{"id":1131,"date":"2024-05-20T20:03:00","date_gmt":"2024-05-20T20:03:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/goodchristadelphiantalks.com\/index.php\/podcast\/jim-styles-living-as-a-member-of-gods-family-class-3-living-by-love-and-not-by-law\/"},"modified":"2026-07-27T12:44:47","modified_gmt":"2026-07-27T12:44:47","slug":"jim-styles-living-as-a-member-of-gods-family-class-3-living-by-love-and-not-by-law","status":"publish","type":"podcast","link":"https:\/\/goodchristadelphiantalks.com\/index.php\/podcast\/jim-styles-living-as-a-member-of-gods-family-class-3-living-by-love-and-not-by-law\/","title":{"rendered":"Jim Styles &#8211; Living as a Member of God&#8217;s Family &#8211; Class 3 &#8211; Living by Love and not by Law"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Class 1 from this series was used in GCT Episode 296.<\/p>\n<div class=\"transcript\">1<br \/>\n00:00:00,040 &#8211;&gt; 00:00:02,720<br \/>\nEveryone.<br \/>\nAll right. <\/p>\n<p>2<br \/>\n00:00:04,640 &#8211;&gt; 00:00:08,000<br \/>\nA couple of people have asked me<br \/>\nsome things about things that I <\/p>\n<p>3<br \/>\n00:00:08,000 &#8211;&gt; 00:00:10,040<br \/>\ntalked to you about.<br \/>\nI&#8217;ve tried to share with you <\/p>\n<p>4<br \/>\n00:00:10,040 &#8211;&gt; 00:00:12,080<br \/>\nthis week.<br \/>\nThings that have taken me a long<\/p>\n<p>5<br \/>\n00:00:12,080 &#8211;&gt; 00:00:15,400<br \/>\ntime to learn soon.<br \/>\nI grew up in an ecclesia that <\/p>\n<p>6<br \/>\n00:00:15,400 &#8211;&gt; 00:00:18,640<br \/>\nwas had a culture to it of one<br \/>\nway. <\/p>\n<p>7<br \/>\n00:00:18,640 &#8211;&gt; 00:00:22,320<br \/>\nAnd there are topics that I<br \/>\ndiscovered over time that I <\/p>\n<p>8<br \/>\n00:00:22,320 &#8211;&gt; 00:00:26,040<br \/>\ndidn&#8217;t really find out, that our<br \/>\necclesial culture had actually <\/p>\n<p>9<br \/>\n00:00:26,040 &#8211;&gt; 00:00:29,160<br \/>\nmatched up exactly what I would<br \/>\nsay the Bible teaches. <\/p>\n<p>10<br \/>\n00:00:29,720 &#8211;&gt; 00:00:32,640<br \/>\nAnd so those are things that, as<br \/>\nI&#8217;ve grown up, I&#8217;ve decided that<\/p>\n<p>11<br \/>\n00:00:32,640 &#8211;&gt; 00:00:34,920<br \/>\nthose are things I&#8217;d like to<br \/>\ntalk about with people because <\/p>\n<p>12<br \/>\n00:00:34,920 &#8211;&gt; 00:00:37,000<br \/>\nit took me a long time to<br \/>\nappreciate them. <\/p>\n<p>13<br \/>\n00:00:37,520 &#8211;&gt; 00:00:41,000<br \/>\nAnd one of them was the love of<br \/>\nGod, living by love and not by <\/p>\n<p>14<br \/>\n00:00:41,000 &#8211;&gt; 00:00:42,240<br \/>\nlaw.<br \/>\nThat&#8217;s one of the that&#8217;s our <\/p>\n<p>15<br \/>\n00:00:42,240 &#8211;&gt; 00:00:45,120<br \/>\ntopic for this morning.<br \/>\nOne of the other ones was God&#8217;s <\/p>\n<p>16<br \/>\n00:00:45,120 &#8211;&gt; 00:00:48,120<br \/>\nelection, and our collegiate<br \/>\ndidn&#8217;t talk about God&#8217;s <\/p>\n<p>17<br \/>\n00:00:48,120 &#8211;&gt; 00:00:49,960<br \/>\nelection.<br \/>\nMost people in North America <\/p>\n<p>18<br \/>\n00:00:49,960 &#8211;&gt; 00:00:53,400<br \/>\ndidn&#8217;t talk about God&#8217;s election<br \/>\nand we just sort of assumed that<\/p>\n<p>19<br \/>\n00:00:53,400 &#8211;&gt; 00:00:57,680<br \/>\nwe had it all right and and<br \/>\ngoing through Romans chapter 91 <\/p>\n<p>20<br \/>\n00:00:57,680 &#8211;&gt; 00:00:59,760<br \/>\ntime and John was listening to<br \/>\nJohn Martin&#8217;s classes. <\/p>\n<p>21<br \/>\n00:00:59,760 &#8211;&gt; 00:01:03,480<br \/>\nHe gave like 40 some classes on<br \/>\nRomans and that was great. <\/p>\n<p>22<br \/>\n00:01:03,480 &#8211;&gt; 00:01:06,600<br \/>\nBut it opened my eyes to the<br \/>\nfact that I&#8217;d read Old Testament<\/p>\n<p>23<br \/>\n00:01:06,600 &#8211;&gt; 00:01:11,320<br \/>\nstories for years without really<br \/>\nunderstanding a a second level <\/p>\n<p>24<br \/>\n00:01:11,320 &#8211;&gt; 00:01:14,560<br \/>\nto those stories.<br \/>\nAnd so that&#8217;s that&#8217;s where the <\/p>\n<p>25<br \/>\n00:01:14,840 &#8211;&gt; 00:01:17,080<br \/>\nmy background has come from on<br \/>\nGod&#8217;s election. <\/p>\n<p>26<br \/>\n00:01:17,080 &#8211;&gt; 00:01:19,640<br \/>\nSo I thought, maybe tomorrow if<br \/>\nthe company minds on the <\/p>\n<p>27<br \/>\n00:01:19,640 &#8211;&gt; 00:01:21,760<br \/>\ncommittee, I&#8217;ll probably take<br \/>\nabout half the class tomorrow, <\/p>\n<p>28<br \/>\n00:01:21,760 &#8211;&gt; 00:01:24,960<br \/>\nmaybe 20 minutes and we&#8217;ll have<br \/>\na look at Romans Chapter 9 and <\/p>\n<p>29<br \/>\n00:01:24,960 &#8211;&gt; 00:01:26,760<br \/>\nsee where that teaching actually<br \/>\ncomes from. <\/p>\n<p>30<br \/>\n00:01:27,280 &#8211;&gt; 00:01:29,760<br \/>\nBut today we are going to look<br \/>\nat God&#8217;s love. <\/p>\n<p>31<br \/>\n00:01:30,360 &#8211;&gt; 00:01:32,880<br \/>\nNow somebody also mentioned to<br \/>\nme yesterday that they thought <\/p>\n<p>32<br \/>\n00:01:32,880 &#8211;&gt; 00:01:37,000<br \/>\nwhen I said God is our couch,<br \/>\nthat it sounded like to you that<\/p>\n<p>33<br \/>\n00:01:37,000 &#8211;&gt; 00:01:39,280<br \/>\nGod was our, how do you<br \/>\npronounce it? <\/p>\n<p>34<br \/>\n00:01:39,280 &#8211;&gt; 00:01:40,760<br \/>\nCouch.<br \/>\nCouch. <\/p>\n<p>35<br \/>\n00:01:43,040 &#8211;&gt; 00:01:44,440<br \/>\nThey said what is he talking<br \/>\nabout? <\/p>\n<p>36<br \/>\n00:01:44,440 &#8211;&gt; 00:01:48,120<br \/>\nGod is our coach, but it was<br \/>\nactually coach. <\/p>\n<p>37<br \/>\n00:01:48,440 &#8211;&gt; 00:01:49,920<br \/>\nI don&#8217;t know how you say it,<br \/>\ncoach. <\/p>\n<p>38<br \/>\n00:01:50,400 &#8211;&gt; 00:01:52,680<br \/>\nAnyways, all those all those<br \/>\nteens out there, they know about<\/p>\n<p>39<br \/>\n00:01:52,680 &#8211;&gt; 00:01:54,960<br \/>\ncoaches.<br \/>\nSo yeah, it was actually, if you<\/p>\n<p>40<br \/>\n00:01:54,960 &#8211;&gt; 00:01:58,440<br \/>\nmissed that, it was supposed to<br \/>\nbe God is our coach, not our <\/p>\n<p>41<br \/>\n00:01:58,440 &#8211;&gt; 00:02:00,120<br \/>\ncoach.<br \/>\nJust wanted to make sure that <\/p>\n<p>42<br \/>\n00:02:00,120 &#8211;&gt; 00:02:03,760<br \/>\nwas straight.<br \/>\nAll right, so this is one of the<\/p>\n<p>43<br \/>\n00:02:03,760 &#8211;&gt; 00:02:06,640<br \/>\ntopics that when I was growing<br \/>\nup, when Sue and I grew up in <\/p>\n<p>44<br \/>\n00:02:06,640 &#8211;&gt; 00:02:10,320<br \/>\nour our local cultural area of<br \/>\nDetroit, people didn&#8217;t talk much<\/p>\n<p>45<br \/>\n00:02:10,320 &#8211;&gt; 00:02:13,080<br \/>\nabout the love of God.<br \/>\nIt wasn&#8217;t a topic you could hear<\/p>\n<p>46<br \/>\n00:02:13,080 &#8211;&gt; 00:02:15,640<br \/>\nexhortations on or Bible classes<br \/>\nor anything. <\/p>\n<p>47<br \/>\n00:02:15,640 &#8211;&gt; 00:02:18,800<br \/>\nIt was just sort of treated as<br \/>\nan evangelical concept. <\/p>\n<p>48<br \/>\n00:02:19,120 &#8211;&gt; 00:02:21,280<br \/>\nIf you started talking about,<br \/>\nwell, God loves us, it was like,<\/p>\n<p>49<br \/>\n00:02:21,280 &#8211;&gt; 00:02:23,880<br \/>\noh, you&#8217;re evangelical.<br \/>\nAnd it&#8217;s like, whoa. <\/p>\n<p>50<br \/>\n00:02:24,200 &#8211;&gt; 00:02:26,160<br \/>\nIt&#8217;s like that was the kind of<br \/>\nreaction we got. <\/p>\n<p>51<br \/>\n00:02:26,560 &#8211;&gt; 00:02:29,640<br \/>\nAnd yet you find out in the<br \/>\nScriptures, this is all over the<\/p>\n<p>52<br \/>\n00:02:29,640 &#8211;&gt; 00:02:32,320<br \/>\nBible.<br \/>\nThis was what to me, it&#8217;s like <\/p>\n<p>53<br \/>\n00:02:32,320 &#8211;&gt; 00:02:34,880<br \/>\nthe foundation principle.<br \/>\nThe number one thing we should <\/p>\n<p>54<br \/>\n00:02:34,880 &#8211;&gt; 00:02:38,360<br \/>\nhave had in the BASF is it<br \/>\nstarts out with God loves us, <\/p>\n<p>55<br \/>\n00:02:38,680 &#8211;&gt; 00:02:41,480<br \/>\nGod is love.<br \/>\nAnd I really find it. <\/p>\n<p>56<br \/>\n00:02:41,480 &#8211;&gt; 00:02:45,760<br \/>\nIt really has changed the way we<br \/>\napproach people in life. <\/p>\n<p>57<br \/>\n00:02:46,000 &#8211;&gt; 00:02:49,160<br \/>\nAnd the way we approach<br \/>\ncollegial problems and decisions<\/p>\n<p>58<br \/>\n00:02:49,440 &#8211;&gt; 00:02:52,480<br \/>\nis to remember that we want to<br \/>\ntry to do them like God. <\/p>\n<p>59<br \/>\n00:02:52,520 &#8211;&gt; 00:02:56,400<br \/>\nGod loves us.<br \/>\nHe loves us like a father and as<\/p>\n<p>60<br \/>\n00:02:56,400 &#8211;&gt; 00:02:58,720<br \/>\na father does as children.<br \/>\nSo we ought to look today at <\/p>\n<p>61<br \/>\n00:02:58,720 &#8211;&gt; 00:03:00,440<br \/>\nwhat in the world does that<br \/>\nactually mean. <\/p>\n<p>62<br \/>\n00:03:01,600 &#8211;&gt; 00:03:05,200<br \/>\nI think it&#8217;s it&#8217;s important to<br \/>\nrealize that God is the one who <\/p>\n<p>63<br \/>\n00:03:05,200 &#8211;&gt; 00:03:08,320<br \/>\ndefines love.<br \/>\nThis is not like humanism, where<\/p>\n<p>64<br \/>\n00:03:08,320 &#8211;&gt; 00:03:10,120<br \/>\nyou just, like, decide, well,<br \/>\nwhat do you think the love of <\/p>\n<p>65<br \/>\n00:03:10,120 &#8211;&gt; 00:03:11,800<br \/>\nGod is, and what do you think<br \/>\nGod&#8217;s love is? <\/p>\n<p>66<br \/>\n00:03:11,800 &#8211;&gt; 00:03:15,240<br \/>\nAnd what do you think now?<br \/>\nWe&#8217;re told in the scriptures <\/p>\n<p>67<br \/>\n00:03:15,520 &#8211;&gt; 00:03:19,600<br \/>\nwhat love is, the way God<br \/>\ndefines it and the way it plays <\/p>\n<p>68<br \/>\n00:03:19,600 &#8211;&gt; 00:03:22,840<br \/>\nout, and how he treats people.<br \/>\nThe love of God. <\/p>\n<p>69<br \/>\n00:03:22,840 &#8211;&gt; 00:03:26,600<br \/>\nHe&#8217;s the one who took the<br \/>\ninitiative and he is the one who<\/p>\n<p>70<br \/>\n00:03:26,600 &#8211;&gt; 00:03:29,600<br \/>\nloved us first.<br \/>\nIt all comes from God. <\/p>\n<p>71<br \/>\n00:03:29,600 &#8211;&gt; 00:03:32,600<br \/>\nEverything does.<br \/>\nIt&#8217;s all coming down from God. <\/p>\n<p>72<br \/>\n00:03:33,000 &#8211;&gt; 00:03:36,760<br \/>\nAnd I really think this helps us<br \/>\nto like, fine tune our <\/p>\n<p>73<br \/>\n00:03:36,760 &#8211;&gt; 00:03:40,640<br \/>\nunderstanding of how is God<br \/>\nconnected with Jesus today? <\/p>\n<p>74<br \/>\n00:03:40,640 &#8211;&gt; 00:03:43,560<br \/>\nWho&#8217;s connected with us?<br \/>\nWhat does this actually mean? <\/p>\n<p>75<br \/>\n00:03:44,040 &#8211;&gt; 00:03:48,200<br \/>\nDoes God really need somebody to<br \/>\nstand in between US and him and <\/p>\n<p>76<br \/>\n00:03:48,200 &#8211;&gt; 00:03:50,920<br \/>\nand plead with us to please<br \/>\nforgive these humans? <\/p>\n<p>77<br \/>\n00:03:50,920 &#8211;&gt; 00:03:53,520<br \/>\nI know what it&#8217;s like for them.<br \/>\nThat&#8217;s what the Christian <\/p>\n<p>78<br \/>\n00:03:53,520 &#8211;&gt; 00:03:56,160<br \/>\nchurches teach.<br \/>\nThat&#8217;s not what the Bible <\/p>\n<p>79<br \/>\n00:03:56,160 &#8211;&gt; 00:03:59,440<br \/>\nteaches.<br \/>\nThe Bible teaches that God was <\/p>\n<p>80<br \/>\n00:03:59,440 &#8211;&gt; 00:04:03,960<br \/>\nthe one who in the beginning<br \/>\nfirst loved and He&#8217;s the one in <\/p>\n<p>81<br \/>\n00:04:03,960 &#8211;&gt; 00:04:08,400<br \/>\nset in motion all of the things<br \/>\nnecessary and and all the things<\/p>\n<p>82<br \/>\n00:04:08,400 &#8211;&gt; 00:04:12,080<br \/>\nwe talk about in the atonement.<br \/>\nHe&#8217;s the one who initiated it <\/p>\n<p>83<br \/>\n00:04:12,080 &#8211;&gt; 00:04:15,840<br \/>\nall because he loved us more<br \/>\nthan anyone and wanted to save <\/p>\n<p>84<br \/>\n00:04:15,840 &#8211;&gt; 00:04:17,320<br \/>\nus.<br \/>\nHe loves us. <\/p>\n<p>85<br \/>\n00:04:17,320 &#8211;&gt; 00:04:20,839<br \/>\nIn a sense I think he loves us<br \/>\nmore than Jesus ever did because<\/p>\n<p>86<br \/>\n00:04:20,839 &#8211;&gt; 00:04:24,600<br \/>\nhe was willing to go through all<br \/>\nof that for us. <\/p>\n<p>87<br \/>\n00:04:25,520 &#8211;&gt; 00:04:28,440<br \/>\nAnd Christ, what he did is he<br \/>\nworked with God. <\/p>\n<p>88<br \/>\n00:04:28,440 &#8211;&gt; 00:04:33,160<br \/>\nHe accepted as as Jack would<br \/>\ncall it, God&#8217;s righteous way of <\/p>\n<p>89<br \/>\n00:04:33,160 &#8211;&gt; 00:04:36,000<br \/>\ndoing it.<br \/>\nHe accepted God&#8217;s righteousness.<\/p>\n<p>90<br \/>\n00:04:36,440 &#8211;&gt; 00:04:39,480<br \/>\nSo look how first John puts it<br \/>\nand I think this helped me <\/p>\n<p>91<br \/>\n00:04:39,480 &#8211;&gt; 00:04:41,120<br \/>\nunderstand.<br \/>\nAnd going through first John you<\/p>\n<p>92<br \/>\n00:04:41,120 &#8211;&gt; 00:04:44,880<br \/>\nmight wonder like why does John<br \/>\nkeep talking about love? <\/p>\n<p>93<br \/>\n00:04:45,440 &#8211;&gt; 00:04:47,360<br \/>\nYou ever read that as sometimes<br \/>\nthe younger people. <\/p>\n<p>94<br \/>\n00:04:47,360 &#8211;&gt; 00:04:50,000<br \/>\nYou read first John and you<br \/>\nthink all he does is rank on <\/p>\n<p>95<br \/>\n00:04:50,000 &#8211;&gt; 00:04:52,120<br \/>\nabout love and love and love and<br \/>\nlove and what are like what? <\/p>\n<p>96<br \/>\n00:04:52,120 &#8211;&gt; 00:04:54,640<br \/>\nWhat is this all about?<br \/>\nIt&#8217;s it. <\/p>\n<p>97<br \/>\n00:04:54,640 &#8211;&gt; 00:04:55,760<br \/>\nIt&#8217;s hard.<br \/>\nIt&#8217;s like going through the <\/p>\n<p>98<br \/>\n00:04:55,760 &#8211;&gt; 00:04:57,320<br \/>\nPsalms.<br \/>\nSometimes you wonder like what? <\/p>\n<p>99<br \/>\n00:04:57,320 &#8211;&gt; 00:04:58,760<br \/>\nWhat are you getting at all the<br \/>\nPsalms. <\/p>\n<p>100<br \/>\n00:04:59,120 &#8211;&gt; 00:05:02,680<br \/>\nBut as you go through first John<br \/>\ncarefully, you start realizing <\/p>\n<p>101<br \/>\n00:05:02,680 &#8211;&gt; 00:05:06,680<br \/>\nhe&#8217;s building a case for the<br \/>\nfact that this changes your <\/p>\n<p>102<br \/>\n00:05:06,680 &#8211;&gt; 00:05:11,360<br \/>\nbehavior, changes how you live.<br \/>\nAnd he spirals around this idea <\/p>\n<p>103<br \/>\n00:05:11,360 &#8211;&gt; 00:05:13,360<br \/>\nas he&#8217;s working his way up that<br \/>\nGod is love. <\/p>\n<p>104<br \/>\n00:05:13,360 &#8211;&gt; 00:05:16,200<br \/>\nSome people have described as<br \/>\nlike a spiral staircase and he <\/p>\n<p>105<br \/>\n00:05:16,200 &#8211;&gt; 00:05:18,560<br \/>\nsays he&#8217;s winding around.<br \/>\nThis idea of God is love, <\/p>\n<p>106<br \/>\n00:05:18,560 &#8211;&gt; 00:05:21,680<br \/>\nlooking at all the different<br \/>\nways that it affects how we live<\/p>\n<p>107<br \/>\n00:05:22,120 &#8211;&gt; 00:05:26,800<br \/>\nand how we we view our God.<br \/>\nSo he says it in in chapter 4 at<\/p>\n<p>108<br \/>\n00:05:26,800 &#8211;&gt; 00:05:28,560<br \/>\nverse 7.<br \/>\nBeloved, let us love one <\/p>\n<p>109<br \/>\n00:05:28,560 &#8211;&gt; 00:05:33,440<br \/>\nanother, for love is of God and<br \/>\neveryone who loves is born of <\/p>\n<p>110<br \/>\n00:05:33,440 &#8211;&gt; 00:05:36,320<br \/>\nGod.<br \/>\nSee, this is what God&#8217;s children<\/p>\n<p>111<br \/>\n00:05:36,360 &#8211;&gt; 00:05:39,240<br \/>\ndo.<br \/>\nWhen we are born from above, we <\/p>\n<p>112<br \/>\n00:05:39,240 &#8211;&gt; 00:05:43,880<br \/>\nunderstand God&#8217;s love and we<br \/>\nknow how to show it to others. <\/p>\n<p>113<br \/>\n00:05:43,960 &#8211;&gt; 00:05:48,040<br \/>\nWe reveal it to others.<br \/>\nIt&#8217;s God manifestation at its <\/p>\n<p>114<br \/>\n00:05:48,040 &#8211;&gt; 00:05:50,440<br \/>\nbest.<br \/>\nAnd who knows God? <\/p>\n<p>115<br \/>\n00:05:50,840 &#8211;&gt; 00:05:53,520<br \/>\nHe who does not love does not<br \/>\nknow God. <\/p>\n<p>116<br \/>\n00:05:53,600 &#8211;&gt; 00:05:57,120<br \/>\nWe we better get this right<br \/>\nbecause if we don&#8217;t treat other <\/p>\n<p>117<br \/>\n00:05:57,120 &#8211;&gt; 00:06:01,480<br \/>\npeople the way God loves us, we<br \/>\nreally in a sense, he says you <\/p>\n<p>118<br \/>\n00:06:01,480 &#8211;&gt; 00:06:06,400<br \/>\nreally don&#8217;t know God.<br \/>\nYou might think you do, but when<\/p>\n<p>119<br \/>\n00:06:06,400 &#8211;&gt; 00:06:09,440<br \/>\nyou treat other people in a<br \/>\ndifferent way than God treats <\/p>\n<p>120<br \/>\n00:06:09,440 &#8211;&gt; 00:06:14,880<br \/>\nthem, we don&#8217;t really know God.<br \/>\nAnd that&#8217;s why we we do become <\/p>\n<p>121<br \/>\n00:06:14,880 &#8211;&gt; 00:06:18,600<br \/>\nlike the God who we worship.<br \/>\nSo and this was the love of God <\/p>\n<p>122<br \/>\n00:06:18,600 &#8211;&gt; 00:06:22,000<br \/>\nmanifested toward us and that he<br \/>\nsent his only begotten Son into <\/p>\n<p>123<br \/>\n00:06:22,000 &#8211;&gt; 00:06:24,720<br \/>\nthe world that we might live<br \/>\nthrough him. <\/p>\n<p>124<br \/>\n00:06:25,200 &#8211;&gt; 00:06:28,440<br \/>\nAnd this is love, not that we<br \/>\nlove God. <\/p>\n<p>125<br \/>\n00:06:28,440 &#8211;&gt; 00:06:31,080<br \/>\nLet&#8217;s get it right.<br \/>\nIt&#8217;s not about us coming up <\/p>\n<p>126<br \/>\n00:06:31,080 &#8211;&gt; 00:06:33,840<br \/>\ntowards God.<br \/>\nNo, it&#8217;s all about top down. <\/p>\n<p>127<br \/>\n00:06:33,960 &#8211;&gt; 00:06:39,200<br \/>\nIt&#8217;s that he he loved us.<br \/>\nThat&#8217;s why when when Paul&#8217;s <\/p>\n<p>128<br \/>\n00:06:39,200 &#8211;&gt; 00:06:42,280<br \/>\ngoing through his argument in<br \/>\nRomans, do you ever notice how <\/p>\n<p>129<br \/>\n00:06:42,280 &#8211;&gt; 00:06:44,600<br \/>\nhe develops that his Old<br \/>\nTestament background? <\/p>\n<p>130<br \/>\n00:06:44,600 &#8211;&gt; 00:06:47,400<br \/>\nHe&#8217;s the failure of the<br \/>\nGentiles, the failure of the <\/p>\n<p>131<br \/>\n00:06:47,400 &#8211;&gt; 00:06:49,360<br \/>\nJews.<br \/>\nIn chapter three he finally gets<\/p>\n<p>132<br \/>\n00:06:49,360 &#8211;&gt; 00:06:52,240<br \/>\nin.<br \/>\nHe&#8217;s God stepped in and he sent <\/p>\n<p>133<br \/>\n00:06:52,240 &#8211;&gt; 00:06:55,640<br \/>\nhis son to save us.<br \/>\nAnd finally, when you get to <\/p>\n<p>134<br \/>\n00:06:55,640 &#8211;&gt; 00:06:58,280<br \/>\nchapter five, he finally tells<br \/>\nus why. <\/p>\n<p>135<br \/>\n00:06:59,080 &#8211;&gt; 00:07:02,520<br \/>\nBecause God loved us.<br \/>\nEven though we were sinners, <\/p>\n<p>136<br \/>\n00:07:02,920 &#8211;&gt; 00:07:06,600<br \/>\neven though he says we were<br \/>\nungodly and we didn&#8217;t deserve <\/p>\n<p>137<br \/>\n00:07:06,600 &#8211;&gt; 00:07:11,120<br \/>\nit, God still loved us and He<br \/>\nsent His Son to save us. <\/p>\n<p>138<br \/>\n00:07:11,640 &#8211;&gt; 00:07:16,320<br \/>\nSo it&#8217;s all about God having<br \/>\nloved us and sent his Son to be <\/p>\n<p>139<br \/>\n00:07:16,320 &#8211;&gt; 00:07:18,520<br \/>\nthe propitiation.<br \/>\nWell, that&#8217;s one of those big <\/p>\n<p>140<br \/>\n00:07:18,520 &#8211;&gt; 00:07:20,960<br \/>\nwords you can use.<br \/>\nJust like the righteousness of <\/p>\n<p>141<br \/>\n00:07:20,960 &#8211;&gt; 00:07:22,560<br \/>\nGod.<br \/>\nWe can throw the phrase out all <\/p>\n<p>142<br \/>\n00:07:22,560 &#8211;&gt; 00:07:24,360<br \/>\nthe time.<br \/>\nBut do you really know what it <\/p>\n<p>143<br \/>\n00:07:24,360 &#8211;&gt; 00:07:26,520<br \/>\nmeans when he is the<br \/>\npropitiation? <\/p>\n<p>144<br \/>\n00:07:26,920 &#8211;&gt; 00:07:29,720<br \/>\nIt&#8217;s a word that&#8217;s used in the<br \/>\nOld Testament, in the Greek Old <\/p>\n<p>145<br \/>\n00:07:29,720 &#8211;&gt; 00:07:32,960<br \/>\nTestament substituism for the<br \/>\nmercy seat. <\/p>\n<p>146<br \/>\n00:07:33,120 &#8211;&gt; 00:07:37,640<br \/>\nIt&#8217;s the place of mercy.<br \/>\nHe He sent his Son to be the <\/p>\n<p>147<br \/>\n00:07:37,640 &#8211;&gt; 00:07:44,120<br \/>\nplace of mercy for our sins.<br \/>\nThat&#8217;s what our God did because <\/p>\n<p>148<br \/>\n00:07:44,120 &#8211;&gt; 00:07:48,640<br \/>\nhe loved us and beloved.<br \/>\nIf God so loved us, we ought to <\/p>\n<p>149<br \/>\n00:07:48,640 &#8211;&gt; 00:07:55,240<br \/>\nlove epics we look at and going<br \/>\nthrough the God. <\/p>\n<p>150<br \/>\n00:07:55,240 &#8211;&gt; 00:07:57,880<br \/>\nWhat does it really mean?<br \/>\nHow does he balance justice and <\/p>\n<p>151<br \/>\n00:07:57,880 &#8211;&gt; 00:07:59,480<br \/>\nmercy?<br \/>\nAnd how does it all play out? <\/p>\n<p>152<br \/>\n00:07:59,720 &#8211;&gt; 00:08:02,680<br \/>\nBecause he&#8217;s hoping we&#8217;ll do<br \/>\nthat with our spouses, with our <\/p>\n<p>153<br \/>\n00:08:02,680 &#8211;&gt; 00:08:06,200<br \/>\nchildren, with our grandparents,<br \/>\nwith our collegial members. <\/p>\n<p>154<br \/>\n00:08:06,480 &#8211;&gt; 00:08:09,360<br \/>\nIt&#8217;s all about the love of God.<br \/>\nIt&#8217;s a motivator. <\/p>\n<p>155<br \/>\n00:08:09,440 &#8211;&gt; 00:08:13,000<br \/>\nIt should be driving us to treat<br \/>\npeople the right way. <\/p>\n<p>156<br \/>\n00:08:13,480 &#8211;&gt; 00:08:17,920<br \/>\nSo it&#8217;s all about God having<br \/>\nfirst loved us and now we have <\/p>\n<p>157<br \/>\n00:08:17,920 &#8211;&gt; 00:08:22,160<br \/>\nto practice showing that love.<br \/>\nAnd if we do, John would say, <\/p>\n<p>158<br \/>\n00:08:22,160 &#8211;&gt; 00:08:26,200<br \/>\nwell, we&#8217;ll know that God abides<br \/>\nin US and his love is perfected <\/p>\n<p>159<br \/>\n00:08:26,240 &#8211;&gt; 00:08:27,600<br \/>\nin US.<br \/>\nPerfected. <\/p>\n<p>160<br \/>\n00:08:28,080 &#8211;&gt; 00:08:31,160<br \/>\nSo in first John three look what<br \/>\nhe says will happen and that we <\/p>\n<p>161<br \/>\n00:08:31,240 &#8211;&gt; 00:08:34,720<br \/>\nby this we know love because he<br \/>\nlaid down his life for us. <\/p>\n<p>162<br \/>\n00:08:34,720 &#8211;&gt; 00:08:38,840<br \/>\nSo now he&#8217;s talking about Jesus.<br \/>\nWe ought also to lay down our <\/p>\n<p>163<br \/>\n00:08:38,840 &#8211;&gt; 00:08:42,159<br \/>\nlives for the brethren.<br \/>\nThis is what Jesus was showing <\/p>\n<p>164<br \/>\n00:08:42,159 &#8211;&gt; 00:08:44,360<br \/>\nus in his way of life, right<br \/>\nRight to the end. <\/p>\n<p>165<br \/>\n00:08:44,360 &#8211;&gt; 00:08:46,920<br \/>\nLook at how he functioned all<br \/>\nthe way through the day before <\/p>\n<p>166<br \/>\n00:08:46,920 &#8211;&gt; 00:08:49,280<br \/>\nthe crucifixion.<br \/>\nThe day of the crucifixion. <\/p>\n<p>167<br \/>\n00:08:49,280 &#8211;&gt; 00:08:52,600<br \/>\nHe&#8217;s always He gets down on his<br \/>\nfeet, he&#8217;s washes their on his <\/p>\n<p>168<br \/>\n00:08:52,600 &#8211;&gt; 00:08:55,840<br \/>\nknees, he washes their feet.<br \/>\nYou know, he&#8217;s, he&#8217;s weeping for<\/p>\n<p>169<br \/>\n00:08:55,840 &#8211;&gt; 00:08:57,800<br \/>\nthe the.<br \/>\nHe says don&#8217;t weep for me, weep <\/p>\n<p>170<br \/>\n00:08:57,800 &#8211;&gt; 00:08:59,040<br \/>\nfor yourselves.<br \/>\nHe&#8217;s thinking about the <\/p>\n<p>171<br \/>\n00:08:59,040 &#8211;&gt; 00:09:01,600<br \/>\ndaughters of Jerusalem.<br \/>\nHe&#8217;s talking to John, about his <\/p>\n<p>172<br \/>\n00:09:01,600 &#8211;&gt; 00:09:03,960<br \/>\nmother on the cross.<br \/>\nAnd take care of the thief on <\/p>\n<p>173<br \/>\n00:09:03,960 &#8211;&gt; 00:09:06,480<br \/>\nthe cross.<br \/>\nHe&#8217;s always trying to help other<\/p>\n<p>174<br \/>\n00:09:06,480 &#8211;&gt; 00:09:10,200<br \/>\npeople because he loved them and<br \/>\nwe ought to lay down our lives <\/p>\n<p>175<br \/>\n00:09:10,200 &#8211;&gt; 00:09:12,160<br \/>\nfor the brethren.<br \/>\nBut whoever has this world&#8217;s <\/p>\n<p>176<br \/>\n00:09:12,160 &#8211;&gt; 00:09:15,800<br \/>\ngoods and sees his brother in<br \/>\nneed and shuts up his heart from<\/p>\n<p>177<br \/>\n00:09:15,800 &#8211;&gt; 00:09:18,440<br \/>\nhim, how does the love of God<br \/>\nabide in him? <\/p>\n<p>178<br \/>\n00:09:19,080 &#8211;&gt; 00:09:22,000<br \/>\nSee, it&#8217;s very similar to what<br \/>\nJames lays out in James chapter <\/p>\n<p>179<br \/>\n00:09:22,000 &#8211;&gt; 00:09:23,880<br \/>\n2.<br \/>\nThis idea that you can claim to <\/p>\n<p>180<br \/>\n00:09:23,880 &#8211;&gt; 00:09:27,520<br \/>\nhave faith, you can claim to<br \/>\nknow the love of God. <\/p>\n<p>181<br \/>\n00:09:28,280 &#8211;&gt; 00:09:31,120<br \/>\nBut when you see your brothers<br \/>\nand sisters or young people in <\/p>\n<p>182<br \/>\n00:09:31,120 &#8211;&gt; 00:09:35,040<br \/>\nneed, when we see that they have<br \/>\nneeds and we don&#8217;t help out, but<\/p>\n<p>183<br \/>\n00:09:35,040 &#8211;&gt; 00:09:37,040<br \/>\nas James says, we give them a<br \/>\npat on the back and say, oh, <\/p>\n<p>184<br \/>\n00:09:37,040 &#8211;&gt; 00:09:39,440<br \/>\nhave a good day, good day, mate,<br \/>\nand send them off. <\/p>\n<p>185<br \/>\n00:09:40,040 &#8211;&gt; 00:09:43,440<br \/>\nYou know, how does the love of<br \/>\nGod live in us? <\/p>\n<p>186<br \/>\n00:09:44,600 &#8211;&gt; 00:09:48,320<br \/>\nThat&#8217;s not understanding God&#8217;s<br \/>\nlove or understanding faith. <\/p>\n<p>187<br \/>\n00:09:48,720 &#8211;&gt; 00:09:52,280<br \/>\nJames would say, well, if you<br \/>\nreally had faith, you would help<\/p>\n<p>188<br \/>\n00:09:52,280 &#8211;&gt; 00:09:57,240<br \/>\nsomebody else.<br \/>\nYou, you help them because we <\/p>\n<p>189<br \/>\n00:09:57,240 &#8211;&gt; 00:10:00,440<br \/>\nlove them and that&#8217;s what the<br \/>\nlove of God does for us. <\/p>\n<p>190<br \/>\n00:10:00,440 &#8211;&gt; 00:10:03,680<br \/>\nWe&#8217;ve got to learn to appreciate<br \/>\nthat and express God&#8217;s love to <\/p>\n<p>191<br \/>\n00:10:03,680 &#8211;&gt; 00:10:06,840<br \/>\nothers because God is love and<br \/>\neverything He&#8217;s done in our <\/p>\n<p>192<br \/>\n00:10:06,840 &#8211;&gt; 00:10:08,920<br \/>\ncreation.<br \/>\nPaul would say in Romans chapter<\/p>\n<p>193<br \/>\n00:10:08,920 &#8211;&gt; 00:10:10,800<br \/>\n5, it really was motivated by<br \/>\nlove. <\/p>\n<p>194<br \/>\n00:10:11,040 &#8211;&gt; 00:10:15,600<br \/>\nLove was the driving force,<br \/>\nforce for working in our world <\/p>\n<p>195<br \/>\n00:10:15,600 &#8211;&gt; 00:10:18,320<br \/>\nfor having created that whole<br \/>\ncreation in the 1st place. <\/p>\n<p>196<br \/>\n00:10:18,640 &#8211;&gt; 00:10:22,360<br \/>\nHe loves to have children, He<br \/>\nloves that of bringing more <\/p>\n<p>197<br \/>\n00:10:22,360 &#8211;&gt; 00:10:25,400<br \/>\npeople into his family.<br \/>\nThat&#8217;s what God likes. <\/p>\n<p>198<br \/>\n00:10:25,640 &#8211;&gt; 00:10:29,600<br \/>\nAnd even when we are ungodly<br \/>\nsinners and enemies, enemies, he<\/p>\n<p>199<br \/>\n00:10:29,600 &#8211;&gt; 00:10:33,160<br \/>\nstill was willing to send his<br \/>\nSon so understanding the love of<\/p>\n<p>200<br \/>\n00:10:33,160 &#8211;&gt; 00:10:37,080<br \/>\nGod and the love of Jesus and<br \/>\nhis struggle with sin, These are<\/p>\n<p>201<br \/>\n00:10:37,080 &#8211;&gt; 00:10:39,960<br \/>\nconcepts that should motivate<br \/>\nus, brothers and sisters and <\/p>\n<p>202<br \/>\n00:10:39,960 &#8211;&gt; 00:10:43,480<br \/>\nyoung people, to get involved<br \/>\nwith other people&#8217;s lives and <\/p>\n<p>203<br \/>\n00:10:43,480 &#8211;&gt; 00:10:45,800<br \/>\nhelp them when they&#8217;re going<br \/>\nthrough troubles. <\/p>\n<p>204<br \/>\n00:10:46,200 &#8211;&gt; 00:10:50,320<br \/>\nAnd it it shows you how these<br \/>\nkinds of teachings really do <\/p>\n<p>205<br \/>\n00:10:50,680 &#8211;&gt; 00:10:55,120<br \/>\naffect your way of life.<br \/>\nIt&#8217;s not just a bunch of and and<\/p>\n<p>206<br \/>\n00:10:55,120 &#8211;&gt; 00:10:56,720<br \/>\nrattle off at a baptismal<br \/>\ninterview. <\/p>\n<p>207<br \/>\n00:10:56,920 &#8211;&gt; 00:10:58,960<br \/>\nThese are things that are<br \/>\nsupposed to change the way we <\/p>\n<p>208<br \/>\n00:10:58,960 &#8211;&gt; 00:11:01,720<br \/>\nlive.<br \/>\nSo Paul would say the same kind <\/p>\n<p>209<br \/>\n00:11:01,720 &#8211;&gt; 00:11:06,040<br \/>\nof idea in 2nd Corinthians 3 at<br \/>\nverse 17, that now the Lord is <\/p>\n<p>210<br \/>\n00:11:06,040 &#8211;&gt; 00:11:07,840<br \/>\nspirit.<br \/>\nAnd where the Spirit of the Lord<\/p>\n<p>211<br \/>\n00:11:07,840 &#8211;&gt; 00:11:12,080<br \/>\nis, there is freedom.<br \/>\nFreedom because we&#8217;re free to do<\/p>\n<p>212<br \/>\n00:11:12,080 &#8211;&gt; 00:11:14,280<br \/>\nwhat the law had just said.<br \/>\nWell, you only have to do this <\/p>\n<p>213<br \/>\n00:11:14,280 &#8211;&gt; 00:11:17,720<br \/>\nand do this and do now.<br \/>\nWe&#8217;re free to to live like God <\/p>\n<p>214<br \/>\n00:11:17,720 &#8211;&gt; 00:11:20,000<br \/>\nand and to treat people the way<br \/>\nGod would. <\/p>\n<p>215<br \/>\n00:11:20,360 &#8211;&gt; 00:11:23,680<br \/>\nAnd we&#8217;re all with unveiled face<br \/>\nbeholding the glory of the Lord.<\/p>\n<p>216<br \/>\n00:11:23,920 &#8211;&gt; 00:11:28,840<br \/>\nWe&#8217;re being transformed into the<br \/>\nsame image from 1\u00b0 of glory to <\/p>\n<p>217<br \/>\n00:11:28,840 &#8211;&gt; 00:11:31,040<br \/>\nanother.<br \/>\nAnd for all of this comes from <\/p>\n<p>218<br \/>\n00:11:31,040 &#8211;&gt; 00:11:34,480<br \/>\nthe Lord who is the Spirit.<br \/>\nAnd what God&#8217;s doing is sending <\/p>\n<p>219<br \/>\n00:11:34,480 &#8211;&gt; 00:11:36,280<br \/>\nout his angels to work in our<br \/>\nlives. <\/p>\n<p>220<br \/>\n00:11:36,280 &#8211;&gt; 00:11:40,080<br \/>\nAnd he&#8217;s patiently, through<br \/>\nyears and years of training and <\/p>\n<p>221<br \/>\n00:11:40,080 &#8211;&gt; 00:11:44,000<br \/>\ntraining, He&#8217;s turning us into<br \/>\ndifferent people, people that <\/p>\n<p>222<br \/>\n00:11:44,000 &#8211;&gt; 00:11:48,280<br \/>\nlearn to live like him.<br \/>\nSo the test, you might say, <\/p>\n<p>223<br \/>\n00:11:48,280 &#8211;&gt; 00:11:50,760<br \/>\nwell, I, you know, I know God.<br \/>\nI I know him. <\/p>\n<p>224<br \/>\n00:11:50,760 &#8211;&gt; 00:11:53,800<br \/>\nI I love him and I know love and<br \/>\nI know the love of God. <\/p>\n<p>225<br \/>\n00:11:53,800 &#8211;&gt; 00:11:57,920<br \/>\nSo the test is in first John in<br \/>\ntwo and verse 3. <\/p>\n<p>226<br \/>\n00:11:58,160 &#8211;&gt; 00:12:00,320<br \/>\nBy this we know that we know<br \/>\nhim. <\/p>\n<p>227<br \/>\n00:12:00,320 &#8211;&gt; 00:12:03,320<br \/>\nAnd it&#8217;s easy to say that we<br \/>\nknow God. <\/p>\n<p>228<br \/>\n00:12:03,720 &#8211;&gt; 00:12:05,320<br \/>\nWe we read about him all the<br \/>\ntime. <\/p>\n<p>229<br \/>\n00:12:05,320 &#8211;&gt; 00:12:08,520<br \/>\nBut here&#8217;s the test.<br \/>\nIf we keep his commandments, do <\/p>\n<p>230<br \/>\n00:12:08,520 &#8211;&gt; 00:12:10,880<br \/>\nwe obey him?<br \/>\nThat&#8217;s what he&#8217;s always wanted, <\/p>\n<p>231<br \/>\n00:12:10,880 &#8211;&gt; 00:12:13,440<br \/>\nwas obedience to his family<br \/>\nvalues. <\/p>\n<p>232<br \/>\n00:12:13,640 &#8211;&gt; 00:12:16,000<br \/>\nThat&#8217;s all he really wanted was<br \/>\nobedience. <\/p>\n<p>233<br \/>\n00:12:16,360 &#8211;&gt; 00:12:18,200<br \/>\nLook at how Jeremiah took the<br \/>\nrechabites in. <\/p>\n<p>234<br \/>\n00:12:18,200 &#8211;&gt; 00:12:20,320<br \/>\nAnd he said, all right,<br \/>\nrechabites, all of you guys, <\/p>\n<p>235<br \/>\n00:12:20,480 &#8211;&gt; 00:12:21,760<br \/>\nhere&#8217;s some wine.<br \/>\nDrink it. <\/p>\n<p>236<br \/>\n00:12:21,840 &#8211;&gt; 00:12:24,560<br \/>\nAnd they put it out in front of<br \/>\nthem and they refused to drink <\/p>\n<p>237<br \/>\n00:12:24,560 &#8211;&gt; 00:12:25,920<br \/>\nit.<br \/>\nAll right? <\/p>\n<p>238<br \/>\n00:12:25,920 &#8211;&gt; 00:12:29,160<br \/>\nAnd and God says, look at look<br \/>\nat these people. <\/p>\n<p>239<br \/>\n00:12:29,160 &#8211;&gt; 00:12:32,440<br \/>\nThey&#8217;re obeying their dead<br \/>\nancestor who wrote this rule, <\/p>\n<p>240<br \/>\n00:12:32,760 &#8211;&gt; 00:12:35,600<br \/>\nnot even around anymore.<br \/>\nAnd they&#8217;re still obeying him. <\/p>\n<p>241<br \/>\n00:12:35,600 &#8211;&gt; 00:12:38,560<br \/>\nWhy can&#8217;t my children alive<br \/>\ntoday obey me? <\/p>\n<p>242<br \/>\n00:12:39,040 &#8211;&gt; 00:12:41,000<br \/>\nIt it&#8217;s what he was after all<br \/>\nalong. <\/p>\n<p>243<br \/>\n00:12:41,000 &#8211;&gt; 00:12:44,720<br \/>\nObedience to him.<br \/>\nBut whoever keeps his word <\/p>\n<p>244<br \/>\n00:12:44,920 &#8211;&gt; 00:12:47,880<br \/>\ntruly, the love of God is<br \/>\nperfected in him. <\/p>\n<p>245<br \/>\n00:12:48,400 &#8211;&gt; 00:12:50,240<br \/>\nAnd by this we know that we are<br \/>\nin Him. <\/p>\n<p>246<br \/>\n00:12:50,400 &#8211;&gt; 00:12:55,000<br \/>\nHe who says he abides in him<br \/>\nought himself also to walk just <\/p>\n<p>247<br \/>\n00:12:55,040 &#8211;&gt; 00:12:58,440<br \/>\nas he walked.<br \/>\nAnd that&#8217;s I guess our question <\/p>\n<p>248<br \/>\n00:12:58,440 &#8211;&gt; 00:13:02,880<br \/>\nfor today is in what ways are we<br \/>\nperfecting the love of God in <\/p>\n<p>249<br \/>\n00:13:02,880 &#8211;&gt; 00:13:04,640<br \/>\nUS?<br \/>\nWhat&#8217;s actually happening in our<\/p>\n<p>250<br \/>\n00:13:04,640 &#8211;&gt; 00:13:07,400<br \/>\nlives?<br \/>\nSo again in first John four and <\/p>\n<p>251<br \/>\n00:13:07,400 &#8211;&gt; 00:13:09,680<br \/>\nverse 12, no one has seen God at<br \/>\nany time. <\/p>\n<p>252<br \/>\n00:13:10,480 &#8211;&gt; 00:13:13,880<br \/>\nIf we love one another, God<br \/>\nabides in US and his love has <\/p>\n<p>253<br \/>\n00:13:13,880 &#8211;&gt; 00:13:16,720<br \/>\nbeen perfected in US.<br \/>\nSee how John builds on this? <\/p>\n<p>254<br \/>\n00:13:16,720 &#8211;&gt; 00:13:19,560<br \/>\nAnd he talks about the love<br \/>\nbeing perfected in US and now he<\/p>\n<p>255<br \/>\n00:13:19,560 &#8211;&gt; 00:13:21,120<br \/>\nsays, OK, he&#8217;s going up the<br \/>\nlist. <\/p>\n<p>256<br \/>\n00:13:21,280 &#8211;&gt; 00:13:24,640<br \/>\nWell here&#8217;s how it really works.<br \/>\nIt&#8217;s not just knowing God and <\/p>\n<p>257<br \/>\n00:13:24,640 &#8211;&gt; 00:13:27,120<br \/>\nloving God, it&#8217;s about loving<br \/>\none another. <\/p>\n<p>258<br \/>\n00:13:27,320 &#8211;&gt; 00:13:31,360<br \/>\nIf we love one another, God<br \/>\nabides in US and his love has <\/p>\n<p>259<br \/>\n00:13:31,360 &#8211;&gt; 00:13:34,080<br \/>\nbeen perfected in US.<br \/>\nAnd by this we know that we <\/p>\n<p>260<br \/>\n00:13:34,080 &#8211;&gt; 00:13:36,480<br \/>\nabide in him and he and us<br \/>\nbecause He&#8217;s given us a this <\/p>\n<p>261<br \/>\n00:13:36,480 &#8211;&gt; 00:13:39,560<br \/>\nspirit.<br \/>\nHe&#8217;s helped us to understand <\/p>\n<p>262<br \/>\n00:13:39,560 &#8211;&gt; 00:13:43,320<br \/>\nthose spiritual things and he&#8217;s<br \/>\nworking in our minds to help us <\/p>\n<p>263<br \/>\n00:13:43,320 &#8211;&gt; 00:13:46,480<br \/>\nunderstand these spiritual<br \/>\nprinciples so that we can know <\/p>\n<p>264<br \/>\n00:13:46,480 &#8211;&gt; 00:13:50,800<br \/>\nGod and and we John says we have<br \/>\nseen and testified that the <\/p>\n<p>265<br \/>\n00:13:50,800 &#8211;&gt; 00:13:54,600<br \/>\nFather has sent his Son as the<br \/>\nSavior of the world. <\/p>\n<p>266<br \/>\n00:13:54,800 &#8211;&gt; 00:13:57,160<br \/>\nSee, that was the motive of the<br \/>\nFather. <\/p>\n<p>267<br \/>\n00:13:57,160 &#8211;&gt; 00:14:00,920<br \/>\nLove is motivation.<br \/>\nIt forces us to do things for <\/p>\n<p>268<br \/>\n00:14:00,920 &#8211;&gt; 00:14:05,640<br \/>\npeople, not because we have to,<br \/>\nbut because we want to. <\/p>\n<p>269<br \/>\n00:14:06,280 &#8211;&gt; 00:14:08,320<br \/>\nThat&#8217;s what God&#8217;s looking for,<br \/>\nhis family. <\/p>\n<p>270<br \/>\n00:14:08,480 &#8211;&gt; 00:14:11,200<br \/>\nHe&#8217;s not looking for people who<br \/>\ncame here today because they had<\/p>\n<p>271<br \/>\n00:14:11,200 &#8211;&gt; 00:14:15,120<br \/>\nto come or because they work in<br \/>\ntheir ecclesia because they have<\/p>\n<p>272<br \/>\n00:14:15,120 &#8211;&gt; 00:14:18,240<br \/>\nto.<br \/>\nHe&#8217;s looking for people who love<\/p>\n<p>273<br \/>\n00:14:18,320 &#8211;&gt; 00:14:21,760<br \/>\none another and who want to help<br \/>\none another. <\/p>\n<p>274<br \/>\n00:14:22,240 &#8211;&gt; 00:14:25,520<br \/>\nThen he can afford to give us<br \/>\nimmortality, not because we&#8217;ve <\/p>\n<p>275<br \/>\n00:14:25,520 &#8211;&gt; 00:14:29,320<br \/>\nbeen forced, but because we<br \/>\nreally love his eternal way of <\/p>\n<p>276<br \/>\n00:14:29,320 &#8211;&gt; 00:14:31,280<br \/>\nlife.<br \/>\nWe love his eternal life and <\/p>\n<p>277<br \/>\n00:14:31,280 &#8211;&gt; 00:14:34,320<br \/>\nthat&#8217;s what we really want and<br \/>\nthat that&#8217;s what he&#8217;s after. <\/p>\n<p>278<br \/>\n00:14:34,800 &#8211;&gt; 00:14:37,640<br \/>\nWhereas he says in verse 16 and<br \/>\nwe have known and believed the <\/p>\n<p>279<br \/>\n00:14:37,640 &#8211;&gt; 00:14:41,800<br \/>\nlove that God has for us.<br \/>\nGod is love, and he who abides <\/p>\n<p>280<br \/>\n00:14:41,800 &#8211;&gt; 00:14:46,160<br \/>\nin love abides in God and God in<br \/>\nHim because it affects how we <\/p>\n<p>281<br \/>\n00:14:46,160 &#8211;&gt; 00:14:49,440<br \/>\nlive, how we view God, how we<br \/>\ntreat one another. <\/p>\n<p>282<br \/>\n00:14:50,360 &#8211;&gt; 00:14:54,560<br \/>\nSo if we misunderstand the<br \/>\nnature of Jesus and what he <\/p>\n<p>283<br \/>\n00:14:54,560 &#8211;&gt; 00:14:59,240<br \/>\nendured to save us, we won&#8217;t<br \/>\nreally ever understand the love <\/p>\n<p>284<br \/>\n00:14:59,240 &#8211;&gt; 00:15:03,400<br \/>\nof God and that we lose our<br \/>\nmotivation to loving one another<\/p>\n<p>285<br \/>\n00:15:03,960 &#8211;&gt; 00:15:06,520<br \/>\nis it?<br \/>\nJesus came and and the nature <\/p>\n<p>286<br \/>\n00:15:06,520 &#8211;&gt; 00:15:09,800<br \/>\nthat he had we we know as<br \/>\nChrysadelphians he had the same <\/p>\n<p>287<br \/>\n00:15:10,560 &#8211;&gt; 00:15:14,600<br \/>\nsinful nature that we do that<br \/>\nhe&#8217;s got the diabolis in him and<\/p>\n<p>288<br \/>\n00:15:14,600 &#8211;&gt; 00:15:17,560<br \/>\nhe wants to serve himself but he<br \/>\nchooses to serve. <\/p>\n<p>289<br \/>\n00:15:17,760 &#8211;&gt; 00:15:20,480<br \/>\nAnd how did he keep getting<br \/>\nthrough life like that? <\/p>\n<p>290<br \/>\n00:15:20,480 &#8211;&gt; 00:15:23,120<br \/>\nHow did he keep making the right<br \/>\ndecisions all the time? <\/p>\n<p>291<br \/>\n00:15:23,360 &#8211;&gt; 00:15:27,360<br \/>\nHow did he come through for his<br \/>\npeople and and and the IT was <\/p>\n<p>292<br \/>\n00:15:27,360 &#8211;&gt; 00:15:30,360<br \/>\nbecause he he loved them.<br \/>\nHe wanted to give his life for <\/p>\n<p>293<br \/>\n00:15:30,360 &#8211;&gt; 00:15:33,680<br \/>\nthem and try to save them.<br \/>\nThat was the motivation that <\/p>\n<p>294<br \/>\n00:15:33,680 &#8211;&gt; 00:15:38,120<br \/>\ndrove our Lord Jesus Christ.<br \/>\nSo no one has seen God, right? <\/p>\n<p>295<br \/>\n00:15:38,320 &#8211;&gt; 00:15:41,800<br \/>\nWe haven&#8217;t seen him, but we can<br \/>\nmanifest his character to others<\/p>\n<p>296<br \/>\n00:15:42,040 &#8211;&gt; 00:15:45,360<br \/>\nand let them see God&#8217;s loving us<br \/>\nby the way we live. <\/p>\n<p>297<br \/>\n00:15:45,600 &#8211;&gt; 00:15:48,360<br \/>\nHow we live in our families, how<br \/>\nwe treat our spouses. <\/p>\n<p>298<br \/>\n00:15:48,560 &#8211;&gt; 00:15:51,400<br \/>\nHow we take care of one another<br \/>\nin in in marriage. <\/p>\n<p>299<br \/>\n00:15:51,600 &#8211;&gt; 00:15:54,680<br \/>\nWe can do it by, you know as we<br \/>\nget older and hopefully as we <\/p>\n<p>300<br \/>\n00:15:54,680 &#8211;&gt; 00:15:56,280<br \/>\nget older.<br \/>\nWe don&#8217;t draw apart. <\/p>\n<p>301<br \/>\n00:15:56,480 &#8211;&gt; 00:16:00,280<br \/>\nWe grow together because the<br \/>\nlove of God is being manifested <\/p>\n<p>302<br \/>\n00:16:00,280 &#8211;&gt; 00:16:02,960<br \/>\nin US.<br \/>\nAnd what God was hoping by <\/p>\n<p>303<br \/>\n00:16:02,960 &#8211;&gt; 00:16:06,520<br \/>\nputting us in families where you<br \/>\ncould, you could understand his <\/p>\n<p>304<br \/>\n00:16:06,520 &#8211;&gt; 00:16:10,040<br \/>\nlove for for us by having you<br \/>\nhave children or having you work<\/p>\n<p>305<br \/>\n00:16:10,040 &#8211;&gt; 00:16:11,760<br \/>\nwith the children in an<br \/>\necclesial life. <\/p>\n<p>306<br \/>\n00:16:12,040 &#8211;&gt; 00:16:16,000<br \/>\nHe was hoping that we would<br \/>\nrealize that&#8217;s that&#8217;s the love <\/p>\n<p>307<br \/>\n00:16:16,000 &#8211;&gt; 00:16:18,320<br \/>\nthat we have to expand out to<br \/>\nthe community. <\/p>\n<p>308<br \/>\n00:16:18,520 &#8211;&gt; 00:16:20,640<br \/>\nWe have to treat other people<br \/>\nwith that love. <\/p>\n<p>309<br \/>\n00:16:20,640 &#8211;&gt; 00:16:24,680<br \/>\nIt expands to the whole Ecclesia<br \/>\nand to the community at at large<\/p>\n<p>310<br \/>\n00:16:25,040 &#8211;&gt; 00:16:27,080<br \/>\nand to our neighbors that this<br \/>\nis what we do. <\/p>\n<p>311<br \/>\n00:16:27,080 &#8211;&gt; 00:16:31,520<br \/>\nWe talk to our friends and we<br \/>\ntry to help them understand how <\/p>\n<p>312<br \/>\n00:16:31,520 &#8211;&gt; 00:16:37,040<br \/>\nGod has changed our life, the<br \/>\nlove efforts and it can motivate<\/p>\n<p>313<br \/>\n00:16:37,040 &#8211;&gt; 00:16:39,280<br \/>\nthem.<br \/>\nIt can turn them into better <\/p>\n<p>314<br \/>\n00:16:39,280 &#8211;&gt; 00:16:43,760<br \/>\npeople that follow God&#8217;s ways.<br \/>\nOr as first John, what John says<\/p>\n<p>315<br \/>\n00:16:43,760 &#8211;&gt; 00:16:46,360<br \/>\nthere and 1st John, what ends up<br \/>\nhappening with all of this is <\/p>\n<p>316<br \/>\n00:16:46,360 &#8211;&gt; 00:16:50,680<br \/>\nthat when we develop a a love<br \/>\nbased relationship with our God <\/p>\n<p>317<br \/>\n00:16:50,880 &#8211;&gt; 00:16:54,200<br \/>\ninstead of fear, instead of<br \/>\nbeing afraid that when things go<\/p>\n<p>318<br \/>\n00:16:54,200 &#8211;&gt; 00:16:56,920<br \/>\nwrong that God&#8217;s out to get us<br \/>\nor that he&#8217;s sitting there <\/p>\n<p>319<br \/>\n00:16:56,920 &#8211;&gt; 00:16:58,560<br \/>\nwatching all the things that we<br \/>\ndo. <\/p>\n<p>320<br \/>\n00:16:58,560 &#8211;&gt; 00:17:00,080<br \/>\nLike Job&#8217;s three friends<br \/>\nthought. <\/p>\n<p>321<br \/>\n00:17:00,080 &#8211;&gt; 00:17:02,040<br \/>\nThey thought he&#8217;s just watching<br \/>\nyou all day long. <\/p>\n<p>322<br \/>\n00:17:02,240 &#8211;&gt; 00:17:04,079<br \/>\nWhat did you say out there<br \/>\nduring break? <\/p>\n<p>323<br \/>\n00:17:04,280 &#8211;&gt; 00:17:07,040<br \/>\nWhat did you do after all<br \/>\nafternoon yesterday and and he&#8217;s<\/p>\n<p>324<br \/>\n00:17:07,040 &#8211;&gt; 00:17:09,640<br \/>\njust watching to see us stumble<br \/>\nand make mistake and then he <\/p>\n<p>325<br \/>\n00:17:09,640 &#8211;&gt; 00:17:12,520<br \/>\nbrings something into your life<br \/>\nto get you to make you pay for <\/p>\n<p>326<br \/>\n00:17:12,520 &#8211;&gt; 00:17:14,880<br \/>\nit.<br \/>\nThis whole idea of God punishing<\/p>\n<p>327<br \/>\n00:17:14,880 &#8211;&gt; 00:17:17,440<br \/>\nus brothers and sisters like<br \/>\nthat, that&#8217;s what the three <\/p>\n<p>328<br \/>\n00:17:17,440 &#8211;&gt; 00:17:18,880<br \/>\nfriends had.<br \/>\nThat&#8217;s what they thought. <\/p>\n<p>329<br \/>\n00:17:19,160 &#8211;&gt; 00:17:23,480<br \/>\nAnd and this book of job was<br \/>\nwritten so early on to try to <\/p>\n<p>330<br \/>\n00:17:23,480 &#8211;&gt; 00:17:26,680<br \/>\nhelp us understand that isn&#8217;t<br \/>\nthe way it works. <\/p>\n<p>331<br \/>\n00:17:27,079 &#8211;&gt; 00:17:29,880<br \/>\nIt isn&#8217;t like that.<br \/>\nGod doesn&#8217;t work that way. <\/p>\n<p>332<br \/>\n00:17:29,880 &#8211;&gt; 00:17:33,040<br \/>\nHe wants you to love him and to<br \/>\nrespond in love. <\/p>\n<p>333<br \/>\n00:17:33,360 &#8211;&gt; 00:17:35,520<br \/>\nNot because you&#8217;re you&#8217;re<br \/>\nsitting there thinking that he&#8217;s<\/p>\n<p>334<br \/>\n00:17:35,520 &#8211;&gt; 00:17:38,240<br \/>\ngoing to give you a spanking or<br \/>\nsomething like little children <\/p>\n<p>335<br \/>\n00:17:38,240 &#8211;&gt; 00:17:40,240<br \/>\nwould, that that&#8217;s what he<br \/>\nreally wants. <\/p>\n<p>336<br \/>\n00:17:40,240 &#8211;&gt; 00:17:43,960<br \/>\nAnd so he says in in verse 17 of<br \/>\nchapter 4 by this love is <\/p>\n<p>337<br \/>\n00:17:43,960 &#8211;&gt; 00:17:48,040<br \/>\nperfected in us so that we may<br \/>\nhave confidence for the Day of <\/p>\n<p>338<br \/>\n00:17:48,040 &#8211;&gt; 00:17:50,240<br \/>\nJudgement.<br \/>\nHe ever wondered, like, how do <\/p>\n<p>339<br \/>\n00:17:50,240 &#8211;&gt; 00:17:52,080<br \/>\nyou get confidence for the Day<br \/>\nof Judgement? <\/p>\n<p>340<br \/>\n00:17:52,360 &#8211;&gt; 00:17:55,600<br \/>\nA lot of Christadelphians still<br \/>\nlive in fear of the Judgement <\/p>\n<p>341<br \/>\n00:17:55,600 &#8211;&gt; 00:17:58,240<br \/>\nDay.<br \/>\nThey&#8217;re afraid if Jesus walked <\/p>\n<p>342<br \/>\n00:17:58,240 &#8211;&gt; 00:18:00,600<br \/>\nin the door back there, I know<br \/>\nthere are people that would be <\/p>\n<p>343<br \/>\n00:18:00,600 &#8211;&gt; 00:18:03,760<br \/>\nafraid to face him.<br \/>\nThey&#8217;re afraid because they <\/p>\n<p>344<br \/>\n00:18:03,760 &#8211;&gt; 00:18:06,840<br \/>\nthink God&#8217;s out to get them.<br \/>\nThat isn&#8217;t the God who we <\/p>\n<p>345<br \/>\n00:18:06,840 &#8211;&gt; 00:18:09,440<br \/>\nworship.<br \/>\nHe isn&#8217;t like that. <\/p>\n<p>346<br \/>\n00:18:09,880 &#8211;&gt; 00:18:12,800<br \/>\nHe loves you.<br \/>\nHe&#8217;s training you like a father <\/p>\n<p>347<br \/>\n00:18:12,800 &#8211;&gt; 00:18:15,400<br \/>\nwith his child, you know?<br \/>\nImagine that kind of <\/p>\n<p>348<br \/>\n00:18:15,400 &#8211;&gt; 00:18:17,480<br \/>\nrelationship with a dad.<br \/>\nDid you have a dad that when he <\/p>\n<p>349<br \/>\n00:18:17,480 &#8211;&gt; 00:18:19,320<br \/>\nwalked in the door you were<br \/>\nafraid to see him? <\/p>\n<p>350<br \/>\n00:18:19,520 &#8211;&gt; 00:18:20,960<br \/>\nOr did you run up and give him a<br \/>\nhug. <\/p>\n<p>351<br \/>\n00:18:22,280 &#8211;&gt; 00:18:26,240<br \/>\nGod was hoping that if we if we<br \/>\nexperience this in our families <\/p>\n<p>352<br \/>\n00:18:26,600 &#8211;&gt; 00:18:30,880<br \/>\nthat then we would understand<br \/>\nhow he feels about us, that <\/p>\n<p>353<br \/>\n00:18:30,880 &#8211;&gt; 00:18:33,440<br \/>\nthat&#8217;s the God that we have.<br \/>\nIt&#8217;s it&#8217;s like the father of the<\/p>\n<p>354<br \/>\n00:18:33,440 &#8211;&gt; 00:18:35,960<br \/>\nprodigal son.<br \/>\nWhen the prodigal son comes back<\/p>\n<p>355<br \/>\n00:18:35,960 &#8211;&gt; 00:18:38,480<br \/>\nin, in the parable, he doesn&#8217;t<br \/>\nhe hasn&#8217;t grabbed the son. <\/p>\n<p>356<br \/>\n00:18:38,480 &#8211;&gt; 00:18:40,480<br \/>\nAnd they&#8217;ll say, well you did<br \/>\nthis wrong and this wrong and <\/p>\n<p>357<br \/>\n00:18:40,480 &#8211;&gt; 00:18:42,680<br \/>\nthis wrong and I&#8217;m not sure we<br \/>\ncan actually bring you into the <\/p>\n<p>358<br \/>\n00:18:42,680 &#8211;&gt; 00:18:44,960<br \/>\nEcclesia you let until all these<br \/>\nthings up. <\/p>\n<p>359<br \/>\n00:18:45,600 &#8211;&gt; 00:18:49,240<br \/>\nNo, he grabs them and hugs them.<br \/>\nSays I&#8217;m glad you finally <\/p>\n<p>360<br \/>\n00:18:49,240 &#8211;&gt; 00:18:52,480<br \/>\nlearned and you&#8217;re back.<br \/>\nThat&#8217;s what he does. <\/p>\n<p>361<br \/>\n00:18:53,120 &#8211;&gt; 00:18:55,320<br \/>\nThat&#8217;s our God.<br \/>\nHe just can&#8217;t wait for us to <\/p>\n<p>362<br \/>\n00:18:55,320 &#8211;&gt; 00:18:57,760<br \/>\ncome back.<br \/>\nSo look at how he he words this <\/p>\n<p>363<br \/>\n00:18:57,760 &#8211;&gt; 00:19:00,240<br \/>\nin first John 4.<br \/>\nYou know, because he&#8217;s been <\/p>\n<p>364<br \/>\n00:19:00,240 &#8211;&gt; 00:19:02,160<br \/>\nperfected in us as we are in<br \/>\nthis world. <\/p>\n<p>365<br \/>\n00:19:02,160 &#8211;&gt; 00:19:05,760<br \/>\nSo in verse 18 I I can still<br \/>\nremember looking at this when I <\/p>\n<p>366<br \/>\n00:19:05,760 &#8211;&gt; 00:19:08,440<br \/>\nwas probably a teenager and<br \/>\ngiving a Bible class in Detroit <\/p>\n<p>367<br \/>\n00:19:08,440 &#8211;&gt; 00:19:11,200<br \/>\nin first John Four.<br \/>\nAnd I said there&#8217;s No Fear in <\/p>\n<p>368<br \/>\n00:19:11,200 &#8211;&gt; 00:19:13,960<br \/>\nlove.<br \/>\nBut perfect love casts out fear.<\/p>\n<p>369<br \/>\n00:19:14,720 &#8211;&gt; 00:19:18,600<br \/>\nFear has to do with punishment<br \/>\nand whoever fears has not been <\/p>\n<p>370<br \/>\n00:19:19,160 &#8211;&gt; 00:19:21,880<br \/>\nin love.<br \/>\nAnd I remember in the class that<\/p>\n<p>371<br \/>\n00:19:21,880 &#8211;&gt; 00:19:24,840<br \/>\nthe a lot of the older brother,<br \/>\nyou know, that commented, they <\/p>\n<p>372<br \/>\n00:19:24,840 &#8211;&gt; 00:19:27,600<br \/>\nall just said, well, John&#8217;s just<br \/>\ntalking about a theoretical <\/p>\n<p>373<br \/>\n00:19:27,600 &#8211;&gt; 00:19:29,600<br \/>\nidea.<br \/>\nYou can&#8217;t really apply that in <\/p>\n<p>374<br \/>\n00:19:29,600 &#8211;&gt; 00:19:31,600<br \/>\nlife.<br \/>\nThat wouldn&#8217;t work because we <\/p>\n<p>375<br \/>\n00:19:31,600 &#8211;&gt; 00:19:34,000<br \/>\ndidn&#8217;t fear God.<br \/>\nIf we weren&#8217;t afraid of the <\/p>\n<p>376<br \/>\n00:19:34,000 &#8211;&gt; 00:19:36,800<br \/>\npunishments and the torment that<br \/>\nwe might get, then we would <\/p>\n<p>377<br \/>\n00:19:36,800 &#8211;&gt; 00:19:41,160<br \/>\nprobably get off track.<br \/>\nI remembered that for a long <\/p>\n<p>378<br \/>\n00:19:41,160 &#8211;&gt; 00:19:43,200<br \/>\ntime.<br \/>\nIt&#8217;s not right. <\/p>\n<p>379<br \/>\n00:19:43,680 &#8211;&gt; 00:19:46,120<br \/>\nThat was the culture that we had<br \/>\nin our ecclesia. <\/p>\n<p>380<br \/>\n00:19:46,520 &#8211;&gt; 00:19:48,520<br \/>\nThat was the culture of the<br \/>\ntimes back then. <\/p>\n<p>381<br \/>\n00:19:48,680 &#8211;&gt; 00:19:51,680<br \/>\nBut it&#8217;s not right.<br \/>\nBrothers and sisters, I&#8217;d <\/p>\n<p>382<br \/>\n00:19:51,680 &#8211;&gt; 00:19:54,720<br \/>\nencourage the young people we<br \/>\nhave to always be challenging <\/p>\n<p>383<br \/>\n00:19:54,720 &#8211;&gt; 00:19:57,920<br \/>\nour culture.<br \/>\nJust because everybody teaches <\/p>\n<p>384<br \/>\n00:19:57,920 &#8211;&gt; 00:20:01,520<br \/>\nit doesn&#8217;t mean it&#8217;s right.<br \/>\nOur our doctrinal principles are<\/p>\n<p>385<br \/>\n00:20:01,520 &#8211;&gt; 00:20:04,760<br \/>\nright, but how we apply them in<br \/>\nlife, how they work out. <\/p>\n<p>386<br \/>\n00:20:04,960 &#8211;&gt; 00:20:07,880<br \/>\nA lot of us have just grown up<br \/>\nin a Christadelphian culture and<\/p>\n<p>387<br \/>\n00:20:07,880 &#8211;&gt; 00:20:11,200<br \/>\naccepted it without really<br \/>\nchallenging it with the Bible. <\/p>\n<p>388<br \/>\n00:20:12,000 &#8211;&gt; 00:20:14,040<br \/>\nJohn&#8217;s not talking about theory<br \/>\nhere. <\/p>\n<p>389<br \/>\n00:20:14,080 &#8211;&gt; 00:20:17,920<br \/>\nThe entire letter isn&#8217;t about<br \/>\ntheory, it&#8217;s about practical way<\/p>\n<p>390<br \/>\n00:20:17,960 &#8211;&gt; 00:20:20,960<br \/>\nof life.<br \/>\nYou really can get to a point <\/p>\n<p>391<br \/>\n00:20:20,960 &#8211;&gt; 00:20:24,320<br \/>\nwith your relationship with God<br \/>\nwhere you love him like your <\/p>\n<p>392<br \/>\n00:20:24,320 &#8211;&gt; 00:20:28,000<br \/>\nfather, and there is No Fear in<br \/>\nthat love. <\/p>\n<p>393<br \/>\n00:20:28,800 &#8211;&gt; 00:20:33,240<br \/>\nThat perfect love casts out fear<br \/>\nbecause fear has to do with <\/p>\n<p>394<br \/>\n00:20:33,240 &#8211;&gt; 00:20:36,480<br \/>\npunishment.<br \/>\nAnd I really warn you as parents<\/p>\n<p>395<br \/>\n00:20:36,480 &#8211;&gt; 00:20:39,520<br \/>\nand grandparents, don&#8217;t talk to<br \/>\nyour children and say you&#8217;re <\/p>\n<p>396<br \/>\n00:20:39,520 &#8211;&gt; 00:20:41,200<br \/>\ngoing to punish them for what<br \/>\nthey&#8217;ve done. <\/p>\n<p>397<br \/>\n00:20:41,600 &#8211;&gt; 00:20:44,080<br \/>\nThey&#8217;ll end up thinking as they<br \/>\ngrow older that that&#8217;s what God <\/p>\n<p>398<br \/>\n00:20:44,080 &#8211;&gt; 00:20:45,960<br \/>\ndoes to them.<br \/>\nAnd it isn&#8217;t true. <\/p>\n<p>399<br \/>\n00:20:46,360 &#8211;&gt; 00:20:48,920<br \/>\nYou look through the New<br \/>\nTestament, you won&#8217;t find that. <\/p>\n<p>400<br \/>\n00:20:49,280 &#8211;&gt; 00:20:53,120<br \/>\nYou&#8217;ll find this, instead that<br \/>\nGod loves you and there is No <\/p>\n<p>401<br \/>\n00:20:53,120 &#8211;&gt; 00:20:55,720<br \/>\nFear in love and perfect love.<br \/>\nReally. <\/p>\n<p>402<br \/>\n00:20:55,720 &#8211;&gt; 00:20:59,120<br \/>\nWell, cast out fear.<br \/>\nAnd what God&#8217;s looking for is <\/p>\n<p>403<br \/>\n00:20:59,120 &#8211;&gt; 00:21:02,360<br \/>\nnot people who are motivated by<br \/>\nbeing afraid of the judgment <\/p>\n<p>404<br \/>\n00:21:02,360 &#8211;&gt; 00:21:04,560<br \/>\nseat.<br \/>\nHe&#8217;s looking for children who <\/p>\n<p>405<br \/>\n00:21:04,560 &#8211;&gt; 00:21:08,840<br \/>\nlove his eternal way of life.<br \/>\nAnd you do it no matter what <\/p>\n<p>406<br \/>\n00:21:08,840 &#8211;&gt; 00:21:12,200<br \/>\nhappens, like Job you can.<br \/>\nYou continue and believe he&#8217;s <\/p>\n<p>407<br \/>\n00:21:12,200 &#8211;&gt; 00:21:14,840<br \/>\nright and you trust him in<br \/>\neverything. <\/p>\n<p>408<br \/>\n00:21:14,840 &#8211;&gt; 00:21:17,480<br \/>\nThat&#8217;s faith.<br \/>\nThat&#8217;s what he&#8217;s looking for, <\/p>\n<p>409<br \/>\n00:21:17,920 &#8211;&gt; 00:21:21,560<br \/>\nnot fear based people.<br \/>\nHe he can&#8217;t really afford to <\/p>\n<p>410<br \/>\n00:21:21,560 &#8211;&gt; 00:21:24,520<br \/>\ngive eternal life to people who<br \/>\nlive in a fear based <\/p>\n<p>411<br \/>\n00:21:24,520 &#8211;&gt; 00:21:27,120<br \/>\nrelationship.<br \/>\nBecause once you get eternal <\/p>\n<p>412<br \/>\n00:21:27,120 &#8211;&gt; 00:21:30,400<br \/>\nlife, the fear is gone and<br \/>\nwhere&#8217;s the motivation anymore <\/p>\n<p>413<br \/>\n00:21:30,400 &#8211;&gt; 00:21:33,240<br \/>\nto serve your God?<br \/>\nYou&#8217;ve lost it because you were <\/p>\n<p>414<br \/>\n00:21:33,240 &#8211;&gt; 00:21:36,800<br \/>\nmotivated by fear.<br \/>\nAnd that&#8217;s not what you&#8217;ll see <\/p>\n<p>415<br \/>\n00:21:36,800 &#8211;&gt; 00:21:40,560<br \/>\nin our New Testament writings.<br \/>\nSo anyone who says that I love <\/p>\n<p>416<br \/>\n00:21:40,560 &#8211;&gt; 00:21:42,760<br \/>\nGod and hates his brother, he&#8217;s<br \/>\na liar. <\/p>\n<p>417<br \/>\n00:21:43,840 &#8211;&gt; 00:21:45,640<br \/>\nSee, that&#8217;s the kind of thing<br \/>\nJames would say. <\/p>\n<p>418<br \/>\n00:21:45,640 &#8211;&gt; 00:21:48,000<br \/>\nIt&#8217;s it&#8217;s so clear.<br \/>\nThey bring up these examples, <\/p>\n<p>419<br \/>\n00:21:48,000 &#8211;&gt; 00:21:50,760<br \/>\npractical examples, of how we<br \/>\ncan monitor. <\/p>\n<p>420<br \/>\n00:21:51,000 &#8211;&gt; 00:21:54,120<br \/>\nDo we really love God?<br \/>\nIt&#8217;s easy to sit there in our <\/p>\n<p>421<br \/>\n00:21:54,120 &#8211;&gt; 00:21:55,720<br \/>\nchairs today and say, well, I<br \/>\nlove God. <\/p>\n<p>422<br \/>\n00:21:55,960 &#8211;&gt; 00:21:57,440<br \/>\nI&#8217;ll look at all the things I do<br \/>\nfor God. <\/p>\n<p>423<br \/>\n00:21:57,880 &#8211;&gt; 00:22:00,120<br \/>\nI love God.<br \/>\nBut how do you treat your <\/p>\n<p>424<br \/>\n00:22:00,120 &#8211;&gt; 00:22:02,360<br \/>\nbrothers and sisters?<br \/>\nHow do you treat your children? <\/p>\n<p>425<br \/>\n00:22:02,640 &#8211;&gt; 00:22:04,680<br \/>\nHow do you treat other people&#8217;s<br \/>\nchildren? <\/p>\n<p>426<br \/>\n00:22:05,240 &#8211;&gt; 00:22:07,080<br \/>\nDo you treat them with the love<br \/>\nof God? <\/p>\n<p>427<br \/>\n00:22:08,040 &#8211;&gt; 00:22:10,480<br \/>\nThis is challenging to us<br \/>\nbrothers and sisters. <\/p>\n<p>428<br \/>\n00:22:10,480 &#8211;&gt; 00:22:13,640<br \/>\nIt&#8217;s it&#8217;s very challenging.<br \/>\nIf you hate your brother, you&#8217;re<\/p>\n<p>429<br \/>\n00:22:13,640 &#8211;&gt; 00:22:16,440<br \/>\na liar.<br \/>\nYou&#8217;re a liar to say that you <\/p>\n<p>430<br \/>\n00:22:16,440 &#8211;&gt; 00:22:20,160<br \/>\nreally love God because it&#8217;s not<br \/>\nplaying out in your life. <\/p>\n<p>431<br \/>\n00:22:20,720 &#8211;&gt; 00:22:23,760<br \/>\nIf you love God, you would love<br \/>\nyour brothers and sisters. <\/p>\n<p>432<br \/>\n00:22:24,040 &#8211;&gt; 00:22:27,960<br \/>\nFor he who does not love his<br \/>\nbrother, whom he has seen, can <\/p>\n<p>433<br \/>\n00:22:28,120 &#8211;&gt; 00:22:32,880<br \/>\nnot God, whom he has not seen.<br \/>\nAnd I know some of us are <\/p>\n<p>434<br \/>\n00:22:32,880 &#8211;&gt; 00:22:35,640<br \/>\nsitting there thinking, well,<br \/>\nyeah, why would God expecting <\/p>\n<p>435<br \/>\n00:22:35,640 &#8211;&gt; 00:22:37,680<br \/>\none of my brother and sister<br \/>\nwhen they&#8217;ve done this to me and<\/p>\n<p>436<br \/>\n00:22:37,680 &#8211;&gt; 00:22:40,040<br \/>\nthey&#8217;ve done that to me and<br \/>\nthey&#8217;ve done this and we make up<\/p>\n<p>437<br \/>\n00:22:40,040 &#8211;&gt; 00:22:43,480<br \/>\nall these excuses.<br \/>\nThat&#8217;s why Paul said in Romans 5<\/p>\n<p>438<br \/>\n00:22:43,480 &#8211;&gt; 00:22:47,120<br \/>\nwhen we were sinners, when we<br \/>\nwere ungodly. <\/p>\n<p>439<br \/>\n00:22:47,480 &#8211;&gt; 00:22:50,680<br \/>\nThat&#8217;s why Joseph said to his<br \/>\nbrothers, I know you meant it <\/p>\n<p>440<br \/>\n00:22:50,680 &#8211;&gt; 00:22:53,160<br \/>\nfor evil.<br \/>\nI know your motive wasn&#8217;t good, <\/p>\n<p>441<br \/>\n00:22:53,560 &#8211;&gt; 00:22:57,280<br \/>\nbut God meant it for good.<br \/>\nTo save many as they&#8217;re alive <\/p>\n<p>442<br \/>\n00:22:57,280 &#8211;&gt; 00:22:59,760<br \/>\ntoday, you know?<br \/>\nYou know, God&#8217;s in control of <\/p>\n<p>443<br \/>\n00:22:59,760 &#8211;&gt; 00:23:02,440<br \/>\nthis.<br \/>\nThat&#8217;s why Joseph loved his <\/p>\n<p>444<br \/>\n00:23:02,440 &#8211;&gt; 00:23:04,160<br \/>\nbrothers.<br \/>\nThat&#8217;s why he forgave them. <\/p>\n<p>445<br \/>\n00:23:04,320 &#8211;&gt; 00:23:06,560<br \/>\nSee this.<br \/>\nThis leads into forgiveness as <\/p>\n<p>446<br \/>\n00:23:06,560 &#8211;&gt; 00:23:09,080<br \/>\nto why we forgive one another<br \/>\nfor our mistakes. <\/p>\n<p>447<br \/>\n00:23:09,640 &#8211;&gt; 00:23:11,400<br \/>\nThis is what the way our God<br \/>\nlives. <\/p>\n<p>448<br \/>\n00:23:11,400 &#8211;&gt; 00:23:14,440<br \/>\nThis is him.<br \/>\nAnd he&#8217;s asking us to take his <\/p>\n<p>449<br \/>\n00:23:14,520 &#8211;&gt; 00:23:18,560<br \/>\neternal way of life and<br \/>\nincorporate it into us. <\/p>\n<p>450<br \/>\n00:23:18,880 &#8211;&gt; 00:23:22,160<br \/>\nThat&#8217;s what he wants.<br \/>\nSo you can&#8217;t claim to love God <\/p>\n<p>451<br \/>\n00:23:22,360 &#8211;&gt; 00:23:24,440<br \/>\nand mistreat your brothers and<br \/>\nsisters. <\/p>\n<p>452<br \/>\n00:23:24,680 &#8211;&gt; 00:23:27,160<br \/>\nThat&#8217;s really challenging, I<br \/>\nthink for all of us. <\/p>\n<p>453<br \/>\n00:23:27,160 &#8211;&gt; 00:23:29,800<br \/>\nThat&#8217;s very challenging.<br \/>\nAnd this is the commandment that<\/p>\n<p>454<br \/>\n00:23:29,800 &#8211;&gt; 00:23:33,280<br \/>\nwe have from him that whoever<br \/>\nloves God must also love his <\/p>\n<p>455<br \/>\n00:23:33,280 &#8211;&gt; 00:23:36,280<br \/>\nbrother must also.<br \/>\nNow see, that&#8217;s a commandment. <\/p>\n<p>456<br \/>\n00:23:36,600 &#8211;&gt; 00:23:41,600<br \/>\nAnd and the problem with law and<br \/>\ncommandments is we can do that. <\/p>\n<p>457<br \/>\n00:23:41,600 &#8211;&gt; 00:23:45,960<br \/>\nWe can say all right, John said<br \/>\nit&#8217;s a commandment or Jesus said<\/p>\n<p>458<br \/>\n00:23:45,960 &#8211;&gt; 00:23:49,120<br \/>\nwe must love one another.<br \/>\nSo I&#8217;ll do it because he said <\/p>\n<p>459<br \/>\n00:23:49,120 &#8211;&gt; 00:23:54,160<br \/>\nit, but I don&#8217;t really feel it.<br \/>\nAnd that&#8217;s that&#8217;s the problem we<\/p>\n<p>460<br \/>\n00:23:54,160 &#8211;&gt; 00:23:56,800<br \/>\nrun into as people.<br \/>\nAnd thankfully God gives us <\/p>\n<p>461<br \/>\n00:23:56,800 &#8211;&gt; 00:24:00,480<br \/>\nyears to grow in the truth.<br \/>\nBut what we got, we got to know <\/p>\n<p>462<br \/>\n00:24:00,480 &#8211;&gt; 00:24:02,720<br \/>\nwhat the goal is.<br \/>\nWhat&#8217;s the bar that we&#8217;re aiming<\/p>\n<p>463<br \/>\n00:24:02,720 &#8211;&gt; 00:24:05,160<br \/>\nfor?<br \/>\nThe bar is that we don&#8217;t do it <\/p>\n<p>464<br \/>\n00:24:05,160 &#8211;&gt; 00:24:08,840<br \/>\nbecause it&#8217;s a commandment.<br \/>\nWe don&#8217;t do it by law. <\/p>\n<p>465<br \/>\n00:24:09,200 &#8211;&gt; 00:24:14,000<br \/>\nWe do it by love, like God does,<br \/>\nlike Jesus did, like Paul did, <\/p>\n<p>466<br \/>\n00:24:14,040 &#8211;&gt; 00:24:17,440<br \/>\nlike all these Bible characters,<br \/>\nJoseph, you you look at how they<\/p>\n<p>467<br \/>\n00:24:17,440 &#8211;&gt; 00:24:22,120<br \/>\nlive like the angels do when<br \/>\nthey grabbed Lot and walk them <\/p>\n<p>468<br \/>\n00:24:22,120 &#8211;&gt; 00:24:26,480<br \/>\nhand in hand out out of Sodom.<br \/>\nThey loved these people and it <\/p>\n<p>469<br \/>\n00:24:26,480 &#8211;&gt; 00:24:29,160<br \/>\nmotivated them.<br \/>\nLook at the the Angel with <\/p>\n<p>470<br \/>\n00:24:29,160 &#8211;&gt; 00:24:31,360<br \/>\nAbraham when they said to one<br \/>\nanother, you know, are we going <\/p>\n<p>471<br \/>\n00:24:31,360 &#8211;&gt; 00:24:33,600<br \/>\nto tell Abraham we&#8217;re going to<br \/>\ndestroy Sodom or shouldn&#8217;t we? <\/p>\n<p>472<br \/>\n00:24:33,600 &#8211;&gt; 00:24:37,840<br \/>\nWell, we got to tell him we know<br \/>\nhim, We love him as an intimate <\/p>\n<p>473<br \/>\n00:24:37,840 &#8211;&gt; 00:24:38,680<br \/>\nfriend.<br \/>\nWe got it. <\/p>\n<p>474<br \/>\n00:24:38,680 &#8211;&gt; 00:24:42,200<br \/>\nWe got to take care of Abraham.<br \/>\nThat&#8217;s what changes your life, <\/p>\n<p>475<br \/>\n00:24:42,200 &#8211;&gt; 00:24:46,120<br \/>\nbrothers and sisters, when love<br \/>\nmotivates us to to affect the <\/p>\n<p>476<br \/>\n00:24:46,120 &#8211;&gt; 00:24:50,960<br \/>\nway we treat one another, not<br \/>\nbecause we have to, but because <\/p>\n<p>477<br \/>\n00:24:51,040 &#8211;&gt; 00:24:54,400<br \/>\nwe want to.<br \/>\nWe want to live God&#8217;s eternal <\/p>\n<p>478<br \/>\n00:24:54,400 &#8211;&gt; 00:24:57,640<br \/>\nway of life.<br \/>\nAnd what that will do to you is <\/p>\n<p>479<br \/>\n00:24:57,640 &#8211;&gt; 00:25:00,000<br \/>\nit casts out all the fear of<br \/>\njudgement. <\/p>\n<p>480<br \/>\n00:25:00,880 &#8211;&gt; 00:25:03,440<br \/>\nIt really does.<br \/>\nYou&#8217;re not afraid of of Christ <\/p>\n<p>481<br \/>\n00:25:03,440 &#8211;&gt; 00:25:05,480<br \/>\ncoming back.<br \/>\nYou&#8217;re not afraid of what&#8217;s <\/p>\n<p>482<br \/>\n00:25:05,480 &#8211;&gt; 00:25:09,080<br \/>\ngoing to happen at the judgement<br \/>\nseat because you know your <\/p>\n<p>483<br \/>\n00:25:09,080 &#8211;&gt; 00:25:13,080<br \/>\nloving father, the judge of all<br \/>\nthe earth, will do right. <\/p>\n<p>484<br \/>\n00:25:13,560 &#8211;&gt; 00:25:15,280<br \/>\nHe will.<br \/>\nHe&#8217;ll do right. <\/p>\n<p>485<br \/>\n00:25:15,600 &#8211;&gt; 00:25:17,400<br \/>\nWhatever happens, he will do<br \/>\nright. <\/p>\n<p>486<br \/>\n00:25:17,440 &#8211;&gt; 00:25:20,520<br \/>\nAnd you trust that that that&#8217;s<br \/>\nthe way it will happen in the <\/p>\n<p>487<br \/>\n00:25:20,520 &#8211;&gt; 00:25:23,800<br \/>\nend.<br \/>\nSo we we lose that fear because <\/p>\n<p>488<br \/>\n00:25:23,800 &#8211;&gt; 00:25:27,080<br \/>\nwe trust that he&#8217;s in control<br \/>\nand we have confidence in in <\/p>\n<p>489<br \/>\n00:25:27,080 &#8211;&gt; 00:25:30,640<br \/>\nGod&#8217;s love for us and we don&#8217;t<br \/>\nhave to fear as as Paul would <\/p>\n<p>490<br \/>\n00:25:30,640 &#8211;&gt; 00:25:32,160<br \/>\nend.<br \/>\nI love the way Paul ends his <\/p>\n<p>491<br \/>\n00:25:32,160 &#8211;&gt; 00:25:35,400<br \/>\nwhole section in in Romans one<br \/>\nand one to seven, that whole <\/p>\n<p>492<br \/>\n00:25:35,400 &#8211;&gt; 00:25:38,040<br \/>\nsection about dealing with the<br \/>\natonement he gets to chapter 8 <\/p>\n<p>493<br \/>\n00:25:38,240 &#8211;&gt; 00:25:40,360<br \/>\ndeals with the battle between<br \/>\nthe mind of the Spirit and the <\/p>\n<p>494<br \/>\n00:25:40,360 &#8211;&gt; 00:25:42,440<br \/>\nmind of the flesh.<br \/>\nAnd then he ends up saying at <\/p>\n<p>495<br \/>\n00:25:42,440 &#8211;&gt; 00:25:45,280<br \/>\nthe end of the chapter like who?<br \/>\nWho&#8217;s going to get in the way of<\/p>\n<p>496<br \/>\n00:25:45,280 &#8211;&gt; 00:25:47,600<br \/>\nof God&#8217;s love for you?<br \/>\nWho&#8217;s who&#8217;s going to get there <\/p>\n<p>497<br \/>\n00:25:47,600 &#8211;&gt; 00:25:50,120<br \/>\nand stop it.<br \/>\nYou know if you really think <\/p>\n<p>498<br \/>\n00:25:50,120 &#8211;&gt; 00:25:53,200<br \/>\nGod&#8217;s going to go after you.<br \/>\nGod loved you so much he gave <\/p>\n<p>499<br \/>\n00:25:53,200 &#8211;&gt; 00:25:55,760<br \/>\nhis son.<br \/>\nDo you think Jesus is going to <\/p>\n<p>500<br \/>\n00:25:55,760 &#8211;&gt; 00:25:57,880<br \/>\ncondemn you with the judgment<br \/>\nseat of Christ? <\/p>\n<p>501<br \/>\n00:25:58,120 &#8211;&gt; 00:26:02,200<br \/>\nChrist loved you so much He gave<br \/>\nhis life for you every day of <\/p>\n<p>502<br \/>\n00:26:02,200 &#8211;&gt; 00:26:03,680<br \/>\nhis life.<br \/>\nHe did. <\/p>\n<p>503<br \/>\n00:26:04,080 &#8211;&gt; 00:26:06,960<br \/>\nSo who&#8217;s going to separate us<br \/>\nfrom the love of God and the <\/p>\n<p>504<br \/>\n00:26:06,960 &#8211;&gt; 00:26:09,720<br \/>\nlove of Christ?<br \/>\nNobody can do that, brothers and<\/p>\n<p>505<br \/>\n00:26:09,720 &#8211;&gt; 00:26:13,720<br \/>\nsisters, but ourselves.<br \/>\nWe&#8217;re the ones that have to get <\/p>\n<p>506<br \/>\n00:26:13,720 &#8211;&gt; 00:26:16,080<br \/>\nit right and we&#8217;ve got to put it<br \/>\ninto practice. <\/p>\n<p>507<br \/>\n00:26:17,160 &#8211;&gt; 00:26:20,120<br \/>\nSo as John says there, really<br \/>\nlove. <\/p>\n<p>508<br \/>\n00:26:20,120 &#8211;&gt; 00:26:25,240<br \/>\nBut perfect love casts out fear,<br \/>\nbecause fear involves <\/p>\n<p>509<br \/>\n00:26:25,440 &#8211;&gt; 00:26:28,000<br \/>\npunishment.<br \/>\nWe got to get this punishment <\/p>\n<p>510<br \/>\n00:26:28,000 &#8211;&gt; 00:26:32,200<br \/>\nout of our heads.<br \/>\nThey may punish our children at <\/p>\n<p>511<br \/>\n00:26:32,200 &#8211;&gt; 00:26:35,520<br \/>\nschool or somewhere else to<br \/>\npunish criminals. <\/p>\n<p>512<br \/>\n00:26:35,520 &#8211;&gt; 00:26:37,640<br \/>\nAnd what did they do?<br \/>\nThey put them in a jail. <\/p>\n<p>513<br \/>\n00:26:37,640 &#8211;&gt; 00:26:41,280<br \/>\nAnd you deserve to be in jail.<br \/>\nThey use words like deserve and <\/p>\n<p>514<br \/>\n00:26:41,280 &#8211;&gt; 00:26:44,680<br \/>\npunish and all this stuff.<br \/>\nThe New Testament doesn&#8217;t use <\/p>\n<p>515<br \/>\n00:26:44,680 &#8211;&gt; 00:26:47,400<br \/>\nthose words.<br \/>\nIt&#8217;s not what you deserve. <\/p>\n<p>516<br \/>\n00:26:47,800 &#8211;&gt; 00:26:50,000<br \/>\nNo, God doesn&#8217;t give us what we<br \/>\ndeserve. <\/p>\n<p>517<br \/>\n00:26:50,000 &#8211;&gt; 00:26:53,360<br \/>\nHe gives us grace.<br \/>\nHe gives more grace. <\/p>\n<p>518<br \/>\n00:26:53,360 &#8211;&gt; 00:26:56,280<br \/>\nThat&#8217;s the God who we worship.<br \/>\nAnd when you get it right, <\/p>\n<p>519<br \/>\n00:26:56,280 &#8211;&gt; 00:26:59,400<br \/>\nbrothers and sisters, your<br \/>\nconfidence becomes in God, not <\/p>\n<p>520<br \/>\n00:26:59,400 &#8211;&gt; 00:27:02,920<br \/>\nin me or not in you.<br \/>\nWe&#8217;re not confident in ourselves<\/p>\n<p>521<br \/>\n00:27:02,920 &#8211;&gt; 00:27:06,520<br \/>\nto save ourselves.<br \/>\nWe are confident that if we <\/p>\n<p>522<br \/>\n00:27:06,520 &#8211;&gt; 00:27:09,400<br \/>\ncooperate with all the<br \/>\nexperiences God brings into our <\/p>\n<p>523<br \/>\n00:27:09,400 &#8211;&gt; 00:27:13,480<br \/>\nlife and we try to react like<br \/>\nGod would, we try to, to reveal <\/p>\n<p>524<br \/>\n00:27:13,480 &#8211;&gt; 00:27:16,800<br \/>\nthe love of God to other people.<br \/>\nWe are confident that that <\/p>\n<p>525<br \/>\n00:27:16,800 &#8211;&gt; 00:27:20,760<br \/>\ntraining program will bring us<br \/>\nto the Kingdom and it will allow<\/p>\n<p>526<br \/>\n00:27:20,760 &#8211;&gt; 00:27:24,280<br \/>\nus to join the family of God.<br \/>\nIt&#8217;s a confidence in God, not a <\/p>\n<p>527<br \/>\n00:27:24,280 &#8211;&gt; 00:27:28,480<br \/>\nconfidence in ourselves because<br \/>\nlove has more power to change <\/p>\n<p>528<br \/>\n00:27:28,480 &#8211;&gt; 00:27:31,280<br \/>\nyour life than fear.<br \/>\nI don&#8217;t know whether you&#8217;ve ever<\/p>\n<p>529<br \/>\n00:27:31,280 &#8211;&gt; 00:27:33,720<br \/>\nthought of that idea before, but<br \/>\nwhen you look at little <\/p>\n<p>530<br \/>\n00:27:33,720 &#8211;&gt; 00:27:36,120<br \/>\nchildren, those of you that are<br \/>\nraising little guys over there, <\/p>\n<p>531<br \/>\n00:27:36,240 &#8211;&gt; 00:27:38,680<br \/>\nyou know that when children are<br \/>\nyoung and they&#8217;re they&#8217;re just <\/p>\n<p>532<br \/>\n00:27:38,680 &#8211;&gt; 00:27:42,280<br \/>\ngrowing up and getting started,<br \/>\nwe have to have a bit of a fear <\/p>\n<p>533<br \/>\n00:27:42,280 &#8211;&gt; 00:27:44,640<br \/>\nbased relationship.<br \/>\nThey&#8217;ve got to at least respect <\/p>\n<p>534<br \/>\n00:27:44,640 &#8211;&gt; 00:27:47,600<br \/>\nthat or or fear what might come<br \/>\non them if they do something <\/p>\n<p>535<br \/>\n00:27:47,600 &#8211;&gt; 00:27:49,760<br \/>\nwrong.<br \/>\nBut when your children get to <\/p>\n<p>536<br \/>\n00:27:49,760 &#8211;&gt; 00:27:52,480<br \/>\nteenage years, if you&#8217;re still<br \/>\ndoing that, you&#8217;re going to lose<\/p>\n<p>537<br \/>\n00:27:52,480 &#8211;&gt; 00:27:55,640<br \/>\nthem that that isn&#8217;t what holds<br \/>\na family together. <\/p>\n<p>538<br \/>\n00:27:56,120 &#8211;&gt; 00:27:58,240<br \/>\nLove is what holds a family<br \/>\ntogether. <\/p>\n<p>539<br \/>\n00:27:59,080 &#8211;&gt; 00:28:01,760<br \/>\nI mean, honestly, I used to talk<br \/>\nto people at my school and when <\/p>\n<p>540<br \/>\n00:28:01,760 &#8211;&gt; 00:28:03,920<br \/>\nmy kids were getting older and<br \/>\nthey used to talk about how bad <\/p>\n<p>541<br \/>\n00:28:03,920 &#8211;&gt; 00:28:06,240<br \/>\nthe teenage years were going to<br \/>\nbe and you know what it&#8217;s like <\/p>\n<p>542<br \/>\n00:28:06,240 &#8211;&gt; 00:28:09,200<br \/>\nto raise teenage children.<br \/>\nAnd soon I would we&#8217;d look at it<\/p>\n<p>543<br \/>\n00:28:09,200 &#8211;&gt; 00:28:12,120<br \/>\nand it&#8217;s like, I I don&#8217;t know<br \/>\nwhat you&#8217;re talking about. <\/p>\n<p>544<br \/>\n00:28:12,720 &#8211;&gt; 00:28:16,600<br \/>\nOur kids loved us.<br \/>\nWe had wonderful teenage years <\/p>\n<p>545<br \/>\n00:28:16,960 &#8211;&gt; 00:28:21,840<br \/>\nbecause the the family got along<br \/>\nwhen we chose to live to to move<\/p>\n<p>546<br \/>\n00:28:21,840 &#8211;&gt; 00:28:23,640<br \/>\nto California.<br \/>\nWe asked the family where do you<\/p>\n<p>547<br \/>\n00:28:23,640 &#8211;&gt; 00:28:28,840<br \/>\nguys want to all live?<br \/>\nThey said Hawaii, &#8217;cause they <\/p>\n<p>548<br \/>\n00:28:28,840 &#8211;&gt; 00:28:31,360<br \/>\nall like the warm weather and<br \/>\nthe beaches and all that stuff. <\/p>\n<p>549<br \/>\n00:28:31,680 &#8211;&gt; 00:28:34,800<br \/>\nAnd of course Sue had her vote<br \/>\nand she has the power of veto <\/p>\n<p>550<br \/>\n00:28:35,200 &#8211;&gt; 00:28:38,120<br \/>\nand and Sue said Nope, won&#8217;t be<br \/>\nHawaii, there&#8217;s no ecclesia <\/p>\n<p>551<br \/>\n00:28:38,120 &#8211;&gt; 00:28:41,360<br \/>\nthere and but all our kids<br \/>\nthought, well, if we move to <\/p>\n<p>552<br \/>\n00:28:41,360 &#8211;&gt; 00:28:43,400<br \/>\nHawaii and we let everybody know<br \/>\nwe&#8217;re here, they&#8217;ll all come and<\/p>\n<p>553<br \/>\n00:28:43,400 &#8211;&gt; 00:28:45,360<br \/>\nvisit us.<br \/>\nWe&#8217;ll have a big Sunday morning <\/p>\n<p>554<br \/>\n00:28:45,360 &#8211;&gt; 00:28:49,480<br \/>\nmeeting every week, but that<br \/>\nthat&#8217;s the kind of relationship <\/p>\n<p>555<br \/>\n00:28:49,480 &#8211;&gt; 00:28:52,760<br \/>\nyou can have with your children<br \/>\nif it&#8217;s loved based. <\/p>\n<p>556<br \/>\n00:28:53,200 &#8211;&gt; 00:28:56,080<br \/>\nIt doesn&#8217;t have to be bad years.<br \/>\nIt doesn&#8217;t have to be living by <\/p>\n<p>557<br \/>\n00:28:56,080 &#8211;&gt; 00:29:00,040<br \/>\na bunch of rules.<br \/>\nIt can be living by love and not<\/p>\n<p>558<br \/>\n00:29:00,040 &#8211;&gt; 00:29:03,160<br \/>\nby law.<br \/>\nBut that transition has to take <\/p>\n<p>559<br \/>\n00:29:03,160 &#8211;&gt; 00:29:06,040<br \/>\nplace from the time the children<br \/>\nare two and three and four years<\/p>\n<p>560<br \/>\n00:29:06,040 &#8211;&gt; 00:29:08,280<br \/>\nold to by the time they get to<br \/>\nbe teenagers. <\/p>\n<p>561<br \/>\n00:29:08,600 &#8211;&gt; 00:29:11,840<br \/>\nIt has to be a transition.<br \/>\nAnd then what happens when <\/p>\n<p>562<br \/>\n00:29:11,840 &#8211;&gt; 00:29:14,520<br \/>\nthey&#8217;re studying for baptism,<br \/>\nthey realize, wow, that same <\/p>\n<p>563<br \/>\n00:29:14,520 &#8211;&gt; 00:29:15,920<br \/>\nrelationship you got with mom<br \/>\nand dad. <\/p>\n<p>564<br \/>\n00:29:16,200 &#8211;&gt; 00:29:19,520<br \/>\nThat&#8217;s the God that we worship.<br \/>\nAll I got to do is transfer it <\/p>\n<p>565<br \/>\n00:29:19,520 &#8211;&gt; 00:29:21,400<br \/>\nover to God.<br \/>\nThat&#8217;s what he hoped would <\/p>\n<p>566<br \/>\n00:29:21,400 &#8211;&gt; 00:29:24,160<br \/>\nhappen in families.<br \/>\nAnd it can happen brother than <\/p>\n<p>567<br \/>\n00:29:24,160 &#8211;&gt; 00:29:26,680<br \/>\nsisters.<br \/>\nSo look at Joseph when, when <\/p>\n<p>568<br \/>\n00:29:26,680 &#8211;&gt; 00:29:29,080<br \/>\nthey, when they, when the<br \/>\nbrothers sold him into Egypt. <\/p>\n<p>569<br \/>\n00:29:29,400 &#8211;&gt; 00:29:32,240<br \/>\nYou remember the whole issue<br \/>\nthat they made-up this whole <\/p>\n<p>570<br \/>\n00:29:32,240 &#8211;&gt; 00:29:36,840<br \/>\nstory about how, well Joseph was<br \/>\nkilled by a wild animal because <\/p>\n<p>571<br \/>\n00:29:36,840 &#8211;&gt; 00:29:39,920<br \/>\nthey were afraid to tell Jacob<br \/>\nthe truth. <\/p>\n<p>572<br \/>\n00:29:40,480 &#8211;&gt; 00:29:42,400<br \/>\nThey couldn&#8217;t tell them what<br \/>\nthey really did. <\/p>\n<p>573<br \/>\n00:29:42,760 &#8211;&gt; 00:29:46,800<br \/>\nIt was all based off of fear.<br \/>\nThat&#8217;s the relationship they had<\/p>\n<p>574<br \/>\n00:29:46,800 &#8211;&gt; 00:29:49,280<br \/>\nwith their dad.<br \/>\nAnd because it&#8217;s fearful, you <\/p>\n<p>575<br \/>\n00:29:49,280 &#8211;&gt; 00:29:51,760<br \/>\ndon&#8217;t even tell the truth.<br \/>\nThat&#8217;s what happens. <\/p>\n<p>576<br \/>\n00:29:52,200 &#8211;&gt; 00:29:56,920<br \/>\nBut then when Judah pleaded with<br \/>\nJoseph and you watch the change <\/p>\n<p>577<br \/>\n00:29:56,920 &#8211;&gt; 00:30:00,240<br \/>\nin the character of Judah over<br \/>\nthose years, he pleaded with <\/p>\n<p>578<br \/>\n00:30:00,240 &#8211;&gt; 00:30:06,520<br \/>\nJoseph to take Benjamin&#8217;s place.<br \/>\nIt&#8217;s because Judah finally loved<\/p>\n<p>579<br \/>\n00:30:06,520 &#8211;&gt; 00:30:09,320<br \/>\nhis dad.<br \/>\nYou ever noticed that as you&#8217;re <\/p>\n<p>580<br \/>\n00:30:09,320 &#8211;&gt; 00:30:11,360<br \/>\nreading through the story?<br \/>\nIt&#8217;s why it&#8217;s one of the <\/p>\n<p>581<br \/>\n00:30:11,360 &#8211;&gt; 00:30:14,480<br \/>\nemotional, most emotional<br \/>\nstories I find in the Bible. <\/p>\n<p>582<br \/>\n00:30:14,480 &#8211;&gt; 00:30:16,680<br \/>\nYou can hardly read it without<br \/>\ncrying about it. <\/p>\n<p>583<br \/>\n00:30:17,080 &#8211;&gt; 00:30:23,720<br \/>\nBut finally, Joseph saw that the<br \/>\nlove for their father outweighed<\/p>\n<p>584<br \/>\n00:30:23,880 &#8211;&gt; 00:30:27,320<br \/>\ntheir own personal interest.<br \/>\nAnd Judah says, let me take his <\/p>\n<p>585<br \/>\n00:30:27,320 &#8211;&gt; 00:30:31,280<br \/>\nplace because I I can&#8217;t bear to<br \/>\nsee what this is going to do to <\/p>\n<p>586<br \/>\n00:30:31,280 &#8211;&gt; 00:30:33,680<br \/>\nDad.<br \/>\nI can&#8217;t disappoint Dad. <\/p>\n<p>587<br \/>\n00:30:33,840 &#8211;&gt; 00:30:35,320<br \/>\nI can&#8217;t let him go through this<br \/>\nagain. <\/p>\n<p>588<br \/>\n00:30:36,120 &#8211;&gt; 00:30:38,480<br \/>\nHe already saw what happened<br \/>\nwhen it went through the first <\/p>\n<p>589<br \/>\n00:30:38,480 &#8211;&gt; 00:30:41,520<br \/>\ntime.<br \/>\nThat&#8217;s the motivation of love <\/p>\n<p>590<br \/>\n00:30:41,640 &#8211;&gt; 00:30:45,360<br \/>\nopposed to fear.<br \/>\nAnd like Paul says, that love is<\/p>\n<p>591<br \/>\n00:30:45,360 &#8211;&gt; 00:30:48,160<br \/>\na fulfilling of the law.<br \/>\nThis is what the driving force <\/p>\n<p>592<br \/>\n00:30:48,160 &#8211;&gt; 00:30:50,800<br \/>\nof the law was all about.<br \/>\nAnd Jesus said that you know you<\/p>\n<p>593<br \/>\n00:30:50,800 &#8211;&gt; 00:30:54,280<br \/>\nshall love the Lord your God.<br \/>\nAnd what&#8217;s the second greatest <\/p>\n<p>594<br \/>\n00:30:54,280 &#8211;&gt; 00:30:57,200<br \/>\ncommandment?<br \/>\nYou shall love your neighbor as <\/p>\n<p>595<br \/>\n00:30:57,200 &#8211;&gt; 00:31:01,160<br \/>\nyourself.<br \/>\nSo Paul says in Romans 13, oh, <\/p>\n<p>596<br \/>\n00:31:01,160 &#8211;&gt; 00:31:05,040<br \/>\nno man, anything except to love<br \/>\none another. <\/p>\n<p>597<br \/>\n00:31:05,280 &#8211;&gt; 00:31:09,840<br \/>\nFor he who loves one another has<br \/>\nfulfilled the law and he lifts <\/p>\n<p>598<br \/>\n00:31:09,840 &#8211;&gt; 00:31:11,960<br \/>\noff all those commandments.<br \/>\nYou know, you&#8217;ve heard those <\/p>\n<p>599<br \/>\n00:31:11,960 &#8211;&gt; 00:31:13,600<br \/>\ncommandments.<br \/>\nYou shall not commit adultery, <\/p>\n<p>600<br \/>\n00:31:13,600 &#8211;&gt; 00:31:16,160<br \/>\nnot murder, not steal.<br \/>\nI think Stephen&#8217;s probably <\/p>\n<p>601<br \/>\n00:31:16,160 &#8211;&gt; 00:31:18,720<br \/>\ntelling you about all those<br \/>\nthings and bear false witness <\/p>\n<p>602<br \/>\n00:31:18,720 &#8211;&gt; 00:31:21,160<br \/>\nand covenant all that.<br \/>\nBut if there&#8217;s any other <\/p>\n<p>603<br \/>\n00:31:21,160 &#8211;&gt; 00:31:24,960<br \/>\ncommandment, they&#8217;re all summed<br \/>\nup in this saying, namely, you <\/p>\n<p>604<br \/>\n00:31:24,960 &#8211;&gt; 00:31:29,280<br \/>\nshall love your neighbor as<br \/>\nyourself, because love won&#8217;t do <\/p>\n<p>605<br \/>\n00:31:29,280 &#8211;&gt; 00:31:33,000<br \/>\nany harm to your neighbor and<br \/>\ntherefore love is the fulfilling<\/p>\n<p>606<br \/>\n00:31:33,000 &#8211;&gt; 00:31:36,280<br \/>\nof the law.<br \/>\nSo it&#8217;s it&#8217;s hard to, but we <\/p>\n<p>607<br \/>\n00:31:36,280 &#8211;&gt; 00:31:40,000<br \/>\ncan, brothers and sisters, get<br \/>\nout of the mode of reacting <\/p>\n<p>608<br \/>\n00:31:40,000 &#8211;&gt; 00:31:44,320<br \/>\nagainst problems in families and<br \/>\necclesias by thinking right away<\/p>\n<p>609<br \/>\n00:31:44,320 &#8211;&gt; 00:31:47,560<br \/>\nwhat we&#8217;re going to have to do<br \/>\nto bring consequences into <\/p>\n<p>610<br \/>\n00:31:47,560 &#8211;&gt; 00:31:50,080<br \/>\nsomebody&#8217;s life.<br \/>\nWhat do you do when a when a <\/p>\n<p>611<br \/>\n00:31:50,080 &#8211;&gt; 00:31:52,400<br \/>\nyoung person comes to you, you<br \/>\nfind out that they&#8217;ve had <\/p>\n<p>612<br \/>\n00:31:52,400 &#8211;&gt; 00:31:54,200<br \/>\npremarital sex?<br \/>\nWhat are you what are you going <\/p>\n<p>613<br \/>\n00:31:54,200 &#8211;&gt; 00:31:56,040<br \/>\nto do?<br \/>\nHow are you going to react to <\/p>\n<p>614<br \/>\n00:31:56,040 &#8211;&gt; 00:31:59,040<br \/>\nthat You does your mind go to<br \/>\nthe fact that right away you <\/p>\n<p>615<br \/>\n00:31:59,040 &#8211;&gt; 00:32:01,320<br \/>\nthink about, well we&#8217;re going to<br \/>\nhave to do this and this and <\/p>\n<p>616<br \/>\n00:32:01,320 &#8211;&gt; 00:32:03,640<br \/>\nthis and this because of what<br \/>\nyou&#8217;ve done? <\/p>\n<p>617<br \/>\n00:32:03,760 &#8211;&gt; 00:32:05,640<br \/>\nIs that is that where our minds<br \/>\ngo? <\/p>\n<p>618<br \/>\n00:32:06,240 &#8211;&gt; 00:32:09,000<br \/>\nI I hope as parents it isn&#8217;t<br \/>\nwhat you think. <\/p>\n<p>619<br \/>\n00:32:09,720 &#8211;&gt; 00:32:12,720<br \/>\nI I think as parents we&#8217;ve we&#8217;re<br \/>\nall being trained to realize <\/p>\n<p>620<br \/>\n00:32:12,720 &#8211;&gt; 00:32:18,160<br \/>\nwhen you love your children, we<br \/>\nask them, well, I&#8217;m glad you <\/p>\n<p>621<br \/>\n00:32:18,160 &#8211;&gt; 00:32:21,200<br \/>\ntold me but what can we do now?<br \/>\nHow how are we going to go <\/p>\n<p>622<br \/>\n00:32:21,200 &#8211;&gt; 00:32:22,840<br \/>\nahead?<br \/>\nHow are we going to move forward<\/p>\n<p>623<br \/>\n00:32:22,840 &#8211;&gt; 00:32:25,840<br \/>\nwith this within the framework<br \/>\nof of God&#8217;s principles. <\/p>\n<p>624<br \/>\n00:32:26,320 &#8211;&gt; 00:32:29,080<br \/>\nBut you don&#8217;t come after them<br \/>\nwith punishment. <\/p>\n<p>625<br \/>\n00:32:29,520 &#8211;&gt; 00:32:32,080<br \/>\nWe come after them with how are<br \/>\nwe going to solve this how are <\/p>\n<p>626<br \/>\n00:32:32,080 &#8211;&gt; 00:32:34,520<br \/>\nwe going to deal with that.<br \/>\nAnd and I&#8217;ve watched so many <\/p>\n<p>627<br \/>\n00:32:34,520 &#8211;&gt; 00:32:37,240<br \/>\npeople do this in a collegial<br \/>\nlife with their own children. <\/p>\n<p>628<br \/>\n00:32:37,920 &#8211;&gt; 00:32:41,320<br \/>\nBut then when it comes to<br \/>\nsomebody else&#8217;s child and <\/p>\n<p>629<br \/>\n00:32:41,320 &#8211;&gt; 00:32:45,680<br \/>\nEurangi Board&#8217;s making decision,<br \/>\nit&#8217;s very difficult to treat <\/p>\n<p>630<br \/>\n00:32:45,680 &#8211;&gt; 00:32:48,720<br \/>\nsomebody else&#8217;s children like<br \/>\nyou would treat your own. <\/p>\n<p>631<br \/>\n00:32:49,440 &#8211;&gt; 00:32:52,080<br \/>\nAnd I would suggest that that&#8217;s<br \/>\none of the greatest things we <\/p>\n<p>632<br \/>\n00:32:52,080 &#8211;&gt; 00:32:55,440<br \/>\ncan do is to try to put<br \/>\nourselves in the position of <\/p>\n<p>633<br \/>\n00:32:55,440 &#8211;&gt; 00:32:59,240<br \/>\nthose parents or that young<br \/>\nperson and think like, what do I<\/p>\n<p>634<br \/>\n00:32:59,240 &#8211;&gt; 00:33:01,680<br \/>\nreally need right now?<br \/>\nWhat am I really looking for <\/p>\n<p>635<br \/>\n00:33:01,680 &#8211;&gt; 00:33:03,400<br \/>\nfrom the Ecclesia?<br \/>\nI need help. <\/p>\n<p>636<br \/>\n00:33:04,320 &#8211;&gt; 00:33:07,720<br \/>\nWho&#8217;s willing to help me.<br \/>\nWe don&#8217;t need people to condemn <\/p>\n<p>637<br \/>\n00:33:07,720 &#8211;&gt; 00:33:10,200<br \/>\nus.<br \/>\nWe already condemn ourselves. <\/p>\n<p>638<br \/>\n00:33:10,640 &#8211;&gt; 00:33:13,800<br \/>\nWhat we need is people that are<br \/>\nwilling to help us move forward.<\/p>\n<p>639<br \/>\n00:33:14,360 &#8211;&gt; 00:33:16,960<br \/>\nNow I I really think you see<br \/>\nthat in Jesus with the woman <\/p>\n<p>640<br \/>\n00:33:16,960 &#8211;&gt; 00:33:19,640<br \/>\ncaught in adultery.<br \/>\nIn John 8, you know, he gets all<\/p>\n<p>641<br \/>\n00:33:19,640 &#8211;&gt; 00:33:21,440<br \/>\nthe way to the end.<br \/>\nAnd he says, well, neither do I <\/p>\n<p>642<br \/>\n00:33:21,440 &#8211;&gt; 00:33:23,840<br \/>\ncondemn you, but go and sin no<br \/>\nmore. <\/p>\n<p>643<br \/>\n00:33:23,840 &#8211;&gt; 00:33:26,920<br \/>\nLet&#8217;s change, Let&#8217;s learn from<br \/>\nthis and let&#8217;s move forward. <\/p>\n<p>644<br \/>\n00:33:27,280 &#8211;&gt; 00:33:30,600<br \/>\nThat&#8217;s what God&#8217;s looking for in<br \/>\nall of us, because that&#8217;s how <\/p>\n<p>645<br \/>\n00:33:30,600 &#8211;&gt; 00:33:33,280<br \/>\nGod treats us.<br \/>\nIt&#8217;s great. <\/p>\n<p>646<br \/>\n00:33:33,760 &#8211;&gt; 00:33:36,320<br \/>\nAnd so love does no harm to a<br \/>\nneighbor. <\/p>\n<p>647<br \/>\n00:33:36,320 &#8211;&gt; 00:33:39,160<br \/>\nTherefore, love is the<br \/>\nfulfillment of the law. <\/p>\n<p>648<br \/>\n00:33:39,880 &#8211;&gt; 00:33:42,720<br \/>\nIt&#8217;s it&#8217;s much more important<br \/>\nthan just going through a bunch <\/p>\n<p>649<br \/>\n00:33:42,720 &#8211;&gt; 00:33:46,200<br \/>\nof legalistic rules.<br \/>\nSo parents, as our children are <\/p>\n<p>650<br \/>\n00:33:46,200 &#8211;&gt; 00:33:49,440<br \/>\nyoung, we do lay down the law<br \/>\nbecause we want to protect them.<\/p>\n<p>651<br \/>\n00:33:49,440 &#8211;&gt; 00:33:52,400<br \/>\nI can remember with my autistic<br \/>\ndaughter she used to like, want <\/p>\n<p>652<br \/>\n00:33:52,400 &#8211;&gt; 00:33:55,480<br \/>\nto walk right out the door,<br \/>\nright down the sidewalk right <\/p>\n<p>653<br \/>\n00:33:55,480 &#8211;&gt; 00:33:58,480<br \/>\nout into the street in front of<br \/>\nthe cars, had no awareness of <\/p>\n<p>654<br \/>\n00:33:58,480 &#8211;&gt; 00:34:01,760<br \/>\ncars going down the road.<br \/>\nAnd and we had to treat her in a<\/p>\n<p>655<br \/>\n00:34:01,760 &#8211;&gt; 00:34:04,280<br \/>\ndifferent way than we treated<br \/>\nthe other kids because it was <\/p>\n<p>656<br \/>\n00:34:04,280 &#8211;&gt; 00:34:07,720<br \/>\nfor safety reasons.<br \/>\nBut as they get older, as our <\/p>\n<p>657<br \/>\n00:34:07,720 &#8211;&gt; 00:34:11,520<br \/>\nkids get older, we have to turn<br \/>\nour our our course and direction<\/p>\n<p>658<br \/>\n00:34:11,520 &#8211;&gt; 00:34:16,600<br \/>\naround culture.<br \/>\nThey&#8217;re going to do that. <\/p>\n<p>659<br \/>\n00:34:16,600 &#8211;&gt; 00:34:19,320<br \/>\nAnd what do we do and and punish<br \/>\nthem? <\/p>\n<p>660<br \/>\n00:34:19,639 &#8211;&gt; 00:34:22,320<br \/>\nOr do we try to talk through<br \/>\nthese things and explain why we <\/p>\n<p>661<br \/>\n00:34:22,320 &#8211;&gt; 00:34:25,239<br \/>\ndo that, Open the door to the<br \/>\nfact well, maybe you guys have a<\/p>\n<p>662<br \/>\n00:34:25,239 &#8211;&gt; 00:34:27,000<br \/>\ngood idea that we hadn&#8217;t even<br \/>\nthought about before. <\/p>\n<p>663<br \/>\n00:34:27,000 &#8211;&gt; 00:34:29,480<br \/>\nMaybe there is a different way<br \/>\nto do this and we don&#8217;t have to <\/p>\n<p>664<br \/>\n00:34:29,480 &#8211;&gt; 00:34:32,600<br \/>\nwait that we don&#8217;t have to do it<br \/>\nthe way we always did, but that <\/p>\n<p>665<br \/>\n00:34:32,600 &#8211;&gt; 00:34:34,520<br \/>\nmight be a better way to do it<br \/>\nToday. <\/p>\n<p>666<br \/>\n00:34:34,760 &#8211;&gt; 00:34:37,440<br \/>\nThat&#8217;s a possibility.<br \/>\nBut we don&#8217;t get angry at people<\/p>\n<p>667<br \/>\n00:34:37,440 &#8211;&gt; 00:34:40,239<br \/>\nand yell at them and scream and<br \/>\nthose kind of things, you know, <\/p>\n<p>668<br \/>\n00:34:40,280 &#8211;&gt; 00:34:44,040<br \/>\nour obedience to our parents and<br \/>\nGod, it has to come from love. <\/p>\n<p>669<br \/>\n00:34:44,280 &#8211;&gt; 00:34:48,080<br \/>\nThat&#8217;s our goal for them.<br \/>\nYou know you look at Deuteronomy<\/p>\n<p>670<br \/>\n00:34:48,080 &#8211;&gt; 00:34:50,120<br \/>\n25.<br \/>\nThat whole section there in <\/p>\n<p>671<br \/>\n00:34:50,120 &#8211;&gt; 00:34:55,760<br \/>\nDeuteronomy 25, in the 1st 10<br \/>\nverses or so it it&#8217;s all <\/p>\n<p>672<br \/>\n00:34:56,400 &#8211;&gt; 00:34:59,440<br \/>\nproblems that people get into.<br \/>\nSo he starts out as there&#8217;s <\/p>\n<p>673<br \/>\n00:34:59,440 &#8211;&gt; 00:35:02,200<br \/>\nthere&#8217;s a speak to men and they<br \/>\ncome to court and the judge may <\/p>\n<p>674<br \/>\n00:35:02,200 &#8211;&gt; 00:35:04,640<br \/>\njudge them and they justify the<br \/>\nrighteous condemn them. <\/p>\n<p>675<br \/>\n00:35:05,560 &#8211;&gt; 00:35:08,440<br \/>\nWe&#8217;re not going to do things<br \/>\nthat humiliate people like that.<\/p>\n<p>676<br \/>\n00:35:08,600 &#8211;&gt; 00:35:10,000<br \/>\nThat&#8217;s not what we&#8217;re going to<br \/>\ndo. <\/p>\n<p>677<br \/>\n00:35:10,520 &#8211;&gt; 00:35:11,720<br \/>\nAnd then he throws in there.<br \/>\nOh yeah. <\/p>\n<p>678<br \/>\n00:35:11,720 &#8211;&gt; 00:35:14,320<br \/>\nBy the way don&#8217;t muzzle an ox<br \/>\nwhen it. <\/p>\n<p>679<br \/>\n00:35:15,400 &#8211;&gt; 00:35:18,280<br \/>\nSome of you know Paul&#8217;s comment<br \/>\non it and Corinthians, you know,<\/p>\n<p>680<br \/>\n00:35:18,280 &#8211;&gt; 00:35:21,240<br \/>\nBut but when we&#8217;re first going<br \/>\nthrough the law, our natural <\/p>\n<p>681<br \/>\n00:35:21,240 &#8211;&gt; 00:35:23,400<br \/>\nreaction is just to go.<br \/>\nHere&#8217;s another law at home <\/p>\n<p>682<br \/>\n00:35:23,400 &#8211;&gt; 00:35:25,160<br \/>\nMuzzle docks when it turns out<br \/>\nthe grave. <\/p>\n<p>683<br \/>\n00:35:26,120 &#8211;&gt; 00:35:30,240<br \/>\nPaul gives the New Testament<br \/>\nexposition of that which is so <\/p>\n<p>684<br \/>\n00:35:30,240 &#8211;&gt; 00:35:32,760<br \/>\ngreat to have the New Testament<br \/>\nwriters tell us what these Old <\/p>\n<p>685<br \/>\n00:35:32,760 &#8211;&gt; 00:35:36,240<br \/>\nTestament things really meant.<br \/>\nHe says in First Corinthians 9, <\/p>\n<p>686<br \/>\n00:35:36,240 &#8211;&gt; 00:35:40,320<br \/>\nhe tells us how to read the law.<br \/>\nHere&#8217;s really what that meant. <\/p>\n<p>687<br \/>\n00:35:40,680 &#8211;&gt; 00:35:44,000<br \/>\nSo my defense to those who<br \/>\nexamine me, he says, do we have <\/p>\n<p>688<br \/>\n00:35:44,000 &#8211;&gt; 00:35:46,800<br \/>\nno right to eat and drink?<br \/>\nDo we have no right to take <\/p>\n<p>689<br \/>\n00:35:46,800 &#8211;&gt; 00:35:50,000<br \/>\nalong a bleeding wife, wife, or<br \/>\nand do also as the other <\/p>\n<p>690<br \/>\n00:35:50,000 &#8211;&gt; 00:35:52,080<br \/>\napostles and brothers of the<br \/>\nLord or Cephas? <\/p>\n<p>691<br \/>\n00:35:52,080 &#8211;&gt; 00:35:54,800<br \/>\nOr is it only Barnabas and I who<br \/>\nhad no right from to refrain <\/p>\n<p>692<br \/>\n00:35:54,800 &#8211;&gt; 00:35:57,240<br \/>\nfrom working?<br \/>\nAnd so he goes on in verse 8 and<\/p>\n<p>693<br \/>\n00:35:57,240 &#8211;&gt; 00:36:01,000<br \/>\nhe says, do I say these things<br \/>\nas a mere man, Not the law. <\/p>\n<p>694<br \/>\n00:36:01,000 &#8211;&gt; 00:36:04,200<br \/>\nSay the same thing, or it is<br \/>\nwritten in the law of Moses. <\/p>\n<p>695<br \/>\n00:36:04,240 &#8211;&gt; 00:36:07,520<br \/>\nYou shall not muzzle an ox while<br \/>\nit treads out the grain. <\/p>\n<p>696<br \/>\n00:36:08,320 &#8211;&gt; 00:36:12,280<br \/>\nSee, now he goes back.<br \/>\nHe quotes that phrase out of <\/p>\n<p>697<br \/>\n00:36:12,280 &#8211;&gt; 00:36:15,920<br \/>\nDeuteronomy 25.<br \/>\nAnd then he says to people, what<\/p>\n<p>698<br \/>\n00:36:15,920 &#8211;&gt; 00:36:18,920<br \/>\ndo you really think?<br \/>\nDo you think God really just <\/p>\n<p>699<br \/>\n00:36:18,920 &#8211;&gt; 00:36:22,840<br \/>\ncared about the oxen?<br \/>\nIs that how you take the law and<\/p>\n<p>700<br \/>\n00:36:22,840 &#8211;&gt; 00:36:25,080<br \/>\nyou take it word for word and<br \/>\nyou read it and you just say, <\/p>\n<p>701<br \/>\n00:36:25,080 &#8211;&gt; 00:36:27,720<br \/>\nwell, it&#8217;s just this, it&#8217;s just<br \/>\nthis and it&#8217;s just that. <\/p>\n<p>702<br \/>\n00:36:27,880 &#8211;&gt; 00:36:30,400<br \/>\nAnd you limit, you limit its<br \/>\napplication. <\/p>\n<p>703<br \/>\n00:36:30,880 &#8211;&gt; 00:36:33,840<br \/>\nIs it really oxen that God was<br \/>\nconcerned about? <\/p>\n<p>704<br \/>\n00:36:33,840 &#8211;&gt; 00:36:37,400<br \/>\nOr does he say it all together<br \/>\nfor our sakes, and then he <\/p>\n<p>705<br \/>\n00:36:37,400 &#8211;&gt; 00:36:39,880<br \/>\nanswers his own question for our<br \/>\nsakes. <\/p>\n<p>706<br \/>\n00:36:39,880 &#8211;&gt; 00:36:42,920<br \/>\nNo doubt this is written that he<br \/>\nwho ploughs should plough with <\/p>\n<p>707<br \/>\n00:36:42,920 &#8211;&gt; 00:36:46,600<br \/>\nhope, and he who threshes in<br \/>\nhope should be partakers of the <\/p>\n<p>708<br \/>\n00:36:47,000 &#8211;&gt; 00:36:50,440<br \/>\nand be partakers of this hope.<br \/>\nIt was all written there so that<\/p>\n<p>709<br \/>\n00:36:50,440 &#8211;&gt; 00:36:54,360<br \/>\nwe would not mistreat people,<br \/>\npeople. <\/p>\n<p>710<br \/>\n00:36:54,800 &#8211;&gt; 00:36:56,440<br \/>\nIt&#8217;s about how we treat one<br \/>\nanother. <\/p>\n<p>711<br \/>\n00:36:57,000 &#8211;&gt; 00:37:00,000<br \/>\nPaul brings it up again in in<br \/>\nFirst Timothy 5 and again he <\/p>\n<p>712<br \/>\n00:37:00,000 &#8211;&gt; 00:37:02,640<br \/>\nshows you about how we should be<br \/>\nreading the law. <\/p>\n<p>713<br \/>\n00:37:03,200 &#8211;&gt; 00:37:06,600<br \/>\nSo families, what God designed<br \/>\nthe family for and that large <\/p>\n<p>714<br \/>\n00:37:07,040 &#8211;&gt; 00:37:11,240<br \/>\nextent was to teach us how to<br \/>\nshow mercy, how to deal with <\/p>\n<p>715<br \/>\n00:37:11,240 &#8211;&gt; 00:37:14,000<br \/>\npeople that make mistakes.<br \/>\nYou know, our kids make a lot of<\/p>\n<p>716<br \/>\n00:37:14,000 &#8211;&gt; 00:37:15,640<br \/>\nmistakes.<br \/>\nI&#8217;m sure yours, dude. <\/p>\n<p>717<br \/>\n00:37:16,120 &#8211;&gt; 00:37:18,400<br \/>\nOurs make a lot of they did.<br \/>\nThey made a lot of mistakes in <\/p>\n<p>718<br \/>\n00:37:18,400 &#8211;&gt; 00:37:20,200<br \/>\nlife.<br \/>\nLook at ourselves like, you <\/p>\n<p>719<br \/>\n00:37:20,200 &#8211;&gt; 00:37:23,520<br \/>\nknow, James says in Chapter 3.<br \/>\nFor we all make many mistakes in<\/p>\n<p>720<br \/>\n00:37:23,520 &#8211;&gt; 00:37:25,520<br \/>\nthe RSV.<br \/>\nThat&#8217;s the way he words that. <\/p>\n<p>721<br \/>\n00:37:25,800 &#8211;&gt; 00:37:28,600<br \/>\nSo that&#8217;s why we don&#8217;t judge one<br \/>\nanother so harshly. <\/p>\n<p>722<br \/>\n00:37:28,600 &#8211;&gt; 00:37:32,200<br \/>\nWe all make many mistakes.<br \/>\nBut what God is hoping for, and <\/p>\n<p>723<br \/>\n00:37:32,200 &#8211;&gt; 00:37:35,640<br \/>\nthe wonderful thing about our<br \/>\nGod is, is that he can watch our<\/p>\n<p>724<br \/>\n00:37:35,640 &#8211;&gt; 00:37:39,480<br \/>\nmistakes and he doesn&#8217;t get near<br \/>\nas upset about them as we do <\/p>\n<p>725<br \/>\n00:37:39,480 &#8211;&gt; 00:37:42,600<br \/>\nwith one another.<br \/>\nYou ever thought about that? <\/p>\n<p>726<br \/>\n00:37:42,600 &#8211;&gt; 00:37:44,480<br \/>\nAnd then you think about, like,<br \/>\nwhat? <\/p>\n<p>727<br \/>\n00:37:44,480 &#8211;&gt; 00:37:47,240<br \/>\nWhat is it like from the angel&#8217;s<br \/>\nperspective is if somebody makes<\/p>\n<p>728<br \/>\n00:37:47,240 &#8211;&gt; 00:37:49,800<br \/>\nsome mistake, take some big<br \/>\nmistake in the community. <\/p>\n<p>729<br \/>\n00:37:49,800 &#8211;&gt; 00:37:52,680<br \/>\nIf somebody commits adultery or<br \/>\nsomebody commits divorce, and <\/p>\n<p>730<br \/>\n00:37:52,680 &#8211;&gt; 00:37:55,080<br \/>\nthen they get remarried.<br \/>\nAnd these things that we elevate<\/p>\n<p>731<br \/>\n00:37:55,080 &#8211;&gt; 00:37:57,000<br \/>\nup there is like the biggest<br \/>\nthings in the world. <\/p>\n<p>732<br \/>\n00:37:57,360 &#8211;&gt; 00:38:01,000<br \/>\nWhat the way God looks at this<br \/>\nis really different than we do. <\/p>\n<p>733<br \/>\n00:38:01,440 &#8211;&gt; 00:38:05,120<br \/>\nHe sees them as learning<br \/>\nexperiences for people. <\/p>\n<p>734<br \/>\n00:38:05,920 &#8211;&gt; 00:38:09,880<br \/>\nHe&#8217;s waiting to see how is that<br \/>\nperson going to respond with <\/p>\n<p>735<br \/>\n00:38:09,880 &#8211;&gt; 00:38:13,520<br \/>\nthat mistake.<br \/>\nAnd if, if we understand the way<\/p>\n<p>736<br \/>\n00:38:13,520 &#8211;&gt; 00:38:18,640<br \/>\nGod&#8217;s looking at it, we will<br \/>\nhelp those people respond the <\/p>\n<p>737<br \/>\n00:38:18,640 &#8211;&gt; 00:38:21,600<br \/>\nway God is hoping they will<br \/>\nrespond, and that they will <\/p>\n<p>738<br \/>\n00:38:21,600 &#8211;&gt; 00:38:25,440<br \/>\nlearn from those mistakes<br \/>\ninstead of condemning them all <\/p>\n<p>739<br \/>\n00:38:25,440 &#8211;&gt; 00:38:28,640<br \/>\nthe time for the mistakes.<br \/>\nYou ever thought of that before <\/p>\n<p>740<br \/>\n00:38:28,800 &#8211;&gt; 00:38:30,040<br \/>\nthat?<br \/>\nThat&#8217;s what God does. <\/p>\n<p>741<br \/>\n00:38:30,360 &#8211;&gt; 00:38:33,640<br \/>\nIt&#8217;s a learning program.<br \/>\nIt&#8217;s it&#8217;s a a training program. <\/p>\n<p>742<br \/>\n00:38:33,840 &#8211;&gt; 00:38:37,320<br \/>\nSo those have been trained, as<br \/>\nPaul says in Hebrews 13, Hebrews<\/p>\n<p>743<br \/>\n00:38:37,320 &#8211;&gt; 00:38:39,160<br \/>\n12.<br \/>\nThe the the fruit of <\/p>\n<p>744<br \/>\n00:38:39,160 &#8211;&gt; 00:38:42,120<br \/>\nrighteousness comes out of that.<br \/>\nWe&#8217;re going through a training <\/p>\n<p>745<br \/>\n00:38:42,120 &#8211;&gt; 00:38:44,160<br \/>\nprogram.<br \/>\nWe don&#8217;t want a coach who just <\/p>\n<p>746<br \/>\n00:38:44,160 &#8211;&gt; 00:38:46,960<br \/>\nsits there for every mistake and<br \/>\njust beats us on the on the head<\/p>\n<p>747<br \/>\n00:38:46,960 &#8211;&gt; 00:38:49,200<br \/>\nfor the fact he made another<br \/>\nmistake, made another mistake. <\/p>\n<p>748<br \/>\n00:38:49,640 &#8211;&gt; 00:38:53,920<br \/>\nNow our coach watches our<br \/>\nmistakes, and what he&#8217;s hoping <\/p>\n<p>749<br \/>\n00:38:53,920 &#8211;&gt; 00:38:57,760<br \/>\nfor is the end product is<br \/>\nsomeone who has learned to live <\/p>\n<p>750<br \/>\n00:38:57,760 &#8211;&gt; 00:39:01,520<br \/>\nhis eternal way of life.<br \/>\nThat&#8217;s different than the way I <\/p>\n<p>751<br \/>\n00:39:01,520 &#8211;&gt; 00:39:03,280<br \/>\ngrew up.<br \/>\nThat&#8217;s very different than the <\/p>\n<p>752<br \/>\n00:39:03,280 &#8211;&gt; 00:39:07,080<br \/>\nway I used to think.<br \/>\nAnd I really found it helped me <\/p>\n<p>753<br \/>\n00:39:07,280 &#8211;&gt; 00:39:11,880<br \/>\nhelp other people who had made<br \/>\nmistakes so they can go to young<\/p>\n<p>754<br \/>\n00:39:11,880 &#8211;&gt; 00:39:14,240<br \/>\npeople and other brothers and<br \/>\nsisters that have done things <\/p>\n<p>755<br \/>\n00:39:14,240 &#8211;&gt; 00:39:19,840<br \/>\nthat the rest of the ecclesia<br \/>\nmight just totally show up <\/p>\n<p>756<br \/>\n00:39:19,840 &#8211;&gt; 00:39:21,600<br \/>\nagain.<br \/>\nAnd you can go to them and find <\/p>\n<p>757<br \/>\n00:39:21,600 &#8211;&gt; 00:39:24,840<br \/>\nout, well, how can we help you,<br \/>\nwhat can we do to help and move <\/p>\n<p>758<br \/>\n00:39:24,840 &#8211;&gt; 00:39:27,240<br \/>\nforward.<br \/>\nThat&#8217;s what God does. <\/p>\n<p>759<br \/>\n00:39:27,680 &#8211;&gt; 00:39:32,280<br \/>\nHe helps us move forward and He<br \/>\nextends mercy to us, hoping that<\/p>\n<p>760<br \/>\n00:39:32,280 &#8211;&gt; 00:39:35,560<br \/>\nwe will respond and that we&#8217;ll<br \/>\nlearn that all these things, all<\/p>\n<p>761<br \/>\n00:39:35,560 &#8211;&gt; 00:39:37,720<br \/>\nthese mistakes we made, and<br \/>\nlet&#8217;s be honest, friend and <\/p>\n<p>762<br \/>\n00:39:37,720 &#8211;&gt; 00:39:40,280<br \/>\nsisters, we all make these<br \/>\nmistakes. <\/p>\n<p>763<br \/>\n00:39:40,280 &#8211;&gt; 00:39:42,800<br \/>\nEverybody, just.<br \/>\nSome are more public than <\/p>\n<p>764<br \/>\n00:39:42,800 &#8211;&gt; 00:39:45,080<br \/>\nothers, but everybody is<br \/>\nfailing. <\/p>\n<p>765<br \/>\n00:39:45,240 &#8211;&gt; 00:39:47,720<br \/>\nWe all are.<br \/>\nAnd why do you come to meeting <\/p>\n<p>766<br \/>\n00:39:47,720 &#8211;&gt; 00:39:49,480<br \/>\non Sunday and take the bread and<br \/>\nwine? <\/p>\n<p>767<br \/>\n00:39:49,640 &#8211;&gt; 00:39:51,800<br \/>\nYou ask most people?<br \/>\nWhat they&#8217;re hoping for is <\/p>\n<p>768<br \/>\n00:39:51,800 &#8211;&gt; 00:39:55,840<br \/>\nforgiveness and mercy and and if<br \/>\nthat&#8217;s what we&#8217;re hoping for, <\/p>\n<p>769<br \/>\n00:39:55,840 &#8211;&gt; 00:39:57,840<br \/>\ndon&#8217;t you think the rest they&#8217;re<br \/>\nhoping for that? <\/p>\n<p>770<br \/>\n00:39:57,920 &#8211;&gt; 00:40:00,080<br \/>\nI&#8217;m not talking about people<br \/>\nthat walk away from the truth. <\/p>\n<p>771<br \/>\n00:40:00,240 &#8211;&gt; 00:40:02,120<br \/>\nI&#8217;m talking about people who<br \/>\nhave made mistakes. <\/p>\n<p>772<br \/>\n00:40:02,400 &#8211;&gt; 00:40:05,400<br \/>\nThey&#8217;re looking for someone to<br \/>\nrespond to them like God <\/p>\n<p>773<br \/>\n00:40:05,400 &#8211;&gt; 00:40:07,640<br \/>\nresponds to them and he&#8217;s<br \/>\nwilling to forgive. <\/p>\n<p>774<br \/>\n00:40:08,240 &#8211;&gt; 00:40:11,120<br \/>\nSo family life and a collegial<br \/>\nlife, they&#8217;re they&#8217;re not going <\/p>\n<p>775<br \/>\n00:40:11,120 &#8211;&gt; 00:40:13,760<br \/>\nto be perfect and don&#8217;t ever<br \/>\nexpect them to be. <\/p>\n<p>776<br \/>\n00:40:14,160 &#8211;&gt; 00:40:16,440<br \/>\nYou don&#8217;t develop in a perfect<br \/>\nsituation. <\/p>\n<p>777<br \/>\n00:40:16,720 &#8211;&gt; 00:40:18,360<br \/>\nSome people get very<br \/>\ndiscouraged. <\/p>\n<p>778<br \/>\n00:40:18,360 &#8211;&gt; 00:40:20,440<br \/>\nAmongst the Christadelphians, I<br \/>\nthink some of the young people, <\/p>\n<p>779<br \/>\n00:40:20,440 &#8211;&gt; 00:40:23,320<br \/>\nyou might get discouraged when<br \/>\nyou realize, hey us older guys, <\/p>\n<p>780<br \/>\n00:40:23,320 &#8211;&gt; 00:40:26,280<br \/>\nwe we are always perfect.<br \/>\nWe make a lot of mistakes and <\/p>\n<p>781<br \/>\n00:40:26,280 &#8211;&gt; 00:40:29,280<br \/>\nwe&#8217;re we&#8217;re not the perfect<br \/>\npeople that we sometimes present<\/p>\n<p>782<br \/>\n00:40:29,280 &#8211;&gt; 00:40:33,680<br \/>\nourselves to be.<br \/>\nBut that&#8217;s OK because God wants <\/p>\n<p>783<br \/>\n00:40:33,680 &#8211;&gt; 00:40:36,080<br \/>\nyou to work through those<br \/>\nmistakes, to learn from the <\/p>\n<p>784<br \/>\n00:40:36,080 &#8211;&gt; 00:40:39,160<br \/>\nmistakes of others and try to<br \/>\nfigure out how can we all get <\/p>\n<p>785<br \/>\n00:40:39,160 &#8211;&gt; 00:40:40,760<br \/>\nalong, how can we help each<br \/>\nother. <\/p>\n<p>786<br \/>\n00:40:41,160 &#8211;&gt; 00:40:44,200<br \/>\nSo you consider look at Jesus&#8217;s<br \/>\nfamily and how they treated him <\/p>\n<p>787<br \/>\n00:40:44,520 &#8211;&gt; 00:40:47,400<br \/>\nand and the ecclesia itself.<br \/>\nThink of David&#8217;s or or <\/p>\n<p>788<br \/>\n00:40:47,400 &#8211;&gt; 00:40:49,400<br \/>\nJonathan&#8217;s families.<br \/>\nThey weren&#8217;t perfect. <\/p>\n<p>789<br \/>\n00:40:49,640 &#8211;&gt; 00:40:53,920<br \/>\nNo way they weren&#8217;t perfect.<br \/>\nAnd yet still God developed his,<\/p>\n<p>790<br \/>\n00:40:54,000 &#8211;&gt; 00:40:57,480<br \/>\nhis, his gems, his goal.<br \/>\nJoseph&#8217;s family were were <\/p>\n<p>791<br \/>\n00:40:57,480 &#8211;&gt; 00:41:00,560<br \/>\nterrible for years.<br \/>\nFor years all they cared about <\/p>\n<p>792<br \/>\n00:41:00,560 &#8211;&gt; 00:41:03,360<br \/>\nwere themselves.<br \/>\nBut through the experiences the <\/p>\n<p>793<br \/>\n00:41:03,360 &#8211;&gt; 00:41:06,840<br \/>\nangels brought into their life<br \/>\nand that Joseph built on when <\/p>\n<p>794<br \/>\n00:41:06,840 &#8211;&gt; 00:41:10,480<br \/>\nthey came to Egypt, because he<br \/>\nunderstood how the angels worked<\/p>\n<p>795<br \/>\n00:41:10,840 &#8211;&gt; 00:41:14,520<br \/>\nand he and he put his, his<br \/>\nbrothers into situations, not <\/p>\n<p>796<br \/>\n00:41:14,520 &#8211;&gt; 00:41:17,760<br \/>\nreally just to test them, but to<br \/>\nfind out if they would <\/p>\n<p>797<br \/>\n00:41:17,760 &#8211;&gt; 00:41:21,280<br \/>\nspiritually grow.<br \/>\nAre they ready now to, like, do <\/p>\n<p>798<br \/>\n00:41:21,280 &#8211;&gt; 00:41:24,160<br \/>\nsomething for somebody else when<br \/>\nbefore they weren&#8217;t? <\/p>\n<p>799<br \/>\n00:41:24,160 &#8211;&gt; 00:41:28,480<br \/>\nThey didn&#8217;t care about Dad.<br \/>\nBefore they didn&#8217;t care about <\/p>\n<p>800<br \/>\n00:41:28,480 &#8211;&gt; 00:41:31,520<br \/>\nJoseph.<br \/>\nAnd now Judah comes forward and,<\/p>\n<p>801<br \/>\n00:41:31,600 &#8211;&gt; 00:41:34,000<br \/>\noh, I can&#8217;t do this to Dad.<br \/>\nI love him. <\/p>\n<p>802<br \/>\n00:41:34,000 &#8211;&gt; 00:41:35,720<br \/>\nI&#8217;m not going to put him to it<br \/>\nagain. <\/p>\n<p>803<br \/>\n00:41:36,160 &#8211;&gt; 00:41:39,920<br \/>\nSee, that&#8217;s how Joseph thought.<br \/>\nHe comes about as close as any <\/p>\n<p>804<br \/>\n00:41:39,920 &#8211;&gt; 00:41:42,640<br \/>\nBible character I&#8217;ve ever seen<br \/>\nwho operates like an Angel. <\/p>\n<p>805<br \/>\n00:41:43,040 &#8211;&gt; 00:41:45,880<br \/>\nNot not trying to get people,<br \/>\nbut trying to develop their <\/p>\n<p>806<br \/>\n00:41:45,880 &#8211;&gt; 00:41:48,280<br \/>\nspiritual character.<br \/>\nAnd there&#8217;s a whole list of them<\/p>\n<p>807<br \/>\n00:41:48,280 &#8211;&gt; 00:41:49,920<br \/>\nthat, as you can see them<br \/>\nthrough the Scriptures. <\/p>\n<p>808<br \/>\n00:41:50,240 &#8211;&gt; 00:41:53,960<br \/>\nSo that&#8217;s what God does.<br \/>\nHe develops strength through our<\/p>\n<p>809<br \/>\n00:41:53,960 &#8211;&gt; 00:41:57,240<br \/>\nweaknesses, but all the glory<br \/>\ngoes to God. <\/p>\n<p>810<br \/>\n00:41:57,520 &#8211;&gt; 00:41:59,680<br \/>\nSee how this works?<br \/>\nNobody&#8217;s going to walk into the <\/p>\n<p>811<br \/>\n00:41:59,680 &#8211;&gt; 00:42:01,160<br \/>\nKingdom saying look at what I<br \/>\ndid. <\/p>\n<p>812<br \/>\n00:42:01,400 &#8211;&gt; 00:42:04,120<br \/>\nLook at all the rest of my<br \/>\necclesia did this or that, or my<\/p>\n<p>813<br \/>\n00:42:04,120 &#8211;&gt; 00:42:06,520<br \/>\nfamily did, but look at me, I I<br \/>\ndidn&#8217;t do those things. <\/p>\n<p>814<br \/>\n00:42:07,040 &#8211;&gt; 00:42:09,280<br \/>\nI think maybe Job&#8217;s friends<br \/>\nwould have been like that at the<\/p>\n<p>815<br \/>\n00:42:09,280 &#8211;&gt; 00:42:10,840<br \/>\nbeginning.<br \/>\nThey were very much into <\/p>\n<p>816<br \/>\n00:42:10,840 &#8211;&gt; 00:42:14,840<br \/>\nthinking they were pretty good.<br \/>\nBut in the end, what God was <\/p>\n<p>817<br \/>\n00:42:14,840 &#8211;&gt; 00:42:17,200<br \/>\nhoping for is they would all<br \/>\nrealize we all make many <\/p>\n<p>818<br \/>\n00:42:17,200 &#8211;&gt; 00:42:19,000<br \/>\nmistakes.<br \/>\nAnd the only thing that&#8217;s <\/p>\n<p>819<br \/>\n00:42:19,000 &#8211;&gt; 00:42:22,200<br \/>\ndifferent is that God&#8217;s working<br \/>\nin our life, He&#8217;s extending <\/p>\n<p>820<br \/>\n00:42:22,200 &#8211;&gt; 00:42:26,000<br \/>\nmercy to us, allowing us the<br \/>\nopportunity tomorrow to start <\/p>\n<p>821<br \/>\n00:42:26,000 &#8211;&gt; 00:42:29,080<br \/>\nagain and to grow again.<br \/>\nIt&#8217;s it&#8217;s it&#8217;s great. <\/p>\n<p>822<br \/>\n00:42:29,360 &#8211;&gt; 00:42:31,760<br \/>\nIt&#8217;s it&#8217;s a wonderful way to<br \/>\ntreat people. <\/p>\n<p>823<br \/>\n00:42:32,200 &#8211;&gt; 00:42:35,640<br \/>\nSo you look at how Jesus reacted<br \/>\nin John 8 with the adultery <\/p>\n<p>824<br \/>\n00:42:35,640 &#8211;&gt; 00:42:37,520<br \/>\ncase.<br \/>\nI already mentioned it, but, you<\/p>\n<p>825<br \/>\n00:42:37,520 &#8211;&gt; 00:42:39,520<br \/>\nknow, he knew this woman was<br \/>\nguilty. <\/p>\n<p>826<br \/>\n00:42:39,600 &#8211;&gt; 00:42:42,480<br \/>\nHe knew it.<br \/>\nAnd according to the law, if you<\/p>\n<p>827<br \/>\n00:42:42,480 &#8211;&gt; 00:42:46,040<br \/>\nread the law legally, he would<br \/>\nsay we should stone her. <\/p>\n<p>828<br \/>\n00:42:46,040 &#8211;&gt; 00:42:49,800<br \/>\nShe&#8217;s guilty of adultery and and<br \/>\na lot of Christadelphians would <\/p>\n<p>829<br \/>\n00:42:49,800 &#8211;&gt; 00:42:52,120<br \/>\nwould like this.<br \/>\nI mean, let&#8217;s be honest, <\/p>\n<p>830<br \/>\n00:42:52,120 &#8211;&gt; 00:42:56,080<br \/>\nbrothers and sisters, we are<br \/>\nlike as people, we tend to be <\/p>\n<p>831<br \/>\n00:42:56,080 &#8211;&gt; 00:42:59,240<br \/>\nvery judgmental.<br \/>\nWe tend to make bad decisions <\/p>\n<p>832<br \/>\n00:42:59,240 &#8211;&gt; 00:43:02,720<br \/>\nabout how we treat other people.<br \/>\nIt&#8217;s hard to get into the mind <\/p>\n<p>833<br \/>\n00:43:02,720 &#8211;&gt; 00:43:05,000<br \/>\nof God.<br \/>\nIt&#8217;s hard, but when you <\/p>\n<p>834<br \/>\n00:43:05,000 &#8211;&gt; 00:43:09,280<br \/>\nappreciate how God treats you,<br \/>\nit should motivate us to treat <\/p>\n<p>835<br \/>\n00:43:09,280 &#8211;&gt; 00:43:12,600<br \/>\nother people in a better way.<br \/>\nAnd look at things like this. <\/p>\n<p>836<br \/>\n00:43:12,600 &#8211;&gt; 00:43:16,240<br \/>\nThese kind of stories just stuck<br \/>\nin my head as like, this is so <\/p>\n<p>837<br \/>\n00:43:16,240 &#8211;&gt; 00:43:19,560<br \/>\nagainst the way I grew up.<br \/>\nJesus, say to all the other <\/p>\n<p>838<br \/>\n00:43:19,560 &#8211;&gt; 00:43:21,480<br \/>\nguys, you&#8217;re right, she<br \/>\ncommitted adultery. <\/p>\n<p>839<br \/>\n00:43:21,480 &#8211;&gt; 00:43:23,640<br \/>\nThe law says we just need two or<br \/>\nthree witnesses. <\/p>\n<p>840<br \/>\n00:43:23,640 &#8211;&gt; 00:43:26,960<br \/>\nLet&#8217;s stone her.<br \/>\nHe doesn&#8217;t do that and he&#8217;s <\/p>\n<p>841<br \/>\n00:43:26,960 &#8211;&gt; 00:43:32,440<br \/>\nkeeping the law perfectly.<br \/>\nThat&#8217;s why these are great <\/p>\n<p>842<br \/>\n00:43:32,440 &#8211;&gt; 00:43:34,960<br \/>\nexamples.<br \/>\nIf it&#8217;s somebody else, it would <\/p>\n<p>843<br \/>\n00:43:34,960 &#8211;&gt; 00:43:37,760<br \/>\nbe a different story.<br \/>\nBut in the end, all he really <\/p>\n<p>844<br \/>\n00:43:37,760 &#8211;&gt; 00:43:41,240<br \/>\ncared about is that the woman<br \/>\nlearned from this and she walked<\/p>\n<p>845<br \/>\n00:43:41,240 &#8211;&gt; 00:43:43,800<br \/>\naway.<br \/>\nAnd he says in verse 11, neither<\/p>\n<p>846<br \/>\n00:43:43,800 &#8211;&gt; 00:43:46,120<br \/>\ndo I condemn you.<br \/>\nHe didn&#8217;t condemn her. <\/p>\n<p>847<br \/>\n00:43:46,120 &#8211;&gt; 00:43:47,560<br \/>\nHe wasn&#8217;t going to witness<br \/>\nagainst her. <\/p>\n<p>848<br \/>\n00:43:47,880 &#8211;&gt; 00:43:50,680<br \/>\nBut go and sin no more.<br \/>\nLearn from this. <\/p>\n<p>849<br \/>\n00:43:50,840 &#8211;&gt; 00:43:53,760<br \/>\nChange your life and go and sin<br \/>\nno more. <\/p>\n<p>850<br \/>\n00:43:54,040 &#8211;&gt; 00:43:55,640<br \/>\nAnd he goes on and says to them<br \/>\nright away. <\/p>\n<p>851<br \/>\n00:43:55,640 &#8211;&gt; 00:43:57,640<br \/>\nHe says, I am the light of the<br \/>\nworld. <\/p>\n<p>852<br \/>\n00:43:58,240 &#8211;&gt; 00:44:02,160<br \/>\nThis was the light, a new way to<br \/>\ntreat people different than the <\/p>\n<p>853<br \/>\n00:44:02,160 &#8211;&gt; 00:44:04,400<br \/>\nPharisees that taught those<br \/>\npeople of that generation. <\/p>\n<p>854<br \/>\n00:44:04,720 &#8211;&gt; 00:44:08,520<br \/>\nBut whoever follows me will not<br \/>\nwalk in darkness but have the <\/p>\n<p>855<br \/>\n00:44:08,520 &#8211;&gt; 00:44:12,600<br \/>\nlight of life, the light of<br \/>\nGod&#8217;s eternal life. <\/p>\n<p>856<br \/>\n00:44:12,880 &#8211;&gt; 00:44:16,080<br \/>\nThat life that John one talks<br \/>\nabout that was in his Son, <\/p>\n<p>857<br \/>\n00:44:16,080 &#8211;&gt; 00:44:19,000<br \/>\nmanifested from the Father.<br \/>\nThat&#8217;s that&#8217;s our God. <\/p>\n<p>858<br \/>\n00:44:19,560 &#8211;&gt; 00:44:21,720<br \/>\nI mentioned to you the other<br \/>\nday, look in Matthew one of how <\/p>\n<p>859<br \/>\n00:44:21,760 &#8211;&gt; 00:44:24,680<br \/>\nJoseph reacted.<br \/>\nYou know God put this in the <\/p>\n<p>860<br \/>\n00:44:24,680 &#8211;&gt; 00:44:28,360<br \/>\nBible record for a reason, that<br \/>\neven though he&#8217;s betrothed to <\/p>\n<p>861<br \/>\n00:44:28,360 &#8211;&gt; 00:44:32,720<br \/>\nMary, she&#8217;s now having the child<br \/>\nand she should by law she should<\/p>\n<p>862<br \/>\n00:44:32,720 &#8211;&gt; 00:44:35,160<br \/>\nbe stoned.<br \/>\nBible goes out of its way to <\/p>\n<p>863<br \/>\n00:44:35,160 &#8211;&gt; 00:44:37,360<br \/>\ntell us.<br \/>\nMatthew says then Joseph, her <\/p>\n<p>864<br \/>\n00:44:37,360 &#8211;&gt; 00:44:42,840<br \/>\nhusband, being a righteous man,<br \/>\na just man, and not wanting to <\/p>\n<p>865<br \/>\n00:44:42,840 &#8211;&gt; 00:44:46,640<br \/>\nmake a public example of her, he<br \/>\nwas minded to put her away <\/p>\n<p>866<br \/>\n00:44:46,640 &#8211;&gt; 00:44:50,040<br \/>\nsecretly.<br \/>\nSee, I bet not many of us would <\/p>\n<p>867<br \/>\n00:44:50,040 &#8211;&gt; 00:44:53,240<br \/>\nhave read the law that way.<br \/>\nI I know I wouldn&#8217;t have. <\/p>\n<p>868<br \/>\n00:44:53,240 &#8211;&gt; 00:44:55,520<br \/>\nAs a young person, I used to<br \/>\nread the law and say, well, if <\/p>\n<p>869<br \/>\n00:44:55,520 &#8211;&gt; 00:44:58,440<br \/>\nit says that she should, she<br \/>\nshould be stoned for, for being <\/p>\n<p>870<br \/>\n00:44:58,440 &#8211;&gt; 00:45:00,800<br \/>\npregnant now and being patrolled<br \/>\nto him and she&#8217;s gone and <\/p>\n<p>871<br \/>\n00:45:00,800 &#8211;&gt; 00:45:02,960<br \/>\nfaithful to him.<br \/>\nThe law said we should all pick <\/p>\n<p>872<br \/>\n00:45:02,960 &#8211;&gt; 00:45:07,160<br \/>\nup stones and stone her.<br \/>\nThat&#8217;s the way I read the law <\/p>\n<p>873<br \/>\n00:45:08,040 &#8211;&gt; 00:45:11,400<br \/>\nand I I wrong.<br \/>\nIt&#8217;s wrong to read it that way. <\/p>\n<p>874<br \/>\n00:45:11,400 &#8211;&gt; 00:45:13,560<br \/>\nThat isn&#8217;t really what it meant<br \/>\nit. <\/p>\n<p>875<br \/>\n00:45:13,560 &#8211;&gt; 00:45:17,600<br \/>\nIt may be that that&#8217;s what we<br \/>\ndeserve, yes, But mercy was <\/p>\n<p>876<br \/>\n00:45:17,600 &#8211;&gt; 00:45:21,040<br \/>\nalways there to be extended God,<br \/>\nhoping that people would learn <\/p>\n<p>877<br \/>\n00:45:21,040 &#8211;&gt; 00:45:23,480<br \/>\nfrom their mistakes.<br \/>\nAnd in this case, wasn&#8217;t even <\/p>\n<p>878<br \/>\n00:45:23,480 &#8211;&gt; 00:45:26,280<br \/>\nMary&#8217;s fault.<br \/>\nLook at how Jesus deals with <\/p>\n<p>879<br \/>\n00:45:26,280 &#8211;&gt; 00:45:29,480<br \/>\nthis in Matthew chapter 12.<br \/>\nAnd again, these stories are <\/p>\n<p>880<br \/>\n00:45:29,480 &#8211;&gt; 00:45:33,160<br \/>\nhere for us so that we should<br \/>\nunderstand how to read this law.<\/p>\n<p>881<br \/>\n00:45:33,520 &#8211;&gt; 00:45:35,840<br \/>\nAt that time, Jesus went through<br \/>\nthe grain fields, right? <\/p>\n<p>882<br \/>\n00:45:35,840 &#8211;&gt; 00:45:37,800<br \/>\nAnd the disciples were hungry,<br \/>\nand they began to pluck the <\/p>\n<p>883<br \/>\n00:45:37,800 &#8211;&gt; 00:45:40,080<br \/>\nheads of grain.<br \/>\nWhen the Pharisees saw it, they <\/p>\n<p>884<br \/>\n00:45:40,080 &#8211;&gt; 00:45:43,680<br \/>\nsaid to him, look, your<br \/>\ndisciples aren&#8217;t doing what is <\/p>\n<p>885<br \/>\n00:45:43,680 &#8211;&gt; 00:45:45,200<br \/>\nlawful.<br \/>\nThey&#8217;re not doing what they&#8217;re <\/p>\n<p>886<br \/>\n00:45:45,200 &#8211;&gt; 00:45:47,200<br \/>\ndoing what is not lawful to do<br \/>\non the Sabbath. <\/p>\n<p>887<br \/>\n00:45:47,440 &#8211;&gt; 00:45:51,240<br \/>\nThey&#8217;re breaking this rule.<br \/>\nThey&#8217;re not following the rules,<\/p>\n<p>888<br \/>\n00:45:51,240 &#8211;&gt; 00:45:52,840<br \/>\nright?<br \/>\nWe&#8217;re all good at that. <\/p>\n<p>889<br \/>\n00:45:52,840 &#8211;&gt; 00:45:56,880<br \/>\nWe watch people and we can so<br \/>\neasily say they&#8217;re not following<\/p>\n<p>890<br \/>\n00:45:56,880 &#8211;&gt; 00:45:59,440<br \/>\nthe rules.<br \/>\nAnd then Jesus, what does he say<\/p>\n<p>891<br \/>\n00:45:59,440 &#8211;&gt; 00:46:02,040<br \/>\nback to them?<br \/>\nHaven&#8217;t you read? <\/p>\n<p>892<br \/>\n00:46:02,920 &#8211;&gt; 00:46:06,680<br \/>\nDidn&#8217;t you read your Bibles?<br \/>\nAnd didn&#8217;t you notice what David<\/p>\n<p>893<br \/>\n00:46:06,680 &#8211;&gt; 00:46:09,480<br \/>\ndid when he was hungry and and<br \/>\nhe and those that were with him,<\/p>\n<p>894<br \/>\n00:46:09,720 &#8211;&gt; 00:46:13,920<br \/>\nhow he entered the House of God<br \/>\nand ate the showbread, which was<\/p>\n<p>895<br \/>\n00:46:13,920 &#8211;&gt; 00:46:18,560<br \/>\nnot lawful for him to eat.<br \/>\nDavid broke the law and wasn&#8217;t <\/p>\n<p>896<br \/>\n00:46:18,560 &#8211;&gt; 00:46:23,080<br \/>\nlawful for him to do it and and<br \/>\nGod accepted that and and what <\/p>\n<p>897<br \/>\n00:46:23,080 &#8211;&gt; 00:46:26,080<br \/>\nis what do you learn from that?<br \/>\nIs that just like a special <\/p>\n<p>898<br \/>\n00:46:26,080 &#8211;&gt; 00:46:27,760<br \/>\nexception that David could get<br \/>\naway? <\/p>\n<p>899<br \/>\n00:46:27,760 &#8211;&gt; 00:46:30,240<br \/>\nIs that how you read that that<br \/>\nGod just made an exception in <\/p>\n<p>900<br \/>\n00:46:30,240 &#8211;&gt; 00:46:34,120<br \/>\nhis case or or do you start to<br \/>\nunderstand that What do you do <\/p>\n<p>901<br \/>\n00:46:34,120 &#8211;&gt; 00:46:37,200<br \/>\nwith the Sabbath, as Jesus says<br \/>\nin the end that the Sabbath was <\/p>\n<p>902<br \/>\n00:46:37,200 &#8211;&gt; 00:46:39,440<br \/>\nmade for man not man for the<br \/>\nSabbath. <\/p>\n<p>903<br \/>\n00:46:39,720 &#8211;&gt; 00:46:43,320<br \/>\nSo when you go to rank God&#8217;s<br \/>\nlaws which one are you going to <\/p>\n<p>904<br \/>\n00:46:43,320 &#8211;&gt; 00:46:46,480<br \/>\nput on the higher scale?<br \/>\nThe fact that we love our <\/p>\n<p>905<br \/>\n00:46:46,480 &#8211;&gt; 00:46:49,320<br \/>\nneighbor as ourselves or that we<br \/>\ngot to keep the Sabbath. <\/p>\n<p>906<br \/>\n00:46:49,320 &#8211;&gt; 00:46:51,400<br \/>\nSo I&#8217;m pure.<br \/>\nWhich one are you going to hold <\/p>\n<p>907<br \/>\n00:46:51,400 &#8211;&gt; 00:46:53,520<br \/>\nup?<br \/>\nWhich one do you give the <\/p>\n<p>908<br \/>\n00:46:53,520 &#8211;&gt; 00:46:56,200<br \/>\ngreater weight to?<br \/>\nAnd and if you&#8217;re like me <\/p>\n<p>909<br \/>\n00:46:56,200 &#8211;&gt; 00:46:58,760<br \/>\ngrowing up, it would be we got<br \/>\nto keep the Sabbath. <\/p>\n<p>910<br \/>\n00:46:59,200 &#8211;&gt; 00:47:01,120<br \/>\nWe shouldn&#8217;t break this law.<br \/>\nCan&#8217;t do this. <\/p>\n<p>911<br \/>\n00:47:01,600 &#8211;&gt; 00:47:04,320<br \/>\nBut then whatever happened to<br \/>\nlove your neighbor as yourself <\/p>\n<p>912<br \/>\n00:47:04,320 &#8211;&gt; 00:47:06,520<br \/>\nAnd these people are hungry and<br \/>\nthey need to be fed. <\/p>\n<p>913<br \/>\n00:47:06,880 &#8211;&gt; 00:47:07,960<br \/>\nWhere?<br \/>\nWhere&#8217;s that? <\/p>\n<p>914<br \/>\n00:47:08,560 &#8211;&gt; 00:47:11,920<br \/>\nWell, you just conveniently<br \/>\nforget about that one. <\/p>\n<p>915<br \/>\n00:47:12,720 &#8211;&gt; 00:47:17,240<br \/>\nBut Jesus is always ranking<br \/>\nrules, and what what comes out <\/p>\n<p>916<br \/>\n00:47:17,240 &#8211;&gt; 00:47:21,080<br \/>\non top is treating people with<br \/>\nthe love of God. <\/p>\n<p>917<br \/>\n00:47:21,080 &#8211;&gt; 00:47:24,040<br \/>\nI don&#8217;t know whether you&#8217;ve ever<br \/>\nnoticed that, but that is the <\/p>\n<p>918<br \/>\n00:47:24,040 &#8211;&gt; 00:47:25,840<br \/>\nnumber one rule that got us<br \/>\nafter. <\/p>\n<p>919<br \/>\n00:47:25,840 &#8211;&gt; 00:47:29,200<br \/>\nHe cares about people.<br \/>\nHe cares about the widows and <\/p>\n<p>920<br \/>\n00:47:29,200 &#8211;&gt; 00:47:32,720<br \/>\nthe orphans, He cares about all<br \/>\nof the people and how we treat <\/p>\n<p>921<br \/>\n00:47:32,720 &#8211;&gt; 00:47:34,680<br \/>\nthem.<br \/>\nAnd it&#8217;s just so clear. <\/p>\n<p>922<br \/>\n00:47:34,680 &#8211;&gt; 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