs

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is a practical guide to real
true friendships.

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It gives us wisdom and helps us
navigate this amazing and

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Powerful gift.
But something that can be

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complex at times and needs
constant thought and work to

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get, right?
Because I will just add.

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I’m by no means an expert on
friendship.

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I’ve had to work on it.
A lot in my life.

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You have friends that come and
go in your life.

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I have friends that I’ve made
within the last year, people are

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really close friendships.
And I’ve had other friendships

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that I’ve lost over time and I
have regrets about it, but it’s

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something we all go through.
So, keep working on it.

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So some verses from Proverbs
Proverbs 12 verse 26.

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The righteous choose their
friends carefully.

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But the Way of the Wicked leads
them astray, 16:28.

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A perverse person stirs up,
conflict, and a gossip separates

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close friends. 17:9, whoever
would Foster love covers over

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and offense but whoever repeats
the matter, separates close

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friends. 17 verse 17 that we
touched on earlier a friend

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loves at all times.
And a brother is born for a time

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of adversity. 18:24 one who has
unreliable friends, soon comes

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to ruin, but there is a friend
who sticks closer than a brother

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13:20 walk with the wise and
become wise for a companion of

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fools suffers harm.
And a great one is 27:17 as iron

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sharpens iron.
So one person sharpens another,

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we really can help each other
out with friendship.

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So they’re all from Proverbs a
great place to start.

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When studying friendship a
couple of other great Bible

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verses Ecclesiastes 4 verse 9 to
12 Two people are better off

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than one.
For they can help each other

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succeed.
If one person falls the other

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can reach out and help but
someone who falls alone is in

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real trouble.
Likewise two people lying.

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Close together can keep each
other warm, but how can one be

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warm alone?
A person standing alone can be

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attacked and defeated and I love
this bit here but two can stand

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back to back and conquer.
Three are even better for a

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triple braided.
Cord is not easily broken. 1st

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John 4 verse 11, dear friends,
since God loved us that much.

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We surely ought to love each
other.

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And Philippians 2, verse 3.
Do nothing out of selfish

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ambition or vain conceit, rather
in humility value, others above

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yourselves.
Galatians 6:12.

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Sorry I have his the last one.
Carry each other’s burdens.

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And in this way, you will
fulfill the law of Christ.

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You see, friendship our
friendship builds, and

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strengthens our community that
we’re in in a world facing many

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epidemics, we have one very big
one growing every day.

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The loneliness epidemic And
places like our Ecclesia has

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meetings churches.
Gatherings.

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These are the places that we can
build friendships and build

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relationships and be a safe,
welcoming Community to those in

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need of friendship.
One of the main goals of the

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Gospel is friendship.
You see, if we’re telling

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people, the good news about the
kingdom of God, and the name of

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Jesus Christ.
Then we need to be telling them

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that following Jesus and
obeying, his Commandments

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results in us being counted as
one of his friends.

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So friendship, how important and
how powerful is it?

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Well it’s important enough and
powerful enough to be something

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that even the world around us
tries to hold onto and it’s

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referenced in stories and movies
and songs every day.

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A day without a friend is like a
pot without a single drop of

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Honey left inside says winning
the poop.

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You have Harry Potter, you have
Lord of the Rings, The

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Chronicles of Narnia, you have
movies, kids movies like Toy

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Story and recently, the Heritage
College production of Wind in

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the Willows.
In all these things we see

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friendship and love used as the
theme creating magic and power

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that defeats every obstacle and
let’s friends work together for

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victory.
I jumped onto the Quran

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Christian website because I
thought I’ll tell you about some

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good resources on friendship
that they have. 1600 items came

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up on their website.
So good luck.

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It’s a big deal.
Another group of subjects that

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I’m passionate about is
awareness of mental health,

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Suicide, Prevention and
loneliness.

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They all have their research and
their support groups, refer to

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friendship and having somebody
to talk to and confide in as

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being so important.
Reaching out, when things get,

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tough is so vital, but we need
to have someone to turn to don’t

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And on the flipside of that, we
need to make sure that we are

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being a friend that someone else
can come too.

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If able to and we need to know
how to ask if they’re okay and

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how to listen to them and how to
respond.

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And there’s a lot of great info
out there.

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If this is something you want to
learn more about and I’m always

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happy to help point you in the
right direction.

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If I can Friendship isn’t easy.
And it’s different for all of us

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at different times in our lives.
So for the men here today, dad’s

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Sons Brothers mates, look out
for each other.

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Make time for each other.
As dogs, we have a tendency to

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bottle it up inside.
I know that as well as anyone

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but lean on your friends and
your mates.

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And remember, we have some great
examples that God has given us,

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go grab a coffee or a burger, go
kick a footy or have a hit, a

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goal.
Go fishing.

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Go cook a T-bone steak, and
while you’re at it, why not

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message a few other blokes to
join in with you.

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Always keep an eye out on each
other.

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And to our mom’s our wives, our
daughters, our sisters, and our

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ladies here, how are you all
going as?

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If life isn’t tough enough with
the pressures of society,

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without throwing in pandemics
and lockdowns, it’s been a tough

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couple of weeks and for those
others around Australia, it’s

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been a tough year.
But ladies have you caught up

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with a friend lately?
Do you need to get out of the

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house and confide in a buddy
about the good?

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All the bad things happening in
your life at the moment.

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Have you noticed, another lady?
That might be doing it tough at

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the moment or feeling lonely.
Arrange a catch-up, get someone

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to watch the kids if you can.
I know it’s hard, folks, help

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out and go and make some time
for a friendship recharge.

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Ruth and Naomi and other awesome
female characters of the Bible,

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are there to encourage To our
teenagers here and young adults,

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got a great group here at
Burnside.

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Is school or uni or work or
relationship issues on your

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mind?
Hit up a friend text call email,

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tweet or hashtag a buddy.
Remember age doesn’t matter,

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either you may make a friend
with an oldie or even someone

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younger than you and and that’s
great.

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The inspiration for you can be
Daniel and his mates and David

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and Jonathan.
And to any kid, he’s trying to

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listen to me ramble on this
morning as well.

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Kids be a good friend, be kind
and be helpful.

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Stand up for your mates and
always ask your parents or your

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older brothers, or sisters, or
even your school teachers, if

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you need help with your
friendship circles.

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So all of this leads us back to
the verses, we started with and

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why we’re here this morning.
This is why friendship matters.

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This is why it’s important and
why it’s powerful.

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The ultimate example of
friendship.

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But not just a friendship of
relationship.

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It’s that between Mankind and
the Lord Jesus Christ.

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See, Jesus said in John, 15
verse 13.

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Greater love has no one than
this, that he lay down his life

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for his friends.
Christ is the purest example of

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a friend that we can find in the
Bible laying down his life.

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His extraordinary valuable life
for the friends whom he loved.

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Even though he had the power to
call those around him, his

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servants, he called them his
friends.

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Jesus also showed us another
much-needed.

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Attribute of a friend.
He wasn’t afraid of giving

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loving constructive criticism.
His simple phrase of go and sin.

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No more.
It wasn’t an insult.

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It wasn’t hateful or shaming.
It was a simple caution and

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encouragement to live
differently.

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Christ wasn’t afraid of pointing
out the best way to live.

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He didn’t do this in an amazing
or out their way, however, he

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simply made his point and then
he lived out what he was doing

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as an example.
The truest friend is Jesus.

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And friends are like-minded.
They love one another with

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sacrificial love.
We are blessed to have been

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adopted into the family of God
and to have been made friends of

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Jesus.
And in return, we’re called to

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be good friends to each other.
The Bible teaches us that true

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friendship is characterized by
love.

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And the Proverbs which we read
the examples of David and

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Jonathan and those other
characters the instructions to

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our kaliesha’s and ultimately
Jesus example, all depict true

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friendship.
A true friend loves gives wise

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counsel remains loyal forgives.
And promotes the welfare of

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others.
So let’s lay it all out this

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morning at our Lord’s feet, Our
Savior, our King, and our

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friend, the Lord Jesus Christ.
He laid down his life for his

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friends.
And why will John chapter 3?

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John chapter 3 verse 14 to 17
and as Moses lifted up, the

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serpent in the wilderness even
so must the son of man be lifted

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up.
That whosoever believeth in him,

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should not perish, but have
eternal life.

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And this is it right here in
verse 16, for God, so loved the

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world.
That he gave his only begotten

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son that whosoever believeth in
him should not perish, but have

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everlasting life.
For God sent not his son into

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the world to condemn the world,
but that the world through him

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might be saved.
I’ve seen the heartache of

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parents losing a child first
hand.

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Twice in my life.
It’s something I will never

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forget.
It’s something I wish I had

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never seen.
And it’s something that no one

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should have to go through and
I’m respectful of anyone that

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has gone through it.
But it’s also the two times in

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my life that I realized, just
how powerful verse 16 really is.

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Because God loved the world so
much.

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And keep in mind it’s the world
that hates him.

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It’s the world that hates his
son.

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God, loved the world so much
that he gave his son. and I look

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at the pain of those parents
losing their child and it makes

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me realize how powerful God’s
love really is our God gave his

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only son so that we could be
saved.

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And that was done through the
most, ultimate Act of friendship

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ever seen in Jesus laying down
his life for us.

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Let’s pray to our God.
Now through our savior and our

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mediator and our friend, as we
break this bread and eat it.

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And as we pour this wine and we
drink it because we love Because

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God first loved us and we can be
good friends because we have the

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best example of a friend ever
sang.

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So, stay safe everybody.
Work on your friendships in the

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weeks and months and years to
come, reach out to somebody.

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Check in on somebody and keep
working away at it until we

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finally meet our friend
face-to-face.

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