{"id":1414,"date":"2025-12-29T09:02:00","date_gmt":"2025-12-29T09:02:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/goodchristadelphiantalks.com\/index.php\/podcast\/jared-schipper-judah-in-his-family-class-2-learning-lifes-hard-lessons\/"},"modified":"2026-08-08T00:32:54","modified_gmt":"2026-08-08T00:32:54","slug":"jared-schipper-judah-in-his-family-class-2-learning-lifes-hard-lessons","status":"publish","type":"podcast","link":"https:\/\/goodchristadelphiantalks.com\/index.php\/podcast\/jared-schipper-judah-in-his-family-class-2-learning-lifes-hard-lessons\/","title":{"rendered":"Jared Schipper &#8211; Judah &#8211; In His Family &#8211; Class 2 &#8211; Learning Life&#8217;s Hard Lessons"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Class 2 from this series was used in GCT Episode 380.<\/p>\n<div class=\"transcript\">1<br \/>\n00:00:00,120 &#8211;&gt; 00:00:03,480<br \/>\nCan I say upfront, thank you<br \/>\nguys for coming and chatting. <\/p>\n<p>2<br \/>\n00:00:04,280 &#8211;&gt; 00:00:07,640<br \/>\nThere is nothing better than<br \/>\nbeing able to talk to people <\/p>\n<p>3<br \/>\n00:00:08,200 &#8211;&gt; 00:00:11,720<br \/>\nabout what you&#8217;ve just shared.<br \/>\nOne, because you learn a lot and<\/p>\n<p>4<br \/>\n00:00:11,720 &#8211;&gt; 00:00:14,240<br \/>\nI appreciated the people that<br \/>\nhave made comments, but two, <\/p>\n<p>5<br \/>\n00:00:14,240 &#8211;&gt; 00:00:16,480<br \/>\nit&#8217;s just good to meet people.<br \/>\nSo don&#8217;t feel shy. <\/p>\n<p>6<br \/>\n00:00:16,480 &#8211;&gt; 00:00:22,880<br \/>\nPlease just come and chat.<br \/>\nLove to All right, awkward <\/p>\n<p>7<br \/>\n00:00:22,880 &#8211;&gt; 00:00:26,480<br \/>\nchapter.<br \/>\nSorry more of the awkwardness. <\/p>\n<p>8<br \/>\n00:00:26,680 &#8211;&gt; 00:00:29,040<br \/>\nI apologize again, but it&#8217;s<br \/>\nreal. <\/p>\n<p>9<br \/>\n00:00:29,720 &#8211;&gt; 00:00:33,040<br \/>\nIt&#8217;s God&#8217;s family, and there&#8217;s<br \/>\nsome real stuff in this that we <\/p>\n<p>10<br \/>\n00:00:33,040 &#8211;&gt; 00:00:36,160<br \/>\nneed to think about.<br \/>\nWe came to this point where <\/p>\n<p>11<br \/>\n00:00:36,160 &#8211;&gt; 00:00:39,200<br \/>\nJudah feels like he&#8217;s got to<br \/>\nleave the family home. <\/p>\n<p>12<br \/>\n00:00:39,920 &#8211;&gt; 00:00:43,080<br \/>\nAnd I want you to think for a<br \/>\nsecond what drove Judah to that <\/p>\n<p>13<br \/>\n00:00:43,080 &#8211;&gt; 00:00:47,440<br \/>\npoint, how he felt when he&#8217;s<br \/>\nleaving the family home. <\/p>\n<p>14<br \/>\n00:00:49,520 &#8211;&gt; 00:00:52,960<br \/>\nBecause no doubt Judah thought<br \/>\nhe was being big, brave, bold, <\/p>\n<p>15<br \/>\n00:00:52,960 &#8211;&gt; 00:00:56,120<br \/>\ncoming out on his own, not<br \/>\nhanging around with that stupid <\/p>\n<p>16<br \/>\n00:00:56,120 &#8211;&gt; 00:00:59,120<br \/>\nfamily that keep moaning about<br \/>\nthe past and all the dumb things<\/p>\n<p>17<br \/>\n00:00:59,120 &#8211;&gt; 00:01:02,600<br \/>\nthat are going on.<br \/>\nBitterness, usual resentment <\/p>\n<p>18<br \/>\n00:01:02,600 &#8211;&gt; 00:01:05,040<br \/>\nthat builds up.<br \/>\nAnd that&#8217;s the perspective. <\/p>\n<p>19<br \/>\n00:01:06,080 &#8211;&gt; 00:01:08,400<br \/>\nSo he&#8217;s going out to find<br \/>\nhimself. <\/p>\n<p>20<br \/>\n00:01:09,600 &#8211;&gt; 00:01:13,240<br \/>\nHe&#8217;s going out on a journey in<br \/>\nlife to explore who he is. <\/p>\n<p>21<br \/>\n00:01:13,240 &#8211;&gt; 00:01:16,400<br \/>\nCan you, can you feel that?<br \/>\nDo you hear people talk like <\/p>\n<p>22<br \/>\n00:01:16,480 &#8211;&gt; 00:01:18,880<br \/>\nthat?<br \/>\nIf you hear people say that <\/p>\n<p>23<br \/>\n00:01:18,880 &#8211;&gt; 00:01:20,600<br \/>\ntoday, they&#8217;re going out to find<br \/>\nwho they are. <\/p>\n<p>24<br \/>\n00:01:20,600 &#8211;&gt; 00:01:23,960<br \/>\nThey&#8217;re going on some journey of<br \/>\nself discovery. <\/p>\n<p>25<br \/>\n00:01:23,960 &#8211;&gt; 00:01:26,800<br \/>\nThey&#8217;re going to find themselves<br \/>\nout there in the world. <\/p>\n<p>26<br \/>\n00:01:28,200 &#8211;&gt; 00:01:30,640<br \/>\nAnd so they pack up their little<br \/>\nbag of bitterness and they go <\/p>\n<p>27<br \/>\n00:01:30,640 &#8211;&gt; 00:01:33,000<br \/>\nout there looking for themselves<br \/>\nsomewhere out in the world. <\/p>\n<p>28<br \/>\n00:01:33,000 &#8211;&gt; 00:01:37,080<br \/>\nAnd guess what?<br \/>\nThey find themselves out there <\/p>\n<p>29<br \/>\n00:01:37,080 &#8211;&gt; 00:01:40,840<br \/>\nin the world because there&#8217;s<br \/>\nlots of people out there in the <\/p>\n<p>30<br \/>\n00:01:40,840 &#8211;&gt; 00:01:44,800<br \/>\nworld that have that same bag of<br \/>\nbitterness and they can share <\/p>\n<p>31<br \/>\n00:01:44,800 &#8211;&gt; 00:01:46,800<br \/>\ntheir bitterness and have a<br \/>\nlittle bitterness party. <\/p>\n<p>32<br \/>\n00:01:47,960 &#8211;&gt; 00:01:52,560<br \/>\nIt doesn&#8217;t fix the problems.<br \/>\nAnd that&#8217;s what we&#8217;re going to <\/p>\n<p>33<br \/>\n00:01:52,560 &#8211;&gt; 00:02:00,040<br \/>\nsee in this chapter is that all<br \/>\nthese motives and resentment the<\/p>\n<p>34<br \/>\n00:02:00,040 &#8211;&gt; 00:02:04,720<br \/>\nbuilt up in Judah&#8217;s life was<br \/>\nactually not making him think <\/p>\n<p>35<br \/>\n00:02:04,720 &#8211;&gt; 00:02:07,200<br \/>\nstraight.<br \/>\nIt was actually making him make <\/p>\n<p>36<br \/>\n00:02:07,200 &#8211;&gt; 00:02:10,360<br \/>\ndumb decisions.<br \/>\nThat&#8217;s what was driving him. <\/p>\n<p>37<br \/>\n00:02:13,120 &#8211;&gt; 00:02:17,040<br \/>\nSo he&#8217;s going to go out there<br \/>\njust like the prodigal son, but <\/p>\n<p>38<br \/>\n00:02:17,040 &#8211;&gt; 00:02:20,320<br \/>\neventually he&#8217;s going to find<br \/>\nhimself back in his father&#8217;s <\/p>\n<p>39<br \/>\n00:02:20,320 &#8211;&gt; 00:02:23,520<br \/>\nhouse because it&#8217;s just the best<br \/>\nplace. <\/p>\n<p>40<br \/>\n00:02:24,440 &#8211;&gt; 00:02:26,960<br \/>\nThat&#8217;s the eclosure, that&#8217;s the<br \/>\nyouth group. <\/p>\n<p>41<br \/>\n00:02:27,760 &#8211;&gt; 00:02:31,960<br \/>\nIt&#8217;s just the best place to be.<br \/>\nAnd hopefully you&#8217;ll come to see<\/p>\n<p>42<br \/>\n00:02:31,960 &#8211;&gt; 00:02:36,400<br \/>\nthat too in your life as you<br \/>\nrealize just how much we have <\/p>\n<p>43<br \/>\n00:02:36,560 &#8211;&gt; 00:02:41,440<br \/>\nhere.<br \/>\nSuch a cool group of people to <\/p>\n<p>44<br \/>\n00:02:41,440 &#8211;&gt; 00:02:44,840<br \/>\ncome spend a long weekend with.<br \/>\nJust think about the people at <\/p>\n<p>45<br \/>\n00:02:44,840 &#8211;&gt; 00:02:48,480<br \/>\nwork, uni, what are they doing<br \/>\nthis weekend? <\/p>\n<p>46<br \/>\n00:02:48,480 &#8211;&gt; 00:02:50,400<br \/>\nThey might be doing something<br \/>\nexciting on their own or with a <\/p>\n<p>47<br \/>\n00:02:50,400 &#8211;&gt; 00:02:55,120<br \/>\ncouple of friends.<br \/>\nYou got like 250 other people, <\/p>\n<p>48<br \/>\n00:02:56,800 &#8211;&gt; 00:02:59,480<br \/>\ngood experiences.<br \/>\nWe have so much, but Judy&#8217;s <\/p>\n<p>49<br \/>\n00:02:59,480 &#8211;&gt; 00:03:02,080<br \/>\ngoing to play the victim card.<br \/>\nLet&#8217;s read carefully. <\/p>\n<p>50<br \/>\n00:03:02,080 &#8211;&gt; 00:03:06,600<br \/>\nWe&#8217;re going to spend our whole<br \/>\ntime this study in one chapter. <\/p>\n<p>51<br \/>\n00:03:06,600 &#8211;&gt; 00:03:09,400<br \/>\nThat&#8217;s good.<br \/>\nBe a bit easier to work through <\/p>\n<p>52<br \/>\n00:03:09,720 &#8211;&gt; 00:03:12,680<br \/>\nthe story.<br \/>\nSo let&#8217;s have a read of chapter <\/p>\n<p>53<br \/>\n00:03:12,680 &#8211;&gt; 00:03:18,360<br \/>\n38, the first few verses, grab a<br \/>\npencil because there&#8217;s that <\/p>\n<p>54<br \/>\n00:03:18,360 &#8211;&gt; 00:03:21,560<br \/>\nlittle phrase at that time.<br \/>\nWhat time? <\/p>\n<p>55<br \/>\n00:03:22,040 &#8211;&gt; 00:03:24,440<br \/>\nWell, the time, you know, where<br \/>\nall that stuff happened to <\/p>\n<p>56<br \/>\n00:03:24,440 &#8211;&gt; 00:03:27,080<br \/>\nJoseph, Complete contrast,<br \/>\ncomplete opposite. <\/p>\n<p>57<br \/>\n00:03:27,280 &#8211;&gt; 00:03:30,600<br \/>\nAnd you don&#8217;t appreciate Joseph<br \/>\nwithout understanding where <\/p>\n<p>58<br \/>\n00:03:30,600 &#8211;&gt; 00:03:35,400<br \/>\nJudah&#8217;s going because at that<br \/>\ntime, Judah left his brothers <\/p>\n<p>59<br \/>\n00:03:36,240 &#8211;&gt; 00:03:41,840<br \/>\nand he turned into an adult<br \/>\nAmite man whose name was Hira. <\/p>\n<p>60<br \/>\n00:03:42,520 &#8211;&gt; 00:03:47,440<br \/>\nAnd Judah saw there.<br \/>\nOh, I missed a few things I <\/p>\n<p>61<br \/>\n00:03:47,440 &#8211;&gt; 00:03:49,520<br \/>\nmeant to talk about.<br \/>\nSorry. <\/p>\n<p>62<br \/>\n00:03:50,280 &#8211;&gt; 00:03:53,680<br \/>\nYou have this graphic here,<br \/>\nwhich positions Judah at being <\/p>\n<p>63<br \/>\n00:03:53,680 &#8211;&gt; 00:04:00,200<br \/>\nin now in his late 20s.<br \/>\nSo he&#8217;s made some dumb decisions<\/p>\n<p>64<br \/>\n00:04:02,040 &#8211;&gt; 00:04:04,400<br \/>\nin his late 20s.<br \/>\nYou may not be at that point <\/p>\n<p>65<br \/>\n00:04:04,400 &#8211;&gt; 00:04:08,240<br \/>\nyet, but it&#8217;s important for you<br \/>\nto think about the decisions <\/p>\n<p>66<br \/>\n00:04:08,240 &#8211;&gt; 00:04:12,640<br \/>\nyou&#8217;re making now and the way<br \/>\nyou&#8217;re perceiving what&#8217;s <\/p>\n<p>67<br \/>\n00:04:12,640 &#8211;&gt; 00:04:20,320<br \/>\nhappening in your family now and<br \/>\nthe way you&#8217;re framing your <\/p>\n<p>68<br \/>\n00:04:20,320 &#8211;&gt; 00:04:24,680<br \/>\nunderstanding and the way you&#8217;re<br \/>\nchoosing to look at life because<\/p>\n<p>69<br \/>\n00:04:24,680 &#8211;&gt; 00:04:27,000<br \/>\nthat&#8217;s what&#8217;s happened in<br \/>\nJudah&#8217;s life. <\/p>\n<p>70<br \/>\n00:04:27,000 &#8211;&gt; 00:04:30,600<br \/>\nHe&#8217;s a grown man by the time<br \/>\nJoseph comes along, and all this<\/p>\n<p>71<br \/>\n00:04:30,600 &#8211;&gt; 00:04:33,200<br \/>\nresentment starts to build over<br \/>\ntime. <\/p>\n<p>72<br \/>\n00:04:34,920 &#8211;&gt; 00:04:39,040<br \/>\nBut he&#8217;s now going out in his<br \/>\nearly adult years to form his <\/p>\n<p>73<br \/>\n00:04:39,040 &#8211;&gt; 00:04:42,200<br \/>\nown life.<br \/>\nSo let&#8217;s read again this. <\/p>\n<p>74<br \/>\n00:04:42,200 &#8211;&gt; 00:04:44,360<br \/>\nWell, we read verse one, verse<br \/>\n2. <\/p>\n<p>75<br \/>\n00:04:44,360 &#8211;&gt; 00:04:51,320<br \/>\nJudah saw the daughter of a<br \/>\nCanaanite man named Shua. <\/p>\n<p>76<br \/>\n00:04:52,520 &#8211;&gt; 00:05:00,040<br \/>\nJudah acquired her as a wife and<br \/>\nhad marital relations with her. <\/p>\n<p>77<br \/>\n00:05:00,480 &#8211;&gt; 00:05:01,960<br \/>\nI&#8217;m reading from the NET by the<br \/>\nway. <\/p>\n<p>78<br \/>\n00:05:03,080 &#8211;&gt; 00:05:05,440<br \/>\nShe became pregnant and had a<br \/>\nson. <\/p>\n<p>79<br \/>\n00:05:06,960 &#8211;&gt; 00:05:11,920<br \/>\nJudah named him, uh, she became<br \/>\npregnant again, had another son,<\/p>\n<p>80<br \/>\n00:05:11,920 &#8211;&gt; 00:05:17,040<br \/>\nand she called him Onan.<br \/>\nThen she had yet another son, <\/p>\n<p>81<br \/>\n00:05:17,040 &#8211;&gt; 00:05:25,120<br \/>\nwhom she named Sheila, and she<br \/>\ngave birth to him while Judah <\/p>\n<p>82<br \/>\n00:05:25,120 &#8211;&gt; 00:05:26,360<br \/>\nwas in key.<br \/>\nZip. <\/p>\n<p>83<br \/>\n00:05:27,640 &#8211;&gt; 00:05:30,000<br \/>\nAll right, what do you make of<br \/>\nthat? <\/p>\n<p>84<br \/>\n00:05:30,000 &#8211;&gt; 00:05:33,080<br \/>\nYou&#8217;d probably read that and go,<br \/>\nyeah, well, that&#8217;s just a story.<\/p>\n<p>85<br \/>\n00:05:34,520 &#8211;&gt; 00:05:37,160<br \/>\nThere&#8217;s some really weird things<br \/>\nin those verses. <\/p>\n<p>86<br \/>\n00:05:38,720 &#8211;&gt; 00:05:41,920<br \/>\nThere&#8217;s some hidden names.<br \/>\nThere&#8217;s some names that we&#8217;re <\/p>\n<p>87<br \/>\n00:05:41,920 &#8211;&gt; 00:05:46,280<br \/>\ntold that we don&#8217;t need to know.<br \/>\nThat&#8217;s really weird. <\/p>\n<p>88<br \/>\n00:05:46,280 &#8211;&gt; 00:05:51,560<br \/>\nRead carefully.<br \/>\nWhat is in those first 5 verses?<\/p>\n<p>89<br \/>\n00:05:51,560 &#8211;&gt; 00:05:54,120<br \/>\nAsk yourself the question, what<br \/>\nam I told that I don&#8217;t need to <\/p>\n<p>90<br \/>\n00:05:54,120 &#8211;&gt; 00:05:58,280<br \/>\nknow?<br \/>\nAnd what am I not told that I <\/p>\n<p>91<br \/>\n00:05:58,280 &#8211;&gt; 00:06:01,160<br \/>\nprobably should know?<br \/>\nI&#8217;ll give you a hint. <\/p>\n<p>92<br \/>\n00:06:01,160 &#8211;&gt; 00:06:07,200<br \/>\nWhat was Judas Wife&#8217;s name?<br \/>\nOh, we don&#8217;t know. <\/p>\n<p>93<br \/>\n00:06:08,920 &#8211;&gt; 00:06:10,440<br \/>\nSome translations actually get<br \/>\nit wrong. <\/p>\n<p>94<br \/>\n00:06:10,440 &#8211;&gt; 00:06:14,520<br \/>\nSo if you are seeing that where<br \/>\nit says that her name was, sure,<\/p>\n<p>95<br \/>\n00:06:14,520 &#8211;&gt; 00:06:17,520<br \/>\nthat is not her name.<br \/>\nWe can find that out later by <\/p>\n<p>96<br \/>\n00:06:17,520 &#8211;&gt; 00:06:18,720<br \/>\nlooking in one of the later<br \/>\nverses. <\/p>\n<p>97<br \/>\n00:06:18,720 &#8211;&gt; 00:06:21,840<br \/>\nThis is not her name.<br \/>\nLet me highlight it to you this <\/p>\n<p>98<br \/>\n00:06:21,840 &#8211;&gt; 00:06:24,440<br \/>\nway.<br \/>\nIt came to pass at that time <\/p>\n<p>99<br \/>\n00:06:24,440 &#8211;&gt; 00:06:29,440<br \/>\nthat Judah went down from his<br \/>\nbrethren and he got distracted <\/p>\n<p>100<br \/>\n00:06:29,440 &#8211;&gt; 00:06:32,080<br \/>\nor turned into a certain a<br \/>\nDalamite. <\/p>\n<p>101<br \/>\n00:06:32,080 &#8211;&gt; 00:06:40,880<br \/>\nOh, whose name was and it means<br \/>\na noble family. <\/p>\n<p>102<br \/>\n00:06:42,440 &#8211;&gt; 00:06:43,680<br \/>\nLet&#8217;s keep going.<br \/>\nI&#8217;ll explain in a SEC. <\/p>\n<p>103<br \/>\n00:06:43,680 &#8211;&gt; 00:06:48,840<br \/>\nJudas saw there a no name of a<br \/>\ncertain Canaanite whose name was<\/p>\n<p>104<br \/>\n00:06:48,840 &#8211;&gt; 00:06:51,600<br \/>\nand it means wealth.<br \/>\nAnd he took her and went into <\/p>\n<p>105<br \/>\n00:06:51,600 &#8211;&gt; 00:06:54,000<br \/>\nher, and she had a child.<br \/>\nNow let&#8217;s just deal with verse <\/p>\n<p>106<br \/>\n00:06:54,000 &#8211;&gt; 00:06:56,080<br \/>\none and two because it gets too<br \/>\nfar down. <\/p>\n<p>107<br \/>\n00:06:56,600 &#8211;&gt; 00:06:59,400<br \/>\nIt came to past.<br \/>\nJudah went down and he turned to<\/p>\n<p>108<br \/>\n00:06:59,400 &#8211;&gt; 00:07:01,760<br \/>\na certain Adalamite.<br \/>\nWhy are we told that phrase a <\/p>\n<p>109<br \/>\n00:07:01,760 &#8211;&gt; 00:07:04,400<br \/>\ncertain Adalamite?<br \/>\nWhy is where he comes from more <\/p>\n<p>110<br \/>\n00:07:04,400 &#8211;&gt; 00:07:07,280<br \/>\nimportant than his actual name?<br \/>\nHis name is Hara. <\/p>\n<p>111<br \/>\n00:07:09,400 &#8211;&gt; 00:07:16,520<br \/>\nA dullam means justice, and he&#8217;s<br \/>\nfrom a noble family. <\/p>\n<p>112<br \/>\n00:07:17,480 &#8211;&gt; 00:07:19,400<br \/>\nWe&#8217;ll just think about the irony<br \/>\nof this and we&#8217;re going to see <\/p>\n<p>113<br \/>\n00:07:19,400 &#8211;&gt; 00:07:23,440<br \/>\nthis chapter is full of irony,<br \/>\nand that&#8217;s the way God works. <\/p>\n<p>114<br \/>\n00:07:23,440 &#8211;&gt; 00:07:24,600<br \/>\nWe&#8217;re going to look at that at<br \/>\nthe end. <\/p>\n<p>115<br \/>\n00:07:24,600 &#8211;&gt; 00:07:25,920<br \/>\nAll right?<br \/>\nI just want you to see this <\/p>\n<p>116<br \/>\n00:07:25,960 &#8211;&gt; 00:07:28,320<br \/>\nirony.<br \/>\nJudy goes away because he&#8217;s <\/p>\n<p>117<br \/>\n00:07:28,320 &#8211;&gt; 00:07:34,080<br \/>\nrunning away from his special<br \/>\nfamily, chosen family that&#8217;s <\/p>\n<p>118<br \/>\n00:07:34,080 &#8211;&gt; 00:07:36,560<br \/>\nbeen given privilege and<br \/>\nblessings by God, and he joins <\/p>\n<p>119<br \/>\n00:07:36,560 &#8211;&gt; 00:07:40,080<br \/>\nanother noble family.<br \/>\nWhy? <\/p>\n<p>120<br \/>\n00:07:40,080 &#8211;&gt; 00:07:42,360<br \/>\nI&#8217;m going to suggest to you<br \/>\nbecause he wants a bit of <\/p>\n<p>121<br \/>\n00:07:42,360 &#8211;&gt; 00:07:44,840<br \/>\njustice in your life because he<br \/>\nthinks he&#8217;s totally unfairly <\/p>\n<p>122<br \/>\n00:07:44,840 &#8211;&gt; 00:07:46,920<br \/>\ntreated at his house and it&#8217;s<br \/>\nnot fair. <\/p>\n<p>123<br \/>\n00:07:46,920 &#8211;&gt; 00:07:50,440<br \/>\nSo I&#8217;m going somewhere else and<br \/>\nI think that&#8217;s why we&#8217;re giving <\/p>\n<p>124<br \/>\n00:07:50,440 &#8211;&gt; 00:07:57,200<br \/>\nthese details.<br \/>\nJudas sees there a woman when I <\/p>\n<p>125<br \/>\n00:07:57,200 &#8211;&gt; 00:08:03,320<br \/>\neven told her name of a certain<br \/>\nCanaanite whose name was Shua, <\/p>\n<p>126<br \/>\n00:08:03,440 &#8211;&gt; 00:08:08,880<br \/>\nwhich means wealthy and he took<br \/>\nher and went in done to her. <\/p>\n<p>127<br \/>\n00:08:09,320 &#8211;&gt; 00:08:14,360<br \/>\nLet&#8217;s break down that verse.<br \/>\nWhat motivated Judah to sell his<\/p>\n<p>128<br \/>\n00:08:14,360 &#8211;&gt; 00:08:23,080<br \/>\nbrother money.<br \/>\nThis man sounds like he has <\/p>\n<p>129<br \/>\n00:08:23,080 &#8211;&gt; 00:08:29,240<br \/>\nmoney, doesn&#8217;t even know the<br \/>\nname of the girl, not even told.<\/p>\n<p>130<br \/>\n00:08:31,120 &#8211;&gt; 00:08:34,320<br \/>\nWe told Tamer&#8217;s name later, so<br \/>\nit&#8217;s not as though we can&#8217;t know<\/p>\n<p>131<br \/>\n00:08:34,320 &#8211;&gt; 00:08:40,400<br \/>\nthe names of the females.<br \/>\nWell, we told her name because <\/p>\n<p>132<br \/>\n00:08:40,400 &#8211;&gt; 00:08:46,880<br \/>\nthe focus is the Judas saw and<br \/>\nhe took and he went into her. <\/p>\n<p>133<br \/>\n00:08:49,480 &#8211;&gt; 00:08:51,840<br \/>\nDo you hear a bell ringing in<br \/>\nthe back of your mind of hearing<\/p>\n<p>134<br \/>\n00:08:51,840 &#8211;&gt; 00:08:55,560<br \/>\nthat language before?<br \/>\nWho looked at something, saw it,<\/p>\n<p>135<br \/>\n00:08:55,640 &#8211;&gt; 00:08:59,880<br \/>\ntook it and acted on it.<br \/>\nDon&#8217;t be scared. <\/p>\n<p>136<br \/>\n00:08:59,880 &#8211;&gt; 00:09:01,360<br \/>\nThere&#8217;s only 200 people in the<br \/>\naudience. <\/p>\n<p>137<br \/>\n00:09:01,440 &#8211;&gt; 00:09:03,800<br \/>\nIt&#8217;s OK.<br \/>\nShout out, Eve. <\/p>\n<p>138<br \/>\n00:09:03,800 &#8211;&gt; 00:09:05,080<br \/>\nWonderful.<br \/>\nThank you. <\/p>\n<p>139<br \/>\n00:09:05,360 &#8211;&gt; 00:09:06,400<br \/>\nI can.<br \/>\nAwesome. <\/p>\n<p>140<br \/>\n00:09:06,400 &#8211;&gt; 00:09:08,160<br \/>\nThis is really good.<br \/>\nI should ask my questions. <\/p>\n<p>141<br \/>\n00:09:08,400 &#8211;&gt; 00:09:11,160<br \/>\nWho else?<br \/>\nDavid and Bathsheba. <\/p>\n<p>142<br \/>\n00:09:11,240 &#8211;&gt; 00:09:12,880<br \/>\nExcellent.<br \/>\nMaybe you guys have done a study<\/p>\n<p>143<br \/>\n00:09:12,880 &#8211;&gt; 00:09:14,400<br \/>\non this.<br \/>\nDid people know this story <\/p>\n<p>144<br \/>\n00:09:15,800 &#8211;&gt; 00:09:17,480<br \/>\nalready?<br \/>\nThat&#8217;s awesome. <\/p>\n<p>145<br \/>\n00:09:17,480 &#8211;&gt; 00:09:19,320<br \/>\nHe saw she took.<br \/>\nShe hates. <\/p>\n<p>146<br \/>\n00:09:19,320 &#8211;&gt; 00:09:21,760<br \/>\nThere&#8217;s the principle.<br \/>\nLooked down. <\/p>\n<p>147<br \/>\n00:09:21,760 &#8211;&gt; 00:09:24,960<br \/>\nThought looks good.<br \/>\nJia looked at her. <\/p>\n<p>148<br \/>\n00:09:24,960 &#8211;&gt; 00:09:26,720<br \/>\nThought looks hot.<br \/>\nTook her. <\/p>\n<p>149<br \/>\n00:09:27,360 &#8211;&gt; 00:09:31,400<br \/>\nGuess what?<br \/>\nThat&#8217;s exactly the same process <\/p>\n<p>150<br \/>\n00:09:32,320 &#8211;&gt; 00:09:37,000<br \/>\nas what Shechem did with Dinah,<br \/>\nand he got angry. <\/p>\n<p>151<br \/>\n00:09:39,040 &#8211;&gt; 00:09:44,240<br \/>\nHe did it, he repeated it, same<br \/>\nprocess, and we&#8217;re going to see <\/p>\n<p>152<br \/>\n00:09:44,240 &#8211;&gt; 00:09:46,840<br \/>\nthese things come out in his<br \/>\nlife. <\/p>\n<p>153<br \/>\n00:09:49,000 &#8211;&gt; 00:09:52,200<br \/>\nIt&#8217;s only highlighted by the<br \/>\nfact that her name doesn&#8217;t even <\/p>\n<p>154<br \/>\n00:09:52,200 &#8211;&gt; 00:09:58,960<br \/>\nmatter in the whole chapter.<br \/>\nWhat matters is he wants to be <\/p>\n<p>155<br \/>\n00:09:58,960 &#8211;&gt; 00:10:02,240<br \/>\nassociated with another special<br \/>\nfamily that has wealth. <\/p>\n<p>156<br \/>\n00:10:02,240 &#8211;&gt; 00:10:05,880<br \/>\nNow, you&#8217;re not think I&#8217;m making<br \/>\ntoo much of it. <\/p>\n<p>157<br \/>\n00:10:05,880 &#8211;&gt; 00:10:09,520<br \/>\nJust remember, what was the<br \/>\nwhole point of Chapter 29 and <\/p>\n<p>158<br \/>\n00:10:09,520 &#8211;&gt; 00:10:12,400<br \/>\nChapter 30 in the way that his<br \/>\nfamily was introduced? <\/p>\n<p>159<br \/>\n00:10:12,600 &#8211;&gt; 00:10:15,400<br \/>\nIt was all about the meaning of<br \/>\nnames, right? <\/p>\n<p>160<br \/>\n00:10:18,280 &#8211;&gt; 00:10:21,400<br \/>\nAnd we&#8217;re told it was.<br \/>\nThe Bible tells us, look at the <\/p>\n<p>161<br \/>\n00:10:21,400 &#8211;&gt; 00:10:24,440<br \/>\nmeaning of these names.<br \/>\nSo when we come to this chapter,<\/p>\n<p>162<br \/>\n00:10:24,440 &#8211;&gt; 00:10:27,040<br \/>\nwe&#8217;ve got to do the same thing<br \/>\nbecause it&#8217;s still Genesis, same<\/p>\n<p>163<br \/>\n00:10:27,040 &#8211;&gt; 00:10:29,920<br \/>\nstory.<br \/>\nAll right, am I reading too <\/p>\n<p>164<br \/>\n00:10:29,920 &#8211;&gt; 00:10:31,160<br \/>\nmuch?<br \/>\nLet&#8217;s have a look at verse 3, <\/p>\n<p>165<br \/>\n00:10:31,160 &#8211;&gt; 00:10:36,000<br \/>\nverse four and five.<br \/>\nShe no name conceived and bear a<\/p>\n<p>166<br \/>\n00:10:36,000 &#8211;&gt; 00:10:42,560<br \/>\nson And oh, he called his first<br \/>\nborn son, first born son&#8217;s name.<\/p>\n<p>167<br \/>\n00:10:43,080 &#8211;&gt; 00:10:48,920<br \/>\nUh, Judah was, oh, you assume he<br \/>\nwas there because he named the <\/p>\n<p>168<br \/>\n00:10:48,920 &#8211;&gt; 00:10:52,840<br \/>\nchild, which is different in the<br \/>\nway he was born because mum <\/p>\n<p>169<br \/>\n00:10:52,840 &#8211;&gt; 00:10:56,560<br \/>\nnamed him dad.<br \/>\nDidn&#8217;t Jacob only named one boy?<\/p>\n<p>170<br \/>\n00:10:56,560 &#8211;&gt; 00:10:59,320<br \/>\nYou know, of all twelve of his<br \/>\nsons? <\/p>\n<p>171<br \/>\n00:11:01,360 &#8211;&gt; 00:11:05,040<br \/>\nShe nameless names her son.<br \/>\nSorry. <\/p>\n<p>172<br \/>\n00:11:05,520 &#8211;&gt; 00:11:13,280<br \/>\nUh, she conceived again and bear<br \/>\na son and oh, she calls him this<\/p>\n<p>173<br \/>\n00:11:13,280 &#8211;&gt; 00:11:18,240<br \/>\ntime Sheila, What does that mean<br \/>\nto us? <\/p>\n<p>174<br \/>\n00:11:18,240 &#8211;&gt; 00:11:19,880<br \/>\nWell, what should we take away<br \/>\nfrom that? <\/p>\n<p>175<br \/>\n00:11:19,880 &#8211;&gt; 00:11:27,560<br \/>\nLet&#8217;s hold on that verse 5.<br \/>\nShe has another child and bear a<\/p>\n<p>176<br \/>\n00:11:27,560 &#8211;&gt; 00:11:32,040<br \/>\nson, and she calls his name<br \/>\nSheila. <\/p>\n<p>177<br \/>\n00:11:33,840 &#8211;&gt; 00:11:41,280<br \/>\nAnd Judah was in key Zeb, or a<br \/>\nplace that means denial and lies<\/p>\n<p>178<br \/>\n00:11:42,160 &#8211;&gt; 00:11:54,080<br \/>\nwhen she gave birth.<br \/>\nOh, so Judah&#8217;s too busy living a<\/p>\n<p>179<br \/>\n00:11:54,080 &#8211;&gt; 00:12:00,360<br \/>\nlife of denial, lying about what<br \/>\nhe&#8217;s really up to, to be at his <\/p>\n<p>180<br \/>\n00:12:00,360 &#8211;&gt; 00:12:06,760<br \/>\nthird son&#8217;s birth.<br \/>\nCan you see a downward spiral <\/p>\n<p>181<br \/>\n00:12:06,760 &#8211;&gt; 00:12:10,120<br \/>\ngoing on here?<br \/>\nHe was there for the beginning, <\/p>\n<p>182<br \/>\n00:12:10,120 &#8211;&gt; 00:12:15,000<br \/>\nall excited and called him that<br \/>\nmeans awake. <\/p>\n<p>183<br \/>\n00:12:16,440 &#8211;&gt; 00:12:21,120<br \/>\nLet&#8217;s put in today&#8217;s language.<br \/>\nI&#8217;m living, I&#8217;m enjoying life. <\/p>\n<p>184<br \/>\n00:12:21,120 &#8211;&gt; 00:12:25,600<br \/>\nI can do my own thing now<br \/>\nbecause he&#8217;s just gone free from<\/p>\n<p>185<br \/>\n00:12:25,600 &#8211;&gt; 00:12:28,760<br \/>\nthe family and he&#8217;s got his<br \/>\nfirst boy now and he&#8217;s living <\/p>\n<p>186<br \/>\n00:12:28,760 &#8211;&gt; 00:12:30,400<br \/>\nlife the way he wants to live<br \/>\nit. <\/p>\n<p>187<br \/>\n00:12:32,800 &#8211;&gt; 00:12:38,520<br \/>\nI&#8217;ve forgotten what Sheila is.<br \/>\nI&#8217;m coming to check Mental blank<\/p>\n<p>188<br \/>\n00:12:38,840 &#8211;&gt; 00:12:42,120<br \/>\nand I can&#8217;t see it.<br \/>\nSheila&#8217;s an interesting name, <\/p>\n<p>189<br \/>\n00:12:42,120 &#8211;&gt; 00:12:45,800<br \/>\nbut not quite as strong.<br \/>\nThe last one is Sheila. <\/p>\n<p>190<br \/>\n00:12:46,680 &#8211;&gt; 00:12:50,560<br \/>\nWhy does she call his name<br \/>\nSheila? <\/p>\n<p>191<br \/>\n00:12:52,920 &#8211;&gt; 00:12:58,800<br \/>\nIt&#8217;s just like his mum was full<br \/>\nof bitterness, wanting <\/p>\n<p>192<br \/>\n00:12:58,800 &#8211;&gt; 00:13:04,360<br \/>\nattention.<br \/>\nShe calls his name Sheila, which<\/p>\n<p>193<br \/>\n00:13:04,360 &#8211;&gt; 00:13:06,400<br \/>\nI&#8217;m checking because I&#8217;m just<br \/>\nhaving a mental blank sorry this<\/p>\n<p>194<br \/>\n00:13:06,400 &#8211;&gt; 00:13:14,320<br \/>\nmorning.<br \/>\nSheila means request requesting.<\/p>\n<p>195<br \/>\n00:13:14,800 &#8211;&gt; 00:13:19,440<br \/>\nWhat do you think?<br \/>\nA woman who has no name was <\/p>\n<p>196<br \/>\n00:13:19,440 &#8211;&gt; 00:13:22,840<br \/>\nimportant, became less<br \/>\nimportant, and so unimportant <\/p>\n<p>197<br \/>\n00:13:22,840 &#8211;&gt; 00:13:25,720<br \/>\nthat she&#8217;s bearing her son as<br \/>\nJudah&#8217;s off doing his own thing.<\/p>\n<p>198<br \/>\n00:13:25,720 &#8211;&gt; 00:13:27,760<br \/>\nBusy, maybe business, maybe<br \/>\nwhatever. <\/p>\n<p>199<br \/>\n00:13:28,440 &#8211;&gt; 00:13:31,480<br \/>\nWe&#8217;ll talk about that later.<br \/>\nWhat do you think she&#8217;s <\/p>\n<p>200<br \/>\n00:13:31,480 &#8211;&gt; 00:13:35,960<br \/>\nrequesting?<br \/>\nBit the same as Leah. <\/p>\n<p>201<br \/>\n00:13:36,080 &#8211;&gt; 00:13:39,720<br \/>\nBit of time, attention,<br \/>\nappreciation, validation. <\/p>\n<p>202<br \/>\n00:13:42,600 &#8211;&gt; 00:13:48,280<br \/>\nThat&#8217;s just the first 5 verses<br \/>\nof this story of Judah living <\/p>\n<p>203<br \/>\n00:13:48,960 &#8211;&gt; 00:13:53,600<br \/>\nthe way Judah wants to live.<br \/>\nWhat&#8217;s he doing? <\/p>\n<p>204<br \/>\n00:13:55,480 &#8211;&gt; 00:13:58,440<br \/>\nHe&#8217;s repeating his dad&#8217;s<br \/>\nmistakes. <\/p>\n<p>205<br \/>\n00:13:59,720 &#8211;&gt; 00:14:03,520<br \/>\nHe&#8217;s repeating history.<br \/>\nDad was never around for Judah. <\/p>\n<p>206<br \/>\n00:14:05,320 &#8211;&gt; 00:14:07,760<br \/>\nToo busy out there with the<br \/>\nsheep. <\/p>\n<p>207<br \/>\n00:14:09,000 &#8211;&gt; 00:14:11,080<br \/>\nAnd so we see here the same<br \/>\nstory. <\/p>\n<p>208<br \/>\n00:14:11,680 &#8211;&gt; 00:14:15,480<br \/>\nWe&#8217;re seeing a repeat of the<br \/>\nreality of the way he grew up <\/p>\n<p>209<br \/>\n00:14:15,960 &#8211;&gt; 00:14:19,160<br \/>\nand consequences, or the way<br \/>\nwe&#8217;re brought up has <\/p>\n<p>210<br \/>\n00:14:19,160 &#8211;&gt; 00:14:21,760<br \/>\nconsequences on us.<br \/>\nIt has an impact on us. <\/p>\n<p>211<br \/>\n00:14:21,760 &#8211;&gt; 00:14:25,400<br \/>\nAnd we have to think about that.<br \/>\nLet&#8217;s look at the way Judah&#8217;s <\/p>\n<p>212<br \/>\n00:14:25,400 &#8211;&gt; 00:14:28,760<br \/>\nbringing up his children.<br \/>\nWe&#8217;ll have a look at verse 6-7 <\/p>\n<p>213<br \/>\n00:14:28,760 &#8211;&gt; 00:14:30,000<br \/>\nand eight.<br \/>\nWhat are we told? <\/p>\n<p>214<br \/>\n00:14:34,320 &#8211;&gt; 00:14:37,560<br \/>\nJudah required a wife for, ER,<br \/>\nhis first born. <\/p>\n<p>215<br \/>\n00:14:38,360 &#8211;&gt; 00:14:43,680<br \/>\nHer name&#8217;s Tamar.<br \/>\nBut ER, Judah&#8217;s first born was <\/p>\n<p>216<br \/>\n00:14:43,680 &#8211;&gt; 00:14:51,040<br \/>\nso evil in the Lord&#8217;s sight that<br \/>\nGod actually had to step in and <\/p>\n<p>217<br \/>\n00:14:51,080 &#8211;&gt; 00:14:54,600<br \/>\nkill him.<br \/>\nThat&#8217;s how bad he was. <\/p>\n<p>218<br \/>\n00:14:55,040 &#8211;&gt; 00:14:57,840<br \/>\nIn fact, no, the next one went<br \/>\ndown the same process. <\/p>\n<p>219<br \/>\n00:14:57,840 &#8211;&gt; 00:15:01,240<br \/>\nHe was asked to man up and be<br \/>\nresponsible for life, and God <\/p>\n<p>220<br \/>\n00:15:01,240 &#8211;&gt; 00:15:03,280<br \/>\nkilled him too.<br \/>\nJust grasp that. <\/p>\n<p>221<br \/>\n00:15:03,640 &#8211;&gt; 00:15:09,040<br \/>\nTwo sons that are so bad that<br \/>\nGod has to abruptly intervene in<\/p>\n<p>222<br \/>\n00:15:09,040 &#8211;&gt; 00:15:13,880<br \/>\nthe situation and kill them.<br \/>\nThat&#8217;s wow on the scale of God <\/p>\n<p>223<br \/>\n00:15:13,880 &#8211;&gt; 00:15:16,240<br \/>\ndoesn&#8217;t interrupt very often.<br \/>\nWe&#8217;re talking Cora Dathan, A <\/p>\n<p>224<br \/>\n00:15:16,240 &#8211;&gt; 00:15:20,480<br \/>\nbarum kind of stuff.<br \/>\nGod kills those two boys. <\/p>\n<p>225<br \/>\n00:15:21,200 &#8211;&gt; 00:15:23,720<br \/>\nDo we see any evidence of Judah<br \/>\ntrying to teach them about the <\/p>\n<p>226<br \/>\n00:15:23,720 &#8211;&gt; 00:15:26,960<br \/>\ngodly life of the promises that<br \/>\nwere given to Abraham, Isaac, <\/p>\n<p>227<br \/>\n00:15:26,960 &#8211;&gt; 00:15:29,040<br \/>\nand Jacob?<br \/>\nI&#8217;m not seeing anything in this <\/p>\n<p>228<br \/>\n00:15:29,040 &#8211;&gt; 00:15:33,440<br \/>\nchapter about that.<br \/>\nAll right, verse 11. <\/p>\n<p>229<br \/>\n00:15:34,040 &#8211;&gt; 00:15:41,560<br \/>\nThe reality is Judah is so blind<br \/>\nto the reality of his son&#8217;s evil<\/p>\n<p>230<br \/>\n00:15:43,240 &#8211;&gt; 00:15:48,240<br \/>\nthat he blames this poor woman,<br \/>\nTamar, and makes her the <\/p>\n<p>231<br \/>\n00:15:48,240 &#8211;&gt; 00:15:53,640<br \/>\nscapegoat as if she&#8217;s jinxed and<br \/>\nshe&#8217;s the problem why the boys <\/p>\n<p>232<br \/>\n00:15:53,640 &#8211;&gt; 00:15:57,160<br \/>\nkeep dying.<br \/>\nThat&#8217;s where this man&#8217;s at. <\/p>\n<p>233<br \/>\n00:15:58,640 &#8211;&gt; 00:16:03,240<br \/>\nHe can&#8217;t look honestly at the<br \/>\nsituation to make an honest <\/p>\n<p>234<br \/>\n00:16:03,240 &#8211;&gt; 00:16:07,160<br \/>\ndecision knowing that God works<br \/>\nin his life. <\/p>\n<p>235<br \/>\n00:16:08,600 &#8211;&gt; 00:16:12,880<br \/>\nThose boys are so focused on<br \/>\neverything that Judah has taught<\/p>\n<p>236<br \/>\n00:16:12,880 &#8211;&gt; 00:16:18,840<br \/>\nthem about living life the way<br \/>\nthey want to live life, but <\/p>\n<p>237<br \/>\n00:16:18,840 &#8211;&gt; 00:16:20,160<br \/>\nGod&#8217;s killed them.<br \/>\nHow do we know that we&#8217;re not? <\/p>\n<p>238<br \/>\n00:16:20,160 &#8211;&gt; 00:16:22,480<br \/>\nShe told what her does wrong.<br \/>\nWe&#8217;re told what Sheila does. <\/p>\n<p>239<br \/>\n00:16:23,720 &#8211;&gt; 00:16:26,280<br \/>\nWe&#8217;re told the way he behaves.<br \/>\nAll right. <\/p>\n<p>240<br \/>\n00:16:26,640 &#8211;&gt; 00:16:31,200<br \/>\nAll he was focused on was self<br \/>\ngratification and completely <\/p>\n<p>241<br \/>\n00:16:31,200 &#8211;&gt; 00:16:34,560<br \/>\nunwilling to give a stuff about<br \/>\nanyone else but himself. <\/p>\n<p>242<br \/>\n00:16:37,120 &#8211;&gt; 00:16:45,160<br \/>\nHe wasn&#8217;t willing to give his<br \/>\nbrother a family, but he&#8217;d take <\/p>\n<p>243<br \/>\n00:16:45,160 &#8211;&gt; 00:16:49,560<br \/>\nadvantage of her.<br \/>\nNot once, not twice. <\/p>\n<p>244<br \/>\n00:16:50,040 &#8211;&gt; 00:16:55,200<br \/>\nIt says whenever he went into<br \/>\nher, that&#8217;s repeat behavior. <\/p>\n<p>245<br \/>\n00:16:56,760 &#8211;&gt; 00:16:57,960<br \/>\nWhere did these boys learn that<br \/>\nfrom? <\/p>\n<p>246<br \/>\n00:17:04,010 &#8211;&gt; 00:17:05,970<br \/>\nWe could continue on with the<br \/>\nstory, but I don&#8217;t want to get <\/p>\n<p>247<br \/>\n00:17:05,970 &#8211;&gt; 00:17:09,210<br \/>\ninto too much detail about it.<br \/>\nIf we were to flick down then to<\/p>\n<p>248<br \/>\n00:17:09,210 &#8211;&gt; 00:17:18,760<br \/>\nverse 12 and 13, we see that<br \/>\nJudah&#8217;s wife passes away. <\/p>\n<p>249<br \/>\n00:17:20,760 &#8211;&gt; 00:17:24,079<br \/>\nSuddenly she&#8217;s off the scenes.<br \/>\nThis is the person that he did <\/p>\n<p>250<br \/>\n00:17:24,079 &#8211;&gt; 00:17:29,640<br \/>\nactually at some point love.<br \/>\nDoes he distract himself in <\/p>\n<p>251<br \/>\n00:17:29,640 &#8211;&gt; 00:17:32,320<br \/>\nverse 12 with business?<br \/>\nIs that what he&#8217;s doing? <\/p>\n<p>252<br \/>\n00:17:32,320 &#8211;&gt; 00:17:37,880<br \/>\nVerse 12 says after some time,<br \/>\nJudah&#8217;s. <\/p>\n<p>253<br \/>\n00:17:39,280 &#8211;&gt; 00:17:42,720<br \/>\nAfter some time, Judah&#8217;s wife,<br \/>\nthe daughter of Seward, died. <\/p>\n<p>254<br \/>\n00:17:43,520 &#8211;&gt; 00:17:45,440<br \/>\nSee how we get the emphasis on<br \/>\nShur again. <\/p>\n<p>255<br \/>\n00:17:47,000 &#8211;&gt; 00:17:52,360<br \/>\nAfter Judah was consoled, he<br \/>\nleft for Timnath to visit his <\/p>\n<p>256<br \/>\n00:17:52,360 &#8211;&gt; 00:17:54,520<br \/>\nsheep Shear.<br \/>\nSo he went and made himself busy<\/p>\n<p>257<br \/>\n00:17:54,520 &#8211;&gt; 00:17:59,520<br \/>\nwith work along with his friend<br \/>\nof his higher of the Dalamite. <\/p>\n<p>258<br \/>\n00:17:59,520 &#8211;&gt; 00:18:01,040<br \/>\nHe&#8217;s one of those friends<br \/>\nthat&#8217;ll do anything. <\/p>\n<p>259<br \/>\n00:18:01,040 &#8211;&gt; 00:18:04,680<br \/>\nGot no shame, just we&#8217;ll do<br \/>\nwhatever you ask him to do. <\/p>\n<p>260<br \/>\n00:18:04,680 &#8211;&gt; 00:18:07,360<br \/>\nThere&#8217;s people like that out<br \/>\nthere that facilitate bad <\/p>\n<p>261<br \/>\n00:18:07,360 &#8211;&gt; 00:18:09,360<br \/>\ndecisions in our life.<br \/>\nDon&#8217;t be fooled by them, they&#8217;re<\/p>\n<p>262<br \/>\n00:18:09,360 &#8211;&gt; 00:18:12,520<br \/>\nnot actually good friends.<br \/>\nIt&#8217;s interesting that Hara isn&#8217;t<\/p>\n<p>263<br \/>\n00:18:12,880 &#8211;&gt; 00:18:16,680<br \/>\na part of Judah&#8217;s life later.<br \/>\nHe&#8217;s only there when Judah needs<\/p>\n<p>264<br \/>\n00:18:16,680 &#8211;&gt; 00:18:18,960<br \/>\nThe Dirty work to be done.<br \/>\nJust an interesting detail of <\/p>\n<p>265<br \/>\n00:18:18,960 &#8211;&gt; 00:18:23,840<br \/>\nthis chapter.<br \/>\nIt&#8217;s interesting that Tamar was <\/p>\n<p>266<br \/>\n00:18:23,840 &#8211;&gt; 00:18:27,720<br \/>\ntold that Judah, her<br \/>\nfather-in-law, is going to <\/p>\n<p>267<br \/>\n00:18:27,720 &#8211;&gt; 00:18:32,160<br \/>\ntinnap to shear the sheep.<br \/>\nWhy would she care? <\/p>\n<p>268<br \/>\n00:18:33,040 &#8211;&gt; 00:18:39,480<br \/>\nWell, she cares because in<br \/>\nverses 8 or 9 and 10, she&#8217;s been<\/p>\n<p>269<br \/>\n00:18:39,480 &#8211;&gt; 00:18:43,200<br \/>\npromised that she would have.<br \/>\nOh sorry, verse 11. <\/p>\n<p>270<br \/>\n00:18:43,600 &#8211;&gt; 00:18:48,000<br \/>\nJudah has promised his<br \/>\ndaughter-in-law, Tamar, that she<\/p>\n<p>271<br \/>\n00:18:48,000 &#8211;&gt; 00:18:50,000<br \/>\ncan have Sheila when he grows<br \/>\nup. <\/p>\n<p>272<br \/>\n00:18:50,960 &#8211;&gt; 00:18:53,520<br \/>\nNow when you read the story, you<br \/>\ncan only assume that there <\/p>\n<p>273<br \/>\n00:18:53,520 &#8211;&gt; 00:19:00,640<br \/>\nwasn&#8217;t that long a gap because<br \/>\nthat&#8217;s quite quick in the way <\/p>\n<p>274<br \/>\n00:19:00,640 &#8211;&gt; 00:19:02,920<br \/>\nwe&#8217;re told.<br \/>\nSo you can assume that that <\/p>\n<p>275<br \/>\n00:19:02,920 &#8211;&gt; 00:19:06,400<br \/>\nstory didn&#8217;t buy Judah too much<br \/>\ntime to say that Tamar could <\/p>\n<p>276<br \/>\n00:19:06,400 &#8211;&gt; 00:19:11,280<br \/>\nhave Sheila when he grows up.<br \/>\nAnd at verse 8, we&#8217;re told his <\/p>\n<p>277<br \/>\n00:19:11,280 &#8211;&gt; 00:19:12,680<br \/>\nreal motive, not that he<br \/>\nactually said it. <\/p>\n<p>278<br \/>\n00:19:12,680 &#8211;&gt; 00:19:14,960<br \/>\nHe thought he was planning.<br \/>\nHe was thinking, heck, I don&#8217;t <\/p>\n<p>279<br \/>\n00:19:14,960 &#8211;&gt; 00:19:16,720<br \/>\nwant my third son to hang around<br \/>\nwith her. <\/p>\n<p>280<br \/>\n00:19:19,160 &#8211;&gt; 00:19:25,440<br \/>\nSo Tamar goes back to and<br \/>\npicture this, her father&#8217;s house<\/p>\n<p>281<br \/>\n00:19:26,480 &#8211;&gt; 00:19:30,760<br \/>\nand lives there like a widow.<br \/>\nWhy did she stay in Judah&#8217;s <\/p>\n<p>282<br \/>\n00:19:30,760 &#8211;&gt; 00:19:37,440<br \/>\nhouse if Judah&#8217;s going to<br \/>\nprovide for her and she&#8217;s going <\/p>\n<p>283<br \/>\n00:19:37,440 &#8211;&gt; 00:19:41,000<br \/>\nto remain connected with Judah&#8217;s<br \/>\nfamily as she does for the rest <\/p>\n<p>284<br \/>\n00:19:41,000 &#8211;&gt; 00:19:44,680<br \/>\nof the book of Genesis, Why does<br \/>\nJudas in the home clearly <\/p>\n<p>285<br \/>\n00:19:44,680 &#8211;&gt; 00:19:45,640<br \/>\ndoesn&#8217;t want to have a bar of<br \/>\nher? <\/p>\n<p>286<br \/>\n00:19:45,640 &#8211;&gt; 00:19:51,400<br \/>\nHe&#8217;s got no time for her, just<br \/>\nlike his son had no time for her<\/p>\n<p>287<br \/>\n00:19:51,400 &#8211;&gt; 00:19:54,600<br \/>\neither.<br \/>\nYou see the way they were <\/p>\n<p>288<br \/>\n00:19:54,600 &#8211;&gt; 00:19:59,240<br \/>\nbehaving, We can go into more<br \/>\ndetail, but it&#8217;s simply a <\/p>\n<p>289<br \/>\n00:19:59,240 &#8211;&gt; 00:20:05,600<br \/>\ncareless for anybody else, a<br \/>\nself fulfilling, self satisfying<\/p>\n<p>290<br \/>\n00:20:06,320 &#8211;&gt; 00:20:12,080<br \/>\nbehavior.<br \/>\nAll right, verse 13, Tamas told,<\/p>\n<p>291<br \/>\n00:20:12,800 &#8211;&gt; 00:20:17,720<br \/>\nlook, your father-in-law is<br \/>\ngoing to Timnah to shear his <\/p>\n<p>292<br \/>\n00:20:17,720 &#8211;&gt; 00:20:21,640<br \/>\nsheep.<br \/>\nSo she removed her widow <\/p>\n<p>293<br \/>\n00:20:21,640 &#8211;&gt; 00:20:27,200<br \/>\nclothes, which is the way she&#8217;s<br \/>\nbeen living faithfully and she <\/p>\n<p>294<br \/>\n00:20:27,200 &#8211;&gt; 00:20:31,320<br \/>\ncovers herself with a veil,<br \/>\nwhich makes her look like the <\/p>\n<p>295<br \/>\n00:20:31,320 &#8211;&gt; 00:20:32,800<br \/>\nprostitute that she&#8217;s going to<br \/>\nplay. <\/p>\n<p>296<br \/>\n00:20:32,840 &#8211;&gt; 00:20:37,000<br \/>\nThat&#8217;s not a normal behaviour.<br \/>\nShe wraps herself in that veil <\/p>\n<p>297<br \/>\n00:20:37,000 &#8211;&gt; 00:20:40,760<br \/>\nand she sat in an open path at<br \/>\nthe entrance to, and maybe your <\/p>\n<p>298<br \/>\n00:20:40,760 &#8211;&gt; 00:20:43,520<br \/>\ntranslation says, but basically<br \/>\nwhat it says is she sat in an <\/p>\n<p>299<br \/>\n00:20:43,520 &#8211;&gt; 00:20:49,200<br \/>\nopen way on the way to Timnath.<br \/>\nSo she sat in a place that she <\/p>\n<p>300<br \/>\n00:20:49,200 &#8211;&gt; 00:20:52,960<br \/>\nknew that judo would pass<br \/>\nthrough. <\/p>\n<p>301<br \/>\n00:20:55,120 &#8211;&gt; 00:20:59,560<br \/>\nShe did this, we&#8217;re told,<br \/>\nbecause she saw that she had not<\/p>\n<p>302<br \/>\n00:20:59,560 &#8211;&gt; 00:21:04,520<br \/>\nbeen given Sheila as a wife,<br \/>\neven though he&#8217;s now grown up. <\/p>\n<p>303<br \/>\n00:21:09,480 &#8211;&gt; 00:21:13,240<br \/>\nThink about that story.<br \/>\nThink about what we&#8217;re not told <\/p>\n<p>304<br \/>\n00:21:14,280 &#8211;&gt; 00:21:17,160<br \/>\nin that story.<br \/>\nWhat makes a woman who&#8217;s gone to<\/p>\n<p>305<br \/>\n00:21:17,200 &#8211;&gt; 00:21:21,120<br \/>\nlive in her father&#8217;s house as a<br \/>\nwidow and faithfully doing that,<\/p>\n<p>306<br \/>\n00:21:21,120 &#8211;&gt; 00:21:23,720<br \/>\nwaiting for the next son to grow<br \/>\nup? <\/p>\n<p>307<br \/>\n00:21:25,240 &#8211;&gt; 00:21:27,600<br \/>\nWhat makes her change all of her<br \/>\nclothes and all of her behavior <\/p>\n<p>308<br \/>\n00:21:27,600 &#8211;&gt; 00:21:32,200<br \/>\nand go and sits in an open way<br \/>\nthat Judah&#8217;s going to pass <\/p>\n<p>309<br \/>\n00:21:32,200 &#8211;&gt; 00:21:34,840<br \/>\nthrough as he goes up to his<br \/>\ndestination? <\/p>\n<p>310<br \/>\n00:21:38,120 &#8211;&gt; 00:21:42,280<br \/>\nThe fact is, she knows Judah&#8217;s<br \/>\npersonality. <\/p>\n<p>311<br \/>\n00:21:43,720 &#8211;&gt; 00:21:46,400<br \/>\nShe knows the way Judah behaves<br \/>\nin the dark. <\/p>\n<p>312<br \/>\n00:21:47,840 &#8211;&gt; 00:21:52,640<br \/>\nJudah has a reputation because<br \/>\nshe knows that all she has to do<\/p>\n<p>313<br \/>\n00:21:52,640 &#8211;&gt; 00:21:54,800<br \/>\nis sit in an open place and<br \/>\nJudah will pick her up. <\/p>\n<p>314<br \/>\n00:21:55,960 &#8211;&gt; 00:22:00,120<br \/>\nShe doesn&#8217;t have to harass him,<br \/>\nshe doesn&#8217;t have to chase him. <\/p>\n<p>315<br \/>\n00:22:00,360 &#8211;&gt; 00:22:03,560<br \/>\nShe just knows if I sit in an<br \/>\nopen path, Judah will find me <\/p>\n<p>316<br \/>\n00:22:03,560 &#8211;&gt; 00:22:06,360<br \/>\nand he&#8217;ll take me in.<br \/>\nShe&#8217;s that confident. <\/p>\n<p>317<br \/>\n00:22:07,000 &#8211;&gt; 00:22:10,320<br \/>\nThis is not her way of life.<br \/>\nAfter this event, she goes <\/p>\n<p>318<br \/>\n00:22:10,320 &#8211;&gt; 00:22:13,000<br \/>\nstraight back home, changes back<br \/>\ninto her widow clothes. <\/p>\n<p>319<br \/>\n00:22:13,000 &#8211;&gt; 00:22:14,840<br \/>\nThat&#8217;s her behaviour, that&#8217;s<br \/>\nher. <\/p>\n<p>320<br \/>\n00:22:14,840 &#8211;&gt; 00:22:20,240<br \/>\nShe&#8217;s a truthful person, but<br \/>\nshe&#8217;s so clear in her <\/p>\n<p>321<br \/>\n00:22:20,240 &#8211;&gt; 00:22:24,280<br \/>\nunderstanding of the type of man<br \/>\nthat Judah is and the reputation<\/p>\n<p>322<br \/>\n00:22:24,280 &#8211;&gt; 00:22:32,160<br \/>\nthat he&#8217;s created.<br \/>\nIt&#8217;s like 99% confident that <\/p>\n<p>323<br \/>\n00:22:32,160 &#8211;&gt; 00:22:38,080<br \/>\nJudah will do what Judah does.<br \/>\nThat&#8217;s quite a reputation. <\/p>\n<p>324<br \/>\n00:22:40,600 &#8211;&gt; 00:22:44,480<br \/>\nAnd it was somebody else that<br \/>\ntold her that&#8217;s what her dad&#8217;s <\/p>\n<p>325<br \/>\n00:22:44,480 &#8211;&gt; 00:22:46,640<br \/>\ndoing or her father in law&#8217;s<br \/>\ndoing. <\/p>\n<p>326<br \/>\n00:22:48,120 &#8211;&gt; 00:22:49,280<br \/>\nSo you wonder what they thought<br \/>\ntoo. <\/p>\n<p>327<br \/>\n00:22:50,120 &#8211;&gt; 00:22:54,920<br \/>\nAre we filling out the picture?<br \/>\nAre you getting an idea of what <\/p>\n<p>328<br \/>\n00:22:54,920 &#8211;&gt; 00:22:59,400<br \/>\nJudah is known for, what his<br \/>\npersonality is, what his <\/p>\n<p>329<br \/>\n00:22:59,400 &#8211;&gt; 00:23:01,080<br \/>\nreputation is, and what he&#8217;s<br \/>\ngetting up to? <\/p>\n<p>330<br \/>\n00:23:01,080 &#8211;&gt; 00:23:10,200<br \/>\nAll right, verse 16 then.<br \/>\nWell, verse 15, Judah saw her. <\/p>\n<p>331<br \/>\n00:23:10,840 &#8211;&gt; 00:23:15,680<br \/>\nHe just made the assumption that<br \/>\nshe was a prostitute because she<\/p>\n<p>332<br \/>\n00:23:15,680 &#8211;&gt; 00:23:20,280<br \/>\ncovered her face.<br \/>\nSo verse 16, he turned aside to <\/p>\n<p>333<br \/>\n00:23:20,280 &#8211;&gt; 00:23:23,600<br \/>\nher along the road and said, I<br \/>\nwant to come in to you because <\/p>\n<p>334<br \/>\n00:23:23,600 &#8211;&gt; 00:23:29,080<br \/>\nhe had no idea that she was his<br \/>\ndaughter-in-law. <\/p>\n<p>335<br \/>\n00:23:30,840 &#8211;&gt; 00:23:31,960<br \/>\nI&#8217;ll put it up here on the<br \/>\nscreen. <\/p>\n<p>336<br \/>\n00:23:32,480 &#8211;&gt; 00:23:37,600<br \/>\nHer response is, what will you<br \/>\ngive me? <\/p>\n<p>337<br \/>\n00:23:39,840 &#8211;&gt; 00:23:44,120<br \/>\nThat&#8217;s incredibly ironic when<br \/>\nyou think about it, because if <\/p>\n<p>338<br \/>\n00:23:44,120 &#8211;&gt; 00:23:48,800<br \/>\nonly Judah had given her what<br \/>\nJudah should have given her, the<\/p>\n<p>339<br \/>\n00:23:48,800 &#8211;&gt; 00:23:50,160<br \/>\nwhole problem would have gone<br \/>\naway. <\/p>\n<p>340<br \/>\n00:23:52,640 &#8211;&gt; 00:23:55,960<br \/>\nIf Judah had given her the sum<br \/>\nthat he&#8217;d promised to her, she <\/p>\n<p>341<br \/>\n00:23:55,960 &#8211;&gt; 00:23:59,480<br \/>\nwould have been happy and this<br \/>\nevent wouldn&#8217;t have happened. <\/p>\n<p>342<br \/>\n00:24:02,000 &#8211;&gt; 00:24:06,920<br \/>\nYou see that?<br \/>\nAnd he says, oh, I&#8217;ll send you a<\/p>\n<p>343<br \/>\n00:24:06,920 &#8211;&gt; 00:24:15,160<br \/>\nyoung goat from the flock.<br \/>\nAnd she says, no, I want a down <\/p>\n<p>344<br \/>\n00:24:15,160 &#8211;&gt; 00:24:17,760<br \/>\npayment.<br \/>\nI want proof because I don&#8217;t <\/p>\n<p>345<br \/>\n00:24:17,760 &#8211;&gt; 00:24:21,320<br \/>\ntrust you.<br \/>\nGive me a pledge. <\/p>\n<p>346<br \/>\n00:24:21,640 &#8211;&gt; 00:24:24,600<br \/>\nProve it.<br \/>\nProve it that you&#8217;re a <\/p>\n<p>347<br \/>\n00:24:24,600 &#8211;&gt; 00:24:27,160<br \/>\ntrustworthy person.<br \/>\nBecause clearly he wasn&#8217;t a <\/p>\n<p>348<br \/>\n00:24:27,160 &#8211;&gt; 00:24:29,760<br \/>\ntrustworthy person that she had<br \/>\nto demand a pledge from him. <\/p>\n<p>349<br \/>\n00:24:31,920 &#8211;&gt; 00:24:35,160<br \/>\nAnd he&#8217;s good with that because<br \/>\nhe knows what that means because<\/p>\n<p>350<br \/>\n00:24:35,160 &#8211;&gt; 00:24:37,120<br \/>\nhe&#8217;s used to it.<br \/>\nHe said, all right, what sort of<\/p>\n<p>351<br \/>\n00:24:37,120 &#8211;&gt; 00:24:39,000<br \/>\npledge do you want?<br \/>\nI don&#8217;t care. <\/p>\n<p>352<br \/>\n00:24:39,280 &#8211;&gt; 00:24:44,400<br \/>\nThat&#8217;s life, She replies and<br \/>\nsays, I want your seal. <\/p>\n<p>353<br \/>\n00:24:45,640 &#8211;&gt; 00:24:49,400<br \/>\nI want your cord and the stuff<br \/>\nin your hand, and we might <\/p>\n<p>354<br \/>\n00:24:49,400 &#8211;&gt; 00:24:52,080<br \/>\nunderstand that.<br \/>\nSo it&#8217;s saying I want your ring,<\/p>\n<p>355<br \/>\n00:24:52,080 &#8211;&gt; 00:24:55,120<br \/>\nI want your mobile phone, and I<br \/>\nwant your wallet. <\/p>\n<p>356<br \/>\n00:24:59,560 &#8211;&gt; 00:25:06,160<br \/>\nThat means that Tamer now owns<br \/>\nJudah&#8217;s identity. <\/p>\n<p>357<br \/>\n00:25:08,040 &#8211;&gt; 00:25:12,800<br \/>\nJust think about that.<br \/>\nYou can identify a person by <\/p>\n<p>358<br \/>\n00:25:12,800 &#8211;&gt; 00:25:16,880<br \/>\ntheir phone, by their wallets,<br \/>\nor as they used a seal in those <\/p>\n<p>359<br \/>\n00:25:16,880 &#8211;&gt; 00:25:22,360<br \/>\ndays or a ring.<br \/>\nShe owns his personality, his <\/p>\n<p>360<br \/>\n00:25:22,360 &#8211;&gt; 00:25:25,800<br \/>\nidentity.<br \/>\nHe&#8217;s happy to give it. <\/p>\n<p>361<br \/>\n00:25:27,000 &#8211;&gt; 00:25:29,440<br \/>\nI want you to take particular<br \/>\nnotice of this word pledge. <\/p>\n<p>362<br \/>\n00:25:30,560 &#8211;&gt; 00:25:33,120<br \/>\nShe asked for a pledge and he&#8217;s<br \/>\nquite happy to give a pledge. <\/p>\n<p>363<br \/>\n00:25:33,440 &#8211;&gt; 00:25:36,440<br \/>\nThis is a man who&#8217;s quite happy<br \/>\nto sell his identity to a <\/p>\n<p>364<br \/>\n00:25:36,440 &#8211;&gt; 00:25:40,920<br \/>\nprostitute.<br \/>\nAnd that&#8217;s where he&#8217;s at in a <\/p>\n<p>365<br \/>\n00:25:40,920 &#8211;&gt; 00:25:45,240<br \/>\ncouple of chapters time, he&#8217;s<br \/>\ngoing to give a pledge to his <\/p>\n<p>366<br \/>\n00:25:45,240 &#8211;&gt; 00:25:48,880<br \/>\ndad for completely the opposite<br \/>\nthing. <\/p>\n<p>367<br \/>\n00:25:50,160 &#8211;&gt; 00:25:55,680<br \/>\nHe&#8217;s going to pledge his dad his<br \/>\nlife for his brother&#8217;s life. <\/p>\n<p>368<br \/>\n00:25:55,680 &#8211;&gt; 00:25:59,160<br \/>\nAnd that&#8217;s the shift that we&#8217;re<br \/>\ngoing to see. <\/p>\n<p>369<br \/>\n00:26:01,120 &#8211;&gt; 00:26:02,560<br \/>\nBut that&#8217;s the irony of this<br \/>\nstory. <\/p>\n<p>370<br \/>\n00:26:04,000 &#8211;&gt; 00:26:07,760<br \/>\nYou know, The funny thing is, as<br \/>\npeople, when we make dumb <\/p>\n<p>371<br \/>\n00:26:07,800 &#8211;&gt; 00:26:10,960<br \/>\ndecisions in life, we don&#8217;t<br \/>\nrealize how dumb the decisions <\/p>\n<p>372<br \/>\n00:26:10,960 &#8211;&gt; 00:26:14,040<br \/>\nare.<br \/>\nEven around us can see us and <\/p>\n<p>373<br \/>\n00:26:14,040 &#8211;&gt; 00:26:22,360<br \/>\nwe&#8217;re getting a reputation, but<br \/>\nwe&#8217;re so obsessed because of our<\/p>\n<p>374<br \/>\n00:26:22,360 &#8211;&gt; 00:26:25,120<br \/>\nbitterness with the decisions<br \/>\nthat we&#8217;re making. <\/p>\n<p>375<br \/>\n00:26:25,120 &#8211;&gt; 00:26:28,080<br \/>\nWe can&#8217;t see the fool that we&#8217;re<br \/>\nmaking of ourselves. <\/p>\n<p>376<br \/>\n00:26:29,200 &#8211;&gt; 00:26:33,240<br \/>\nJust remember that if you go<br \/>\nthrough a phase of wanting to <\/p>\n<p>377<br \/>\n00:26:33,240 &#8211;&gt; 00:26:37,200<br \/>\nmake some dumb decisions, listen<br \/>\nwhen your friends say things to <\/p>\n<p>378<br \/>\n00:26:37,200 &#8211;&gt; 00:26:40,800<br \/>\nyou because you probably don&#8217;t<br \/>\nrealize the way you&#8217;re being <\/p>\n<p>379<br \/>\n00:26:40,800 &#8211;&gt; 00:26:42,600<br \/>\nperceived and seen and<br \/>\nunderstood. <\/p>\n<p>380<br \/>\n00:26:45,200 &#8211;&gt; 00:26:49,760<br \/>\nWell, that&#8217;s what Jude is at.<br \/>\nHe has these reputation and he&#8217;s<\/p>\n<p>381<br \/>\n00:26:49,760 &#8211;&gt; 00:26:54,360<br \/>\nwilling to barter his identity<br \/>\nfor a one night stand. <\/p>\n<p>382<br \/>\n00:26:54,360 &#8211;&gt; 00:27:00,680<br \/>\nThere&#8217;s no commitment to this<br \/>\nman, but heck, it&#8217;s going to <\/p>\n<p>383<br \/>\n00:27:00,680 &#8211;&gt; 00:27:03,600<br \/>\nchange in a matter of a couple<br \/>\nof chapters. <\/p>\n<p>384<br \/>\n00:27:04,880 &#8211;&gt; 00:27:07,960<br \/>\nHow?<br \/>\nWhy? <\/p>\n<p>385<br \/>\n00:27:09,400 &#8211;&gt; 00:27:15,360<br \/>\nWhat is it that changes Judah?<br \/>\nAnd that&#8217;s what I want you to <\/p>\n<p>386<br \/>\n00:27:15,360 &#8211;&gt; 00:27:18,520<br \/>\nreally get your head around from<br \/>\nthis study is that what God <\/p>\n<p>387<br \/>\n00:27:18,520 &#8211;&gt; 00:27:21,320<br \/>\nchanges in Judah is what the<br \/>\nsame thing that he does in your <\/p>\n<p>388<br \/>\n00:27:21,320 &#8211;&gt; 00:27:25,800<br \/>\nlife and my life.<br \/>\nAnd he brings ironic situations <\/p>\n<p>389<br \/>\n00:27:26,440 &#8211;&gt; 00:27:30,560<br \/>\nto bring the reality of our<br \/>\ndecisions back on ourselves. <\/p>\n<p>390<br \/>\n00:27:31,480 &#8211;&gt; 00:27:34,560<br \/>\nAnd if we&#8217;re honest with<br \/>\nourselves, we see the way he&#8217;s <\/p>\n<p>391<br \/>\n00:27:34,560 &#8211;&gt; 00:27:35,680<br \/>\nworking.<br \/>\nHave a look at it. <\/p>\n<p>392<br \/>\n00:27:36,280 &#8211;&gt; 00:27:40,040<br \/>\nJudah has a level of conscience.<br \/>\nHe always does, always has, <\/p>\n<p>393<br \/>\n00:27:40,040 &#8211;&gt; 00:27:40,960<br \/>\nright?<br \/>\nHe was a little bit <\/p>\n<p>394<br \/>\n00:27:40,960 &#8211;&gt; 00:27:42,600<br \/>\nuncomfortable with killing his<br \/>\nbrother. <\/p>\n<p>395<br \/>\n00:27:42,600 &#8211;&gt; 00:27:44,960<br \/>\nLet&#8217;s just tell him it&#8217;s not.<br \/>\nI don&#8217;t get bottom of fingers, <\/p>\n<p>396<br \/>\n00:27:44,960 &#8211;&gt; 00:27:47,920<br \/>\nright?<br \/>\nJudah says to his daughter <\/p>\n<p>397<br \/>\n00:27:48,400 &#8211;&gt; 00:27:52,520<br \/>\nTamar, grow up in your father&#8217;s<br \/>\nhouse because he thought he <\/p>\n<p>398<br \/>\n00:27:52,520 &#8211;&gt; 00:27:55,640<br \/>\ndidn&#8217;t want Sheila to die like<br \/>\nhis brothers. <\/p>\n<p>399<br \/>\n00:27:58,120 &#8211;&gt; 00:27:59,640<br \/>\nSorry, that was actually for<br \/>\nsomething different. <\/p>\n<p>400<br \/>\n00:27:59,840 &#8211;&gt; 00:28:01,320<br \/>\nVerse 23.<br \/>\nI was meant to make a different <\/p>\n<p>401<br \/>\n00:28:01,320 &#8211;&gt; 00:28:02,800<br \/>\npoint.<br \/>\nRunning out of time, verse 23, <\/p>\n<p>402<br \/>\n00:28:03,640 &#8211;&gt; 00:28:06,360<br \/>\nJudah said.<br \/>\nLet her keep these things for <\/p>\n<p>403<br \/>\n00:28:06,360 &#8211;&gt; 00:28:10,240<br \/>\nherself, otherwise we&#8217;ll appear<br \/>\nto be dishonest. <\/p>\n<p>404<br \/>\n00:28:10,720 &#8211;&gt; 00:28:13,240<br \/>\nWhat does that show us?<br \/>\nShows us a man who&#8217;s more <\/p>\n<p>405<br \/>\n00:28:13,240 &#8211;&gt; 00:28:16,040<br \/>\nworried about the way he<br \/>\nappears, the way he thinks he <\/p>\n<p>406<br \/>\n00:28:16,040 &#8211;&gt; 00:28:20,000<br \/>\nappears, than the facts are that<br \/>\nhe does or doesn&#8217;t get the goat <\/p>\n<p>407<br \/>\n00:28:20,000 &#8211;&gt; 00:28:24,680<br \/>\nback to Tamar.<br \/>\nBut I want you to appreciate <\/p>\n<p>408<br \/>\n00:28:24,680 &#8211;&gt; 00:28:29,040<br \/>\nthis.<br \/>\nIn verse 24, after three months,<\/p>\n<p>409<br \/>\n00:28:29,880 &#8211;&gt; 00:28:34,680<br \/>\nJudah was told, Now if you ever<br \/>\ndo a study of Jacob, just take <\/p>\n<p>410<br \/>\n00:28:34,680 &#8211;&gt; 00:28:38,720<br \/>\nnotice of how many things Jacob<br \/>\nis told but doesn&#8217;t hear about. <\/p>\n<p>411<br \/>\n00:28:39,120 &#8211;&gt; 00:28:41,440<br \/>\nIt&#8217;s things like Reuben taking<br \/>\nadvantage of Bill Hart. <\/p>\n<p>412<br \/>\n00:28:41,880 &#8211;&gt; 00:28:43,240<br \/>\nIt&#8217;s like what happened to<br \/>\nDinah. <\/p>\n<p>413<br \/>\n00:28:43,640 &#8211;&gt; 00:28:45,800<br \/>\nIt&#8217;s like his family of Laban<br \/>\nwho hates him. <\/p>\n<p>414<br \/>\n00:28:45,800 &#8211;&gt; 00:28:49,600<br \/>\nAnd he&#8217;s told that Jacob hears<br \/>\nlots of things, never sees it. <\/p>\n<p>415<br \/>\n00:28:50,240 &#8211;&gt; 00:28:51,480<br \/>\nAnd this is what&#8217;s happening to<br \/>\nJudah. <\/p>\n<p>416<br \/>\n00:28:52,000 &#8211;&gt; 00:28:55,000<br \/>\nJudah hears, he&#8217;s told that your<br \/>\ndaughter-in-law, Tamar, has <\/p>\n<p>417<br \/>\n00:28:55,000 &#8211;&gt; 00:28:58,600<br \/>\nbecome a prostitute and as a<br \/>\nresult, she&#8217;s now pregnant. <\/p>\n<p>418<br \/>\n00:28:58,600 &#8211;&gt; 00:29:02,640<br \/>\nAnd what is Judah do?<br \/>\nThe other hypocrite just says, <\/p>\n<p>419<br \/>\n00:29:02,640 &#8211;&gt; 00:29:04,760<br \/>\nwell, bring her out, let her be<br \/>\nburnt. <\/p>\n<p>420<br \/>\n00:29:06,120 &#8211;&gt; 00:29:12,120<br \/>\nHow hypocritical is that?<br \/>\nHe&#8217;s the other half of that, but<\/p>\n<p>421<br \/>\n00:29:12,120 &#8211;&gt; 00:29:13,920<br \/>\nhe&#8217;s calling for her to be<br \/>\nbrought out and burnt. <\/p>\n<p>422<br \/>\n00:29:13,920 &#8211;&gt; 00:29:20,080<br \/>\nDid he even ask a question?<br \/>\nDid he give her a trial, a fair,<\/p>\n<p>423<br \/>\n00:29:20,080 &#8211;&gt; 00:29:23,520<br \/>\nopen opportunity to say how she<br \/>\ngot to this situation? <\/p>\n<p>424<br \/>\n00:29:24,520 &#8211;&gt; 00:29:26,320<br \/>\nNothing.<br \/>\nWhy? <\/p>\n<p>425<br \/>\n00:29:28,240 &#8211;&gt; 00:29:32,200<br \/>\nBecause Judah&#8217;s looking at the<br \/>\nsituation going good, I&#8217;m done. <\/p>\n<p>426<br \/>\n00:29:33,040 &#8211;&gt; 00:29:34,960<br \/>\nI never wanted her to marry<br \/>\nSheila anyway. <\/p>\n<p>427<br \/>\n00:29:35,520 &#8211;&gt; 00:29:39,000<br \/>\nI want her out of my life.<br \/>\nSo if I can burn her for this, <\/p>\n<p>428<br \/>\n00:29:39,000 &#8211;&gt; 00:29:43,480<br \/>\ngreat.<br \/>\nNothing&#8217;s changing. <\/p>\n<p>429<br \/>\n00:29:43,480 &#8211;&gt; 00:29:46,960<br \/>\nThis man so far has it.<br \/>\nBut see how these things are all<\/p>\n<p>430<br \/>\n00:29:46,960 &#8211;&gt; 00:29:51,960<br \/>\ncoming together and they&#8217;re<br \/>\ncoming to 1 enormous climactic <\/p>\n<p>431<br \/>\n00:29:51,960 &#8211;&gt; 00:29:54,600<br \/>\nmoment in his life.<br \/>\nHe&#8217;s told her to go back and <\/p>\n<p>432<br \/>\n00:29:54,600 &#8211;&gt; 00:29:57,640<br \/>\nlive in your father&#8217;s house, but<br \/>\nhe&#8217;s the one that can call the <\/p>\n<p>433<br \/>\n00:29:57,640 &#8211;&gt; 00:30:02,840<br \/>\nshots and say bring her out of<br \/>\nher father&#8217;s house and we&#8217;re <\/p>\n<p>434<br \/>\n00:30:02,840 &#8211;&gt; 00:30:06,920<br \/>\ngoing to burn it.<br \/>\nIt was a priest&#8217;s daughter that <\/p>\n<p>435<br \/>\n00:30:06,920 &#8211;&gt; 00:30:09,160<br \/>\nwould be burnt, was the custom<br \/>\nat the time. <\/p>\n<p>436<br \/>\n00:30:10,120 &#8211;&gt; 00:30:14,320<br \/>\nSo he thinks that he&#8217;s a<br \/>\npriestly family because he&#8217;s <\/p>\n<p>437<br \/>\n00:30:14,320 &#8211;&gt; 00:30:20,720<br \/>\nassociated with a noble family.<br \/>\nRemember, Dom Harm, not Jacob <\/p>\n<p>438<br \/>\n00:30:20,720 &#8211;&gt; 00:30:22,520<br \/>\nwhere he should be.<br \/>\nThis is again the irony. <\/p>\n<p>439<br \/>\n00:30:23,280 &#8211;&gt; 00:30:24,760<br \/>\nHe brings her out and says,<br \/>\nlet&#8217;s burn it. <\/p>\n<p>440<br \/>\n00:30:26,520 &#8211;&gt; 00:30:28,480<br \/>\nNow, I want you to think about<br \/>\nthis situation, just really <\/p>\n<p>441<br \/>\n00:30:28,480 &#8211;&gt; 00:30:31,040<br \/>\ngrasp what this moment would<br \/>\nhave been like. <\/p>\n<p>442<br \/>\n00:30:33,280 &#8211;&gt; 00:30:35,840<br \/>\nYou imagine everyone&#8217;s gathered<br \/>\naround and there&#8217;s Jacob&#8217;s <\/p>\n<p>443<br \/>\n00:30:35,840 &#8211;&gt; 00:30:40,760<br \/>\nfamily here, there&#8217;s Tamar&#8217;s<br \/>\nfamily here, and there&#8217;s the <\/p>\n<p>444<br \/>\n00:30:40,760 &#8211;&gt; 00:30:44,960<br \/>\nlocals from the town.<br \/>\nI can prove they&#8217;re all there, <\/p>\n<p>445<br \/>\n00:30:45,400 &#8211;&gt; 00:30:49,120<br \/>\nbut just believe me, there&#8217;s a<br \/>\nwhole group of people because <\/p>\n<p>446<br \/>\n00:30:49,120 &#8211;&gt; 00:30:53,360<br \/>\nthey are bringing her out.<br \/>\nWhat for? <\/p>\n<p>447<br \/>\n00:30:54,400 &#8211;&gt; 00:30:57,440<br \/>\nTo burn it.<br \/>\nYou imagine they&#8217;re stocking the<\/p>\n<p>448<br \/>\n00:30:57,440 &#8211;&gt; 00:31:00,480<br \/>\nfire, the fire big enough to<br \/>\nburn someone. <\/p>\n<p>449<br \/>\n00:31:01,840 &#8211;&gt; 00:31:03,240<br \/>\nJust feel the drama of this<br \/>\nmoment. <\/p>\n<p>450<br \/>\n00:31:04,960 &#8211;&gt; 00:31:10,680<br \/>\nAnd she sends a word.<br \/>\nShe sends a servant off with a <\/p>\n<p>451<br \/>\n00:31:10,680 &#8211;&gt; 00:31:18,080<br \/>\nmessage to her father-in-law,<br \/>\nand the message is this, I&#8217;m <\/p>\n<p>452<br \/>\n00:31:18,080 &#8211;&gt; 00:31:21,440<br \/>\npregnant by the man to whom<br \/>\nthese belong. <\/p>\n<p>453<br \/>\n00:31:25,640 &#8211;&gt; 00:31:31,520<br \/>\nAs she&#8217;s walking out to be<br \/>\nburnt, the servant is taking the<\/p>\n<p>454<br \/>\n00:31:31,520 &#8211;&gt; 00:31:42,560<br \/>\nmessage to Judah.<br \/>\nOh, Can you imagine Judah in <\/p>\n<p>455<br \/>\n00:31:42,560 &#8211;&gt; 00:31:47,440<br \/>\nthat crowd?<br \/>\nWhere&#8217;s he sitting on the high <\/p>\n<p>456<br \/>\n00:31:47,440 &#8211;&gt; 00:31:53,400<br \/>\nmighty throne, deciding her<br \/>\nfuture, giving her verdict <\/p>\n<p>457<br \/>\n00:31:54,440 &#8211;&gt; 00:31:57,000<br \/>\nwithout a voice, without an<br \/>\nopportunity to speak for <\/p>\n<p>458<br \/>\n00:31:57,000 &#8211;&gt; 00:32:01,560<br \/>\nherself, and sitting up there<br \/>\ncalling the shots. <\/p>\n<p>459<br \/>\n00:32:04,040 &#8211;&gt; 00:32:06,400<br \/>\nShe just ripped the carpet out<br \/>\nfrom under his feet. <\/p>\n<p>460<br \/>\n00:32:08,440 &#8211;&gt; 00:32:13,160<br \/>\nMore than that, that&#8217;s the<br \/>\nmessage that was sent. <\/p>\n<p>461<br \/>\n00:32:14,560 &#8211;&gt; 00:32:16,480<br \/>\nAnd Judah&#8217;s drawer would just<br \/>\ndrop. <\/p>\n<p>462<br \/>\n00:32:19,480 &#8211;&gt; 00:32:22,320<br \/>\nThen says then there&#8217;s always a<br \/>\nbreak. <\/p>\n<p>463<br \/>\n00:32:22,320 &#8211;&gt; 00:32:23,840<br \/>\nEvery translation has a break<br \/>\nhere. <\/p>\n<p>464<br \/>\n00:32:24,680 &#8211;&gt; 00:32:27,040<br \/>\nSo she sent one message saying<br \/>\nthis to Judah. <\/p>\n<p>465<br \/>\n00:32:28,520 &#8211;&gt; 00:32:31,680<br \/>\nAnd then she stands there in<br \/>\nfront of all these people and <\/p>\n<p>466<br \/>\n00:32:31,680 &#8211;&gt; 00:32:38,120<br \/>\nshe goes, I want you to identify<br \/>\nwhose seal, cord and staff this <\/p>\n<p>467<br \/>\n00:32:38,120 &#8211;&gt; 00:32:40,320<br \/>\nis.<br \/>\nShe says that publicly to who? <\/p>\n<p>468<br \/>\n00:32:41,840 &#8211;&gt; 00:32:44,640<br \/>\nTo the guy that wishes he could<br \/>\nfall through the cracks in the <\/p>\n<p>469<br \/>\n00:32:44,640 &#8211;&gt; 00:32:47,920<br \/>\nseat, that he&#8217;s on his high,<br \/>\nmighty pedestal. <\/p>\n<p>470<br \/>\n00:32:50,880 &#8211;&gt; 00:32:55,280<br \/>\nBut she says, identify.<br \/>\nDo you know what that word <\/p>\n<p>471<br \/>\n00:32:55,280 &#8211;&gt; 00:32:57,480<br \/>\nmeans?<br \/>\nNot that I mean to Hebrew words <\/p>\n<p>472<br \/>\n00:32:57,480 &#8211;&gt; 00:33:02,760<br \/>\nin particular, but that is the<br \/>\nexact phrase that Judas said to <\/p>\n<p>473<br \/>\n00:33:02,760 &#8211;&gt; 00:33:08,080<br \/>\nhis dad as he carried a coat<br \/>\ninto his dad and said, dad, do <\/p>\n<p>474<br \/>\n00:33:08,080 &#8211;&gt; 00:33:10,280<br \/>\nyou think it&#8217;s your favorite<br \/>\nboy&#8217;s coat? <\/p>\n<p>475<br \/>\n00:33:11,040 &#8211;&gt; 00:33:14,080<br \/>\nCan you identify the coat for<br \/>\nme? <\/p>\n<p>476<br \/>\n00:33:18,000 &#8211;&gt; 00:33:25,360<br \/>\nAnd here he is exposed with<br \/>\nexactly the same behaviour, <\/p>\n<p>477<br \/>\n00:33:27,640 &#8211;&gt; 00:33:31,000<br \/>\ncaught in that situation.<br \/>\nThis is the way God worked. <\/p>\n<p>478<br \/>\n00:33:32,680 &#8211;&gt; 00:33:38,520<br \/>\nGod gives us opportunity to<br \/>\nlearn from our mistakes. <\/p>\n<p>479<br \/>\n00:33:40,160 &#8211;&gt; 00:33:41,320<br \/>\nNow I want you to think about<br \/>\nthis. <\/p>\n<p>480<br \/>\n00:33:44,880 &#8211;&gt; 00:33:48,560<br \/>\nJudah has a choice how to<br \/>\nrespond. <\/p>\n<p>481<br \/>\n00:33:50,360 &#8211;&gt; 00:33:54,520<br \/>\nHe could deny that and push<br \/>\nahead with the burning. <\/p>\n<p>482<br \/>\n00:33:57,920 &#8211;&gt; 00:34:02,360<br \/>\nOr he could face up to the facts<br \/>\nwith all that public humiliation<\/p>\n<p>483<br \/>\n00:34:04,240 &#8211;&gt; 00:34:11,120<br \/>\nand goes, Yep, I&#8217;m wrong.<br \/>\nThose words don&#8217;t come easily. <\/p>\n<p>484<br \/>\n00:34:13,760 &#8211;&gt; 00:34:21,440<br \/>\nAnd he said every bit of it.<br \/>\nShe is more righteous than me. <\/p>\n<p>485<br \/>\n00:34:22,320 &#8211;&gt; 00:34:27,560<br \/>\nHe owned it.<br \/>\nHe called it what it is. <\/p>\n<p>486<br \/>\n00:34:28,639 &#8211;&gt; 00:34:34,639<br \/>\nThey were both involved in this.<br \/>\nNo, she&#8217;s more righteous than he<\/p>\n<p>487<br \/>\n00:34:34,639 &#8211;&gt; 00:34:38,000<br \/>\nwas.<br \/>\nAnd in that publicly <\/p>\n<p>488<br \/>\n00:34:38,000 &#8211;&gt; 00:34:40,920<br \/>\nembarrassing moment where he<br \/>\nthought he was on his high and <\/p>\n<p>489<br \/>\n00:34:40,920 &#8211;&gt; 00:34:45,560<br \/>\nmighty throne, he&#8217;s been pulled<br \/>\nright down to the ground. <\/p>\n<p>490<br \/>\n00:34:45,560 &#8211;&gt; 00:34:49,880<br \/>\nAnd she&#8217;s been shown to be the<br \/>\nrighteous party who simply <\/p>\n<p>491<br \/>\n00:34:49,880 &#8211;&gt; 00:34:56,639<br \/>\nwanted what his word to be<br \/>\nbecause he promised a child to <\/p>\n<p>492<br \/>\n00:34:56,639 &#8211;&gt; 00:35:01,320<br \/>\nhurt and he was playing games<br \/>\nand not giving her his third <\/p>\n<p>493<br \/>\n00:35:01,320 &#8211;&gt; 00:35:06,160<br \/>\nson.<br \/>\nAnd she just wanted what was <\/p>\n<p>494<br \/>\n00:35:06,160 &#8211;&gt; 00:35:10,440<br \/>\nrightfully hers and she stuck to<br \/>\nit. <\/p>\n<p>495<br \/>\n00:35:12,240 &#8211;&gt; 00:35:15,640<br \/>\nHe was the guy that was being<br \/>\nunrighteous. <\/p>\n<p>496<br \/>\n00:35:16,920 &#8211;&gt; 00:35:24,680<br \/>\nCan you feel that?<br \/>\nJust imagine the moment for <\/p>\n<p>497<br \/>\n00:35:24,680 &#8211;&gt; 00:35:34,480<br \/>\nJudah, not only realizing that<br \/>\nfirst statement that he&#8217;s about <\/p>\n<p>498<br \/>\n00:35:34,480 &#8211;&gt; 00:35:40,600<br \/>\nto be exposed, but because he<br \/>\ndoesn&#8217;t act, she takes to that <\/p>\n<p>499<br \/>\n00:35:40,600 &#8211;&gt; 00:35:47,800<br \/>\nnext level and says identify it.<br \/>\nAnd we have proof that Judah has<\/p>\n<p>500<br \/>\n00:35:47,840 &#8211;&gt; 00:35:50,440<br \/>\nstruggling in his mind what he<br \/>\ndid to his dad. <\/p>\n<p>501<br \/>\n00:35:50,440 &#8211;&gt; 00:35:52,200<br \/>\nHe knows that we&#8217;re going to see<br \/>\nthat in the next study. <\/p>\n<p>502<br \/>\n00:35:52,520 &#8211;&gt; 00:35:55,400<br \/>\nIt&#8217;s playing in his mind.<br \/>\nIt&#8217;s affecting him. <\/p>\n<p>503<br \/>\n00:35:56,800 &#8211;&gt; 00:36:00,120<br \/>\nAnd I think this moment had<br \/>\ndramatic impact on Judah. <\/p>\n<p>504<br \/>\n00:36:00,280 &#8211;&gt; 00:36:04,560<br \/>\nHis conscience is just screaming<br \/>\nat him. <\/p>\n<p>505<br \/>\n00:36:08,600 &#8211;&gt; 00:36:10,760<br \/>\nRemember, this is the guy that<br \/>\nwas hypocritical about. <\/p>\n<p>506<br \/>\n00:36:10,760 &#8211;&gt; 00:36:13,880<br \/>\nWe might appear to have not<br \/>\ndelivered the goat to Tamer. <\/p>\n<p>507<br \/>\n00:36:15,760 &#8211;&gt; 00:36:21,680<br \/>\nHow&#8217;s he appearing now?<br \/>\nIt&#8217;s a huge lesson here. <\/p>\n<p>508<br \/>\n00:36:23,200 &#8211;&gt; 00:36:24,640<br \/>\nI&#8217;ll make this point really<br \/>\nclearly. <\/p>\n<p>509<br \/>\n00:36:27,200 &#8211;&gt; 00:36:31,800<br \/>\nWhen we get confronted with<br \/>\nsomething we&#8217;ve done wrong and <\/p>\n<p>510<br \/>\n00:36:31,800 &#8211;&gt; 00:36:41,960<br \/>\nwe all do it, we all do things<br \/>\nwrong, own it, face up, call it <\/p>\n<p>511<br \/>\n00:36:41,960 &#8211;&gt; 00:36:46,440<br \/>\nwhat it is.<br \/>\nBecause if Judah tried to lie in<\/p>\n<p>512<br \/>\n00:36:46,440 &#8211;&gt; 00:36:49,360<br \/>\nthat situation, what do you<br \/>\nthink that whole crowd of people<\/p>\n<p>513<br \/>\n00:36:49,360 &#8211;&gt; 00:36:53,320<br \/>\nwould have been thinking?<br \/>\nThey know what happened. <\/p>\n<p>514<br \/>\n00:36:54,720 &#8211;&gt; 00:36:59,920<br \/>\nThey know that signet, that<br \/>\nstaff, that seal, they know his <\/p>\n<p>515<br \/>\n00:36:59,920 &#8211;&gt; 00:37:03,120<br \/>\nidentity is in her hands.<br \/>\nThey know the truth of the <\/p>\n<p>516<br \/>\n00:37:03,120 &#8211;&gt; 00:37:05,160<br \/>\nsituation.<br \/>\nThey know his reputation. <\/p>\n<p>517<br \/>\n00:37:06,760 &#8211;&gt; 00:37:08,560<br \/>\nHe&#8217;s a fool to think he could<br \/>\nlie. <\/p>\n<p>518<br \/>\n00:37:09,640 &#8211;&gt; 00:37:13,120<br \/>\nAnd so are we when we try to<br \/>\npull the wool over our brothers <\/p>\n<p>519<br \/>\n00:37:13,120 &#8211;&gt; 00:37:20,440<br \/>\nand sisters of Rally People and<br \/>\nact as if we don&#8217;t do something <\/p>\n<p>520<br \/>\n00:37:21,240 &#8211;&gt; 00:37:23,800<br \/>\nor haven&#8217;t done something when<br \/>\nwe&#8217;ve been caught out for it. <\/p>\n<p>521<br \/>\n00:37:23,800 &#8211;&gt; 00:37:25,960<br \/>\nSo there&#8217;s a really important<br \/>\nlesson to learn. <\/p>\n<p>522<br \/>\n00:37:25,960 &#8211;&gt; 00:37:31,120<br \/>\nOwn up to your situation, face<br \/>\nup to what it is now. <\/p>\n<p>523<br \/>\n00:37:32,680 &#8211;&gt; 00:37:34,000<br \/>\nI want to pull all that story<br \/>\ntogether. <\/p>\n<p>524<br \/>\n00:37:35,200 &#8211;&gt; 00:37:40,480<br \/>\nWhat is Judah being taught?<br \/>\nIt&#8217;s one word and it&#8217;s empathy. <\/p>\n<p>525<br \/>\n00:37:42,280 &#8211;&gt; 00:37:48,920<br \/>\nJust appreciate someone else&#8217;s<br \/>\nposition for a minute of your <\/p>\n<p>526<br \/>\n00:37:48,920 &#8211;&gt; 00:37:51,400<br \/>\nlife, Judah.<br \/>\nJust grasp this. <\/p>\n<p>527<br \/>\n00:37:56,720 &#8211;&gt; 00:38:02,000<br \/>\nLife has taken Judah down a path<br \/>\nthat led him to appreciate, and <\/p>\n<p>528<br \/>\n00:38:02,000 &#8211;&gt; 00:38:04,560<br \/>\nI say appreciate in an<br \/>\nincredible way, his father&#8217;s <\/p>\n<p>529<br \/>\n00:38:04,560 &#8211;&gt; 00:38:08,800<br \/>\nstory.<br \/>\nJust think, what&#8217;s it like Judah<\/p>\n<p>530<br \/>\n00:38:09,760 &#8211;&gt; 00:38:15,720<br \/>\nto have lost a grown son or two<br \/>\nactually? <\/p>\n<p>531<br \/>\n00:38:17,480 &#8211;&gt; 00:38:23,360<br \/>\nBecause at this point, Jacob has<br \/>\nlost a 17 year old son and he&#8217;s <\/p>\n<p>532<br \/>\n00:38:23,360 &#8211;&gt; 00:38:28,640<br \/>\nabout to lose another son.<br \/>\nJudah&#8217;s lost two grown sons <\/p>\n<p>533<br \/>\n00:38:29,840 &#8211;&gt; 00:38:36,760<br \/>\nkilled by God.<br \/>\nWhat&#8217;s it like, Judah, to be <\/p>\n<p>534<br \/>\n00:38:36,760 &#8211;&gt; 00:38:43,680<br \/>\nprotecting yours youngest son?<br \/>\nBecause that&#8217;s what you&#8217;re angry<\/p>\n<p>535<br \/>\n00:38:43,680 &#8211;&gt; 00:38:46,680<br \/>\nat your dad about protecting<br \/>\nJoseph? <\/p>\n<p>536<br \/>\n00:38:47,160 &#8211;&gt; 00:38:51,920<br \/>\nYeah.<br \/>\nWhat&#8217;s it like to lose the wife <\/p>\n<p>537<br \/>\n00:38:51,920 &#8211;&gt; 00:38:56,760<br \/>\nthat you live love and they&#8217;d be<br \/>\nleft with this woman, Tamar, <\/p>\n<p>538<br \/>\n00:38:56,760 &#8211;&gt; 00:39:00,560<br \/>\nthat you never actually did<br \/>\nlove, but now you&#8217;ve got to live<\/p>\n<p>539<br \/>\n00:39:00,560 &#8211;&gt; 00:39:08,440<br \/>\nwith her?<br \/>\nThat&#8217;s more than that. <\/p>\n<p>540<br \/>\n00:39:09,400 &#8211;&gt; 00:39:17,200<br \/>\nWhat&#8217;s it like to have children<br \/>\nthat you didn&#8217;t want to have? <\/p>\n<p>541<br \/>\n00:39:19,200 &#8211;&gt; 00:39:24,160<br \/>\nBecause Judo now has two twins<br \/>\nabout to be born. <\/p>\n<p>542<br \/>\n00:39:24,160 &#8211;&gt; 00:39:29,240<br \/>\nHe doesn&#8217;t know that quite yet.<br \/>\nThat&#8217;s the final piece that will<\/p>\n<p>543<br \/>\n00:39:29,240 &#8211;&gt; 00:39:35,320<br \/>\nfit into this puzzle.<br \/>\nWhat&#8217;s it like to be tricked by <\/p>\n<p>544<br \/>\n00:39:35,320 &#8211;&gt; 00:39:37,880<br \/>\na veil that was overtime us<br \/>\neyes? <\/p>\n<p>545<br \/>\n00:39:39,160 &#8211;&gt; 00:39:41,280<br \/>\nBit like the coat that you gave<br \/>\nto your dad. <\/p>\n<p>546<br \/>\n00:39:42,960 &#8211;&gt; 00:39:46,440<br \/>\nA bit like the coat that your<br \/>\ndad tricked your dad&#8217;s dad with.<\/p>\n<p>547<br \/>\n00:39:54,560 &#8211;&gt; 00:40:01,400<br \/>\nJust stop and think about that<br \/>\nfor a minute and discern whether<\/p>\n<p>548<br \/>\n00:40:01,400 &#8211;&gt; 00:40:17,600<br \/>\nyou&#8217;re an honest, truthful man.<br \/>\nIdentify this code and in that <\/p>\n<p>549<br \/>\n00:40:17,600 &#8211;&gt; 00:40:24,520<br \/>\nmoment Judah is taught the value<br \/>\nof family. <\/p>\n<p>550<br \/>\n00:40:25,920 &#8211;&gt; 00:40:31,080<br \/>\nOf relationships, of all the<br \/>\nthings that he despised and was <\/p>\n<p>551<br \/>\n00:40:31,080 &#8211;&gt; 00:40:36,200<br \/>\nbitter about and all got turned<br \/>\naround and put back on his head.<\/p>\n<p>552<br \/>\n00:40:38,360 &#8211;&gt; 00:40:41,560<br \/>\nBut the most encouraging thing<br \/>\nis that is what is going to <\/p>\n<p>553<br \/>\n00:40:41,560 &#8211;&gt; 00:40:45,320<br \/>\nrebuild him.<br \/>\nAnd in trials, we think that <\/p>\n<p>554<br \/>\n00:40:45,320 &#8211;&gt; 00:40:48,920<br \/>\nthat breaks us, we give up.<br \/>\nAnd we think, I can&#8217;t recover <\/p>\n<p>555<br \/>\n00:40:48,920 &#8211;&gt; 00:40:51,440<br \/>\nfrom this.<br \/>\nAnd Judah&#8217;s standing up there <\/p>\n<p>556<br \/>\n00:40:51,440 &#8211;&gt; 00:40:53,840<br \/>\ncalling the shots on her.<br \/>\nHe&#8217;s now embarrassed. <\/p>\n<p>557<br \/>\n00:40:53,840 &#8211;&gt; 00:40:56,080<br \/>\nHe could go out and go, I can&#8217;t<br \/>\nrecover. <\/p>\n<p>558<br \/>\n00:40:56,480 &#8211;&gt; 00:41:02,680<br \/>\nI&#8217;m past it.<br \/>\nThat is what is going to rebuild<\/p>\n<p>559<br \/>\n00:41:02,680 &#8211;&gt; 00:41:06,720<br \/>\nJudah and change him.<br \/>\nThose very experiences. <\/p>\n<p>560<br \/>\n00:41:07,720 &#8211;&gt; 00:41:10,080<br \/>\nAnd that&#8217;s what I want you to<br \/>\ngrasp in your life, too. <\/p>\n<p>561<br \/>\n00:41:10,320 &#8211;&gt; 00:41:13,840<br \/>\nThe mistakes are learning,<br \/>\nopportunities to become a better<\/p>\n<p>562<br \/>\n00:41:13,840 &#8211;&gt; 00:41:17,280<br \/>\nperson, to grow.<br \/>\nI very much hope you don&#8217;t have <\/p>\n<p>563<br \/>\n00:41:17,280 &#8211;&gt; 00:41:25,480<br \/>\nto go to the moral despair of<br \/>\nwhere Judah is brought, but <\/p>\n<p>564<br \/>\n00:41:25,480 &#8211;&gt; 00:41:30,280<br \/>\nthat&#8217;s how we learnt.<br \/>\nI want to put it this way. <\/p>\n<p>565<br \/>\n00:41:30,680 &#8211;&gt; 00:41:36,800<br \/>\nThe meals of God&#8217;s Providence<br \/>\nand the way God works in our <\/p>\n<p>566<br \/>\n00:41:36,800 &#8211;&gt; 00:41:42,000<br \/>\nlife is through Providence.<br \/>\nAnd Providence grinds through <\/p>\n<p>567<br \/>\n00:41:42,000 &#8211;&gt; 00:41:48,160<br \/>\nour life very, very slowly.<br \/>\nAnd this wheel has turned over <\/p>\n<p>568<br \/>\n00:41:48,160 &#8211;&gt; 00:41:52,320<br \/>\n20 something years.<br \/>\nBut what it does is it grinds <\/p>\n<p>569<br \/>\n00:41:52,560 &#8211;&gt; 00:41:57,680<br \/>\nincredibly precise because it&#8217;s<br \/>\nGod&#8217;s meal. <\/p>\n<p>570<br \/>\n00:41:58,600 &#8211;&gt; 00:42:01,600<br \/>\nGod knows exactly what he&#8217;s<br \/>\ndoing in our life. <\/p>\n<p>571<br \/>\n00:42:03,560 &#8211;&gt; 00:42:09,480<br \/>\nThe precision is incredible.<br \/>\nIt&#8217;s ironic, isn&#8217;t it? <\/p>\n<p>572<br \/>\n00:42:11,160 &#8211;&gt; 00:42:14,600<br \/>\nIt&#8217;s the way God works.<br \/>\nJust think about this man, same <\/p>\n<p>573<br \/>\n00:42:14,600 &#8211;&gt; 00:42:22,640<br \/>\nproblem and God ended his life<br \/>\nin a prison without his eyes <\/p>\n<p>574<br \/>\n00:42:23,760 &#8211;&gt; 00:42:29,200<br \/>\ndoing the job that was normally<br \/>\nallocated to the ladies so that <\/p>\n<p>575<br \/>\n00:42:29,200 &#8211;&gt; 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